work dilemna

**Gen** · 09-17-2007, 02:27 PM

Re: work dilemna

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
but saka she nuh 100% sure, she feel seh the odda ooman should know bout it. him had been dating odda people and she nain business bout them but choo she know marrij might lead to pickney, she seh she feel the odda oooman need fi know bout it. she seh she nuh business wah the odda ooman want do wid ie information she juss feel seh she fe tell har.

</div></div> so how she fi tell her sumtin she nuh really sure even occur ....to me dat would be jus plain bad mind </div></div>

she seh she is SURE he was doing that on the bed while the child was next to him... she just wasn't SURE that he did anything to the child.

is like Marie seh no man nuh suppose fi a do that next to dem pickney </div></div>

mi nuh think that mek him a pervert or a deviant..the child would not even have a clue as to what was going on .... sound to me like she is tranfering some of her own personal hangups </div></div>

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rich there is a time and place fi all dem tings deh enuh ? mi nuh think dat should have been the place

**RichD** · 09-17-2007, 02:28 PM

Re: work dilemna

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
so you think from the sketch given that what he was doing in some way was related to the presence of the child? </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70392-silly.gif[/img] I wasn't aware that there was any doubt... especially given that the sketch outlined that it occured twice as far as the mother knew... </div></div> i guess mi nuh have dem kinda mindset to imediately mek dat connection mi jus think him check sey the toddler is blissfully unaware so him a deal wid him tings

**Nunya** · 09-17-2007, 02:28 PM

Re: work dilemna

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so adults having sex in the room with a baby/todler is deviant behavior? </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img] I understood that he was wanking off... or did I read it wrong?

And going from my understanding, he was jacking off with the baby there, prolly looking at the kid for stimuli...

**Gen** · 09-17-2007, 02:28 PM

Re: work dilemna

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so adults having sex in the room with a baby/todler is deviant behavior? </div></div>

this sound like one a yuh trick question dem [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

**RichD** · 09-17-2007, 02:30 PM

Re: work dilemna

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
but saka she nuh 100% sure, she feel seh the odda ooman should know bout it. him had been dating odda people and she nain business bout them but choo she know marrij might lead to pickney, she seh she feel the odda oooman need fi know bout it. she seh she nuh business wah the odda ooman want do wid ie information she juss feel seh she fe tell har.

</div></div> so how she fi tell her sumtin she nuh really sure even occur ....to me dat would be jus plain bad mind </div></div>

she seh she is SURE he was doing that on the bed while the child was next to him... she just wasn't SURE that he did anything to the child.

is like Marie seh no man nuh suppose fi a do that next to dem pickney </div></div>

mi nuh think that mek him a pervert or a deviant..the child would not even have a clue as to what was going on .... sound to me like she is tranfering some of her own personal hangups </div></div>

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rich there is a time and place fi all dem tings deh enuh ? mi nuh think dat should have been the place </div></div>

ui agree with you on that ...so him show lack of class but that stil nuh mek him a deviant

**RichD** · 09-17-2007, 02:30 PM

Re: work dilemna

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so adults having sex in the room with a baby/todler is deviant behavior? </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img] I understood that he was wanking off... or did I read it wrong?

And going from my understanding, he was jacking off with the baby there, prolly looking at the kid for stimuli... </div></div> sick mind[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] so u come to this conclusion ..yet yuh nuh wonder why is only now is a concer to the x-wife?

**Nunya** · 09-17-2007, 02:34 PM

Re: work dilemna

Mi ansa alla dat aready... dis conversation is becoming circular... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-sleeping.gif[/img]

**RichD** · 09-17-2007, 02:38 PM

Re: work dilemna

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Mi ansa alla dat aready... dis conversation is becoming circular... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-sleeping.gif[/img] </div></div>look like somebody delete yuh answer ..or was "are you kidding me" the answer?

i think unno too willing to read alot more into this than is there.

**Gen** · 09-17-2007, 02:40 PM

Re: work dilemna

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
but saka she nuh 100% sure, she feel seh the odda ooman should know bout it. him had been dating odda people and she nain business bout them but choo she know marrij might lead to pickney, she seh she feel the odda oooman need fi know bout it. she seh she nuh business wah the odda ooman want do wid ie information she juss feel seh she fe tell har.

</div></div> so how she fi tell her sumtin she nuh really sure even occur ....to me dat would be jus plain bad mind </div></div>

she seh she is SURE he was doing that on the bed while the child was next to him... she just wasn't SURE that he did anything to the child.

is like Marie seh no man nuh suppose fi a do that next to dem pickney </div></div>

mi nuh think that mek him a pervert or a deviant..the child would not even have a clue as to what was going on .... sound to me like she is tranfering some of her own personal hangups </div></div>

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rich there is a time and place fi all dem tings deh enuh ? mi nuh think dat should have been the place </div></div>

ui agree with you on that ...so him show lack of class but that stil nuh mek him a deviant </div></div>

den wah mek him nuh juss admit it den (if inna fi him mind it is ok) cause if him dweet den him muss find it acceptable ? suh mek him can't just admit it.

or him realize seh it wrang and decide fi gwaan like it nevah happen ?

**julie*mango** · 09-17-2007, 02:40 PM

Re: work dilemna

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**tsophra** · 09-17-2007, 02:40 PM

Re: work dilemna

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ok. so this chic mi work wid a ask mi wah she fi do. mi tell har mi will get some advice and get back to har. she and har ex divorce now bout 4 years.

backtrack to when one a dem 2 daughter was a toddler..she walk by the bedroom pan har way to someweh else and see him pan the bed under the cover a *ahem* yuh know hangle him business. the ting is the likkle girl did deh pan the bed too. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crazy.gif[/img]

at least she think that a wah him was doing.

she seh

"what are you doing"

"nothing"

so she juss galang bout har way. she harself kinda traumatize by the incident she nuh know if him did junk or wah \0/

one next time she a pass again and see him a do the same thing so she juss guh pick up the pickney offa the bed and guh sleep inna guest room. I don't ask har what action she tek with him bout the incidents.

fastforward to today. him a get remarrij. she a ask mi if she should tell the fiancee bout the incidents. or leave it alone. she a ask me if a did me would I want to know about the incidents ? if it was you would you want to know ?

lawd geezas a how drama come find mi though \0/ </div></div>

smaddy may have asked dis already..but me nu read de whole ting yet [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]
me wanda if she let her daughters be alone wid im after the divorce [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek.gif[/img]

**RichD** · 09-17-2007, 02:50 PM

Re: work dilemna

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Geneva</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
but saka she nuh 100% sure, she feel seh the odda ooman should know bout it. him had been dating odda people and she nain business bout them but choo she know marrij might lead to pickney, she seh she feel the odda oooman need fi know bout it. she seh she nuh business wah the odda ooman want do wid ie information she juss feel seh she fe tell har.

</div></div> so how she fi tell her sumtin she nuh really sure even occur ....to me dat would be jus plain bad mind </div></div>

she seh she is SURE he was doing that on the bed while the child was next to him... she just wasn't SURE that he did anything to the child.

is like Marie seh no man nuh suppose fi a do that next to dem pickney </div></div>

mi nuh think that mek him a pervert or a deviant..the child would not even have a clue as to what was going on .... sound to me like she is tranfering some of her own personal hangups </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img]

rich there is a time and place fi all dem tings deh enuh ? mi nuh think dat should have been the place </div></div>

ui agree with you on that ...so him show lack of class but that stil nuh mek him a deviant </div></div>

den wah mek him nuh juss admit it den (if inna fi him mind it is ok) cause if him dweet den him muss find it acceptable ? suh mek him can't just admit it.

or him realize seh it wrang and decide fi gwaan like it nevah happen ? </div></div>

so yuh sk her if she did discuss it wid him at the time?

an when yuh talk to her ask her whats her view on masturbation.

**MarieK** · 09-17-2007, 03:03 PM

Re: work dilemna

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> sound to me like she nevah thingk enoguh of it at the time to worry herself ..but now dat dem divorce and ting an him a move on is now a big concern. </div></div>

So???? Considering that a child's welfare could be in jeopardy, her base motive (acarding to oonuu) is irrelevant...

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but Nunya, she never cared about her own child to report him, I find it hard to beleive she's playing good samaritan now, she has trusted this man to allow her kids around him AFTER the divorce so how dangerous could she think he is.

guilt or anger that he's moving on. Ok, well how about this, how about confronting HIM, after all this is between him and her and their kids, not the new fiancee

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