Where are all the good men?

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Where are all the good men?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blugiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> oonoo a look fii man fii mine oonnoo </div></div>

yu mussi drink a whole leep ah mad puss [censored] fi yu seh sumtin suh stupid....... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

[ZaraJah]

Re: Where are all the good men?

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] Thanks.

See, what I realize is that too many women give up/in. They look tirelessly in the same exact place their many geerlfriends are looking - for and at the same 3 men.

Even when those 3 men were not their type, over time, they start to talk each other into COMPROMISING, as if that mean you should sell your soul to the devil. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

Good men are not where you'd think they are. They are not going to be in clubs til the crack of dawn, because they have responsibilities.

Good men do not end up in bed with a woman they have just met, because they have respect for themselves...

Good men will not hang out on the corner, he is too busy showing the fatherless kids how to get it together.

They don't hang out at night in every bar...Many of them are taking night classes (for that advanced degree) or volunteering on weekends with the Big Brother clubs or being porters at the hospitals or doing whatever it takes to fulfill their "community service" requirement for their MD, PhD or MBA. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]

Simple: "If you keep doing what you do, you'll keep getting what you got." Robert Woodson, Sr.

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Where are all the good men?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blugiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body">bredrens wey ave too woree bout golddiggas. y iss itt oomen chattinn bout man packet soo much. oonoo a look fii man fii mine oonnoo </div></div>

you're a real twat [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img] </div></div> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[Nylah]

Re: Where are all the good men?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Especially cause I have been with a few good ones in the past. </div></div>

... and they're in the past because? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img]

a) the grass is greener syndrome?
b) you didn't recognize a good man till he's gone?
c) your criteria has changed and what was once a mediocre man is now seen as a good man?
d) you were a bad woman? </div></div>

None of the above actually.

They people can be at different places in their lives when they meet and not want the same thing at the same time.

Doesnt mean we were awful to each other. I can deal with most things as long as someone is reasonably honest [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

Nothing deeper than that.

PS. If makes everyone feel better, I have dated some real [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img]

[Bandana]

Re: Where are all the good men?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Zarah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] Thanks.

See, what I realize is that too many women give up/in. They look tirelessly in the same exact place their many geerlfriends are looking - for and at the same 3 men.

Even when those 3 men were not their type, over time, they start to talk each other into COMPROMISING, as if that mean you should sell your soul to the devil. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

Good men are not where you'd think they are. They are not going to be in clubs til the crack of dawn, because they have responsibilities.

Good men do not end up in bed with a woman they have just met, because they have respect for themselves...

Good men will not hang out on the corner, he is too busy showing the fatherless kids how to get it together.

They don't hang out at night in every bar...Many of them are taking night classes (for that advanced degree) or volunteering on weekends with the Big Brother clubs or being porters at the hospitals or doing whatever it takes to fulfill their "community service" requirement for their MD, PhD or MBA. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]

Simple: "If you keep doing what you do, you'll keep getting what you got." Robert Woodson, Sr.

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[Bandana]

Re: Where are all the good men?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
PS. If makes everyone feel better, I have dated some real [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img] </div></div>


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My day just got better [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif[/img]






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[MarieK]

Re: Where are all the good men?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blugiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body">bredrens wey ave too woree bout golddiggas. y iss itt oomen chattinn bout man packet soo much. oonoo a look fii man fii mine oonnoo </div></div>

you're a real twat [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img] </div></div> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img] Sue [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] but u couldn't have sed it better. Yuh kown fram how lang mi a try fine di appropriate way fi seh ie

[MarieK]

Re: Where are all the good men?

remember you have to go through some trash fi fine gold ennuh.

[Nylah]

Re: Where are all the good men?


Couldnt have said it better Zarah [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

Women tend to look in the same place all the time and expect different results.

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Bananaramagyal - you too rude [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

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[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Where are all the good men?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Couldnt have said it better Zarah [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

Women tend to look in the same place all the time and expect different results. </div></div>Women also need to adress their own "issues" because sometimes that is the underlying cause of why they are not finding/attracting/recognising the "good men"

[Nylah]

Re: Where are all the good men?



I think that is part and parcel of looking in the "same place" and expecting something different.

To change what you are doing to attract the kind of man you are looking for means that you have to change those things inside you that may be keeping them at arms length.

When you know better you will do better and thus get a different outcome.

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Where are all the good men?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Bananaramagyal - you too rude [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

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[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Where are all the good men?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

I think that is part and parcel of looking in the "same place" and expecting something different.

To change what you are doing to attract the kind of man you are looking for means that you have to change those things inside you that may be keeping them at arms length.

When you know better you will do better and thus get a different outcome.
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Not always [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

[Nylah]

Re: Where are all the good men?


Okay Miss Hot-Steppa, explain why it doesnt hold true [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]


Me tinks Miss Bully misunderstands me but I will give her the benefit of the doubt first.

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Where are all the good men?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Okay Miss Hot-Steppa, explain why it doesnt hold true [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]


Me tinks Miss Bully misunderstands me but I will give her the benefit of the doubt first. </div></div>I understand you just fine [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img] but knowing better does not always equate doing better....for example a woman may know that she has commitment issues/abandonment issues and has addressed them yet is still attracted to or attracts men who are unavailable ....anyways I said does not always hold true.....