work dilemna

[Gen]

Re: work dilemna

ok me'd a translate fi har


she says that deep dung she nuh believe him do nothing to harm the pickney BUT she cannot be 100% sure. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img] the pickney had regular checkup wid Ped and nothing nuh show up.

but saka she nuh 100% sure, she feel seh the odda ooman should know bout it. him had been dating odda people and she nain business bout them but choo she know marrij might lead to pickney, she seh she feel the odda oooman need fi know bout it. she seh she nuh business wah the odda ooman want do wid ie information she juss feel seh she fe tell har.


Ms Marie, yes him have visitation with the girls..dem bigga now and she mek sure question dem and talk to dem bout dem tings deh.

she seh she nuh have nuh axe fi grind.


she seh she been strugglin wid it fi years

[ZaraJah]

Re: work dilemna

She is looking for somewhere to tranfer her guilt then, is she?

Any relationship can lead to children so I don't believe she is being honest with her true feelings. She might resent the fact that he is getting remarried and want to do something to "drive a nail."

If she is so concerned, and feel that the woman "needs to know", tell her to speak with HIM and demand that HE tells her then, or else...she will, although she would rather not get in the middle of it, for fear that she might detect "jealousy"...which of course, would not be true. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img]

Let's see how she chews that cabbage. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body">dang. suh ongly mi alone wouldan want know bout that part of him past ?

mi will tell har the response dem [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img] and hear wah she seh. </div></div>

de fiancee should be asking questions like these b4 she tun fianceee... Unno tink dating is fi fun only? No sah! u suppose fi ask hard questions & observe behavior dat de time

[CeaBee]

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ehmm suppose fi ask if u boyfriend is a pedophile?
dat is someting u normally presume innocent until u see someting dat mek u suspicious.

honestly, if Gen friend seh someting to the fiance she not gwine believe it anyway.

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ehmm suppose fi ask if u boyfriend is a pedophile?
dat is someting u normally presume innocent until u see someting dat mek u suspicious.

honestly, if Gen friend seh someting to the fiance she not gwine believe it anyway.

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yep I used to ask all the questions... dose who fraid a me well.. dem wasnt ready fi someone like me so less drama dung de road fi mi deal wid.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img]

[MarieK]

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wait one second here, if she does this and ruins the mans life, (remember it wasn't serious enuff to call the police) cuz no woman I know would hear that and not create a big stink over it, if I recieved that call, the entire nation woulda hear by di time mi done, so anyhow, what if he loses friends, family, money (he's already paid for ring and other thigns in anticpation of marriage), job, home and other things based on her assumptions, can he sue her for slander.

[CeaBee]

Re: work dilemna

are u a pedophile? somehow me noh get the feeling that there would ever be a yes to this question...but me get your drift

[CeaBee]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wait one second here, if she does this and ruins the mans life, (remember it wasn't serious enuff to call the police) cuz no woman I know would hear that and not create a big stink over it, if I recieved that call, the entire nation woulda hear by di time mi done, so anyhow, what if he loses friends, family, money (he's already paid for ring and other thigns in anticpation of marriage), job, home and other things based on her assumptions, can he sue her for slander. </div></div>

more than likely the fiance would get the call...ask him questions and he would convince her that him ex-wife just bitter and trying to ruin him life...

[MarieK]

Re: work dilemna

ahhh but CB that's if she's rational, most of us upon hearing that a man we are sleeping with is suspected of these things can wreak havoc in the man's life. Would she be liable.

[Gen]

Re: work dilemna

ok mi a chry multitask [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

she ask him bout it and him always deny it, how could he not have remembered doing that [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img]

suh him nah guh admit to it eeda way. she has never told his family about it eedah.

she seh she was in some serious shock.

but she feel is time fi tell the world even if it mean she a guh get some a the blame fi nat bringing it up earlier.

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after mi read everting to har mi think she a guh wid weh Nunya seh

lawd mi feel drained. a how therapists do dem sitten yah every day \0/

[Gen]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wait one second here, if she does this and ruins the mans life, (remember it wasn't serious enuff to call the police) cuz no woman I know would hear that and not create a big stink over it, if I recieved that call, the entire nation woulda hear by di time mi done, so anyhow, what if he loses friends, family, money (he's already paid for ring and other thigns in anticpation of marriage), job, home and other things based on her assumptions, can he sue her for slander. </div></div>

she seh this is not a case of slander cause a nuh lie she a tell pan him and she now willing fi guh all the way wid ie story [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crazy.gif[/img]

[MarieK]

Re: work dilemna

dats y therapist get nuff money.

What effect will this have on the kids since they claim (also) tha nothing happened

[MarieK]

Re: work dilemna

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wait one second here, if she does this and ruins the mans life, (remember it wasn't serious enuff to call the police) cuz no woman I know would hear that and not create a big stink over it, if I recieved that call, the entire nation woulda hear by di time mi done, so anyhow, what if he loses friends, family, money (he's already paid for ring and other thigns in anticpation of marriage), job, home and other things based on her assumptions, can he sue her for slander. </div></div>

she seh this is not a case of slander cause a nuh lie she a tell pan him and she now willing fi guh all the way wid ie story [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crazy.gif[/img] </div></div>

but guess wah, dat would be for a jury to decide and wid given the facts and the fact that after the divorce she still let shim see the kids then I would be against her.

[Gen]

Re: work dilemna

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">dats y therapist get nuff money.

What effect will this have on the kids since they claim (also) tha nothing happened </div></div>



mi nuh know what effect this will have pan them [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]

[MarieK]

Re: work dilemna

and that's what she needss to consider, not some woman who isn't related to her