How would you have re acted?

[kia027]

Re: How would you have re acted?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Not literally cussing out, she didn't do it in front of anybody it was in the car. I can understand when she was telling me she was so upset she started to cry. Women run a whole gambit of emotions when things are happening. </div></div>

she's playing the victim.. If she just asserted herself and said, hi I am &lt;insertnamehere&gt; she wouldnt be insulted.. and she would have known then & there 1) if her man genuinely forgot 2) there was a reason why he didnt do it 3) im a bawn idiat

he should just dump her cause she doan know how to assert herself in simple situations what is she going to do when the big things happen? bawl again? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]

[CeaBee]

Re: How would you have re acted?

tears in her eyes ovah dat?

methinks something else mussi a gwaan in that relationship why she get so upset over simple things.

[Suesumba]

Re: How would you have re acted?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
It's common sense for him to have introduced her</div></div>

some people noh have no broughtupsy or sense much less common sense [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

Re: How would you have re acted?

wait deh.. Boopie seh "gambit of emotions" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img]

[Boopie2]

Re: How would you have re acted?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Not literally cussing out, she didn't do it in front of anybody it was in the car. I can understand when she was telling me she was so upset she started to cry. Women run a whole gambit of emotions when things are happening. </div></div>

she's playing the victim.. If she just asserted herself and said, hi I am &lt;insertnamehere&gt; she wouldnt be insulted.. and she would have known then & there 1) if her man genuinely forgot 2) there was a reason why he didnt do it 3) im a bawn idiat

he should just dump her cause she doan know how to assert herself in simple situations what is she going to do when the big things happen? bawl again? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] </div></div>


They have been going together for over 10 years, she says she knows exactly what shes going to do. So it's just a matter of time I guess.

[Boopie2]

Re: How would you have re acted?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wait deh.. Boopie seh "gambit of emotions" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img] </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] Lord, you would have to pick on that but you didn't see my post I sent you yesterday in General. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: How would you have re acted?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Not literally cussing out, she didn't do it in front of anybody it was in the car. I can understand when she was telling me she was so upset she started to cry. Women run a whole gambit of emotions when things are happening. </div></div>

she's playing the victim.. If she just asserted herself and said, hi I am &lt;insertnamehere&gt; she wouldnt be insulted.. and she would have known then & there 1) if her man genuinely forgot 2) there was a reason why he didnt do it 3) im a bawn idiat

he should just dump her cause she doan know how to assert herself in simple situations what is she going to do when the big things happen? bawl again? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] </div></div>


They have been going together for over 10 years, she says she knows exactly what shes going to do. So it's just a matter of time I guess. </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img]10 years an is only boyfrn/girlfrn [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whistle.gif[/img]

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: How would you have re acted?

Well it is obvious to me that he is ashamed to be with her, perhaps she has halitosis and that's why he does not introduce her to his friends...[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

she should dump him [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[Boopie2]

Re: How would you have re acted?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Not literally cussing out, she didn't do it in front of anybody it was in the car. I can understand when she was telling me she was so upset she started to cry. Women run a whole gambit of emotions when things are happening. </div></div>

she's playing the victim.. If she just asserted herself and said, hi I am &lt;insertnamehere&gt; she wouldnt be insulted.. and she would have known then & there 1) if her man genuinely forgot 2) there was a reason why he didnt do it 3) im a bawn idiat

he should just dump her cause she doan know how to assert herself in simple situations what is she going to do when the big things happen? bawl again? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] </div></div>


They have been going together for over 10 years, she says she knows exactly what shes going to do. So it's just a matter of time I guess. </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img]10 years an is only boyfrn/girlfrn [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whistle.gif[/img] </div></div>

Yes, he's a widow and my friend has been separated from her abusive husband years before they met.

[CeaBee]

Re: How would you have re acted?

she doan feel acknowledged, cause she tired a juss being girlfriend and want to be wife?

so him not introducing her to his friend is symbolic of how he refuses to acknowledge her in his life as being special enough to be his wife.



juss call me Dr Coolbeans - ja.com board therapist [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

until boopie come and blow me theory apart [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bexbad.gif[/img]

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: How would you have re acted?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">she doan feel acknowledged, cause she tired a juss being girlfriend and want to be wife?

so him not introducing her to his friend is symbolic of how he refuses to acknowledge her in his life as being special enough to be his wife.



juss call me Dr Coolbeans - ja.com board therapist [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

until boopie come and blow me theory apart [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bexbad.gif[/img] </div></div>

yu have any openings? I need an appointment, how much yu charge? mi can barter for yu services?

[ZaraJah]

Re: How would you have re acted?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tanyah_Haynat</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Well it is obvious to me that he is ashamed to be with her, perhaps she has halitosis and that's why he does not introduce her to his friends...[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

she should dump him [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] </div></div>

LOL! [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[CeaBee]

Re: How would you have re acted?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
yu have any openings? I need an appointment, how much yu charge? mi can barter for yu services? </div></div>

barter shmarter....barter doan buy big house and cyar [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

[Stormmey]

Re: How would you have re acted?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tanyah_Haynat</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Looks Wahalla has taught you well Beans [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

as to the story, the girl is insecure...if shi did want fi meet di fren sooooo bad shi shoulda did juss introduce har self. </div></div>

It's common sense for him to have introduced her, this isn't about being insecure at all. I've never had this happen to me and I can see where she would be upset over it. I've been out plenty of times and have run into someone who knows my husband, I''ve always been introduced. </div></div>

I think her behaviour- ie:"cussing out" was unnecessary (sp) </div></div>


Not literally cussing out, she didn't do it in front of anybody it was in the car. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] I can understand when she was telling me she was so upset she started to cry. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img] Women run a whole gambit of emotions when things are happening. </div></div>

she started crying [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] fa wa If was me I really couldn't a care less, but then that's just me [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img]

[Hush Darlin]

Re: How would you have re acted?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i'd have sex with his friend. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img] that'll learn him [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img] </div></div>
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