Question for you married/coupled up peeps

[MarieK]

Re: Question for you married/coupled up peeps

Tanya him is a big man mi can't control it. There are some men who you can in some way avoid their steppig out and those are committed men who need to be interested in their relationship. The others are just prone to cheating. Yes those exist I've met a few [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bexbad.gif[/img]

When dealing wtih the latter you can do nothing but step away from them but the former, well you have to be imaginative, plus if the man doesn't notice something call his attention to it. They are not the most detail oriented persons in the world.

People think u get married that's just it. The hard work just begun. You need to do things that are interesting. You have to set aside quality time and that doesn't mean smothering him and have him under house arrest. Where u going where u been wen u going why an wid who u going how yuh getting dere an wat u going tuh duh wen u dere every single time i sannoying.

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">plus if the man doesn't notice something call his attention to it. They are not the most detail oriented persons in the world.
</div></div>That's a nice way to put it. Dem fool [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whistle.gif[/img]

[nattydreadgirl]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">plus if the man doesn't notice something call his attention to it. They are not the most detail oriented persons in the world.
</div></div>That's a nice way to put it. Dem fool enuh [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whistle.gif[/img] </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] have to agree with you on that one!

[Gen]

Re: Question for you married/coupled up peeps

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">plus if the man doesn't notice something call his attention to it. They are not the most detail oriented persons in the world.
</div></div>That's a nice way to put it. Dem fool bad [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whistle.gif[/img] </div></div>

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[julie*mango]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TanyaAynat</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Do you think you can "prevent" your spouse/SO from having an affair?

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No, dats why it good fi have smaddy roun di place yu can bun dem back wid [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bannana_purple.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

Re: Question for you married/coupled up peeps

yeh, but moderator RichD sez if yu sweat him food pan di reggila him nat going nowhere. dang. now i'm confused and dazed. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/nahtalktoyuh.gif[/img]

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

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sweat inna de man food??

hmmm, so weh yuh do when yuh tie de man an him tek set pon u one and den yuh nuh want him again?? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

[MarieK]

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di problem wid dis tie man ting is dere is no way fi loose dem wen u ready

[julie*mango]

Re: Question for you married/coupled up peeps

chue ting [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img]

[Gen]

Re: Question for you married/coupled up peeps

suh how the tie ting work ? unnu come humah me

[julie*mango]

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Well, mi know seh stew peas tie Richie [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">sweat inna de man food??

hmmm, so weh yuh do when yuh tie de man an him tek set pon u one and den yuh nuh want him again?? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] </div></div>

cut the brake line in his car [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/breakdance.gif[/img]

[diabolical_Tanya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Freaky_Gen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">suh how the tie ting work ? unnu come humah me </div></div>Yes mi well waaah know to as mi have smaddy in mind [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/popcorn.gif[/img]

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Question for you married/coupled up peeps

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">sweat inna de man food??

hmmm, so weh yuh do when yuh tie de man an him tek set pon u one and den yuh nuh want him again?? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] </div></div>

cut the brake line in his car [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/breakdance.gif[/img] </div></div>

got it

[neutral]

Re: Question for you married/coupled up peeps

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TanyaAynat</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Do you think you can "prevent" your spouse/SO from having an affair?

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speaking as one in a long term relationship I certainly dont think it`s possible to prevent someone from having an affair.

As one poster suggested above,most people in a relationship may stray because there is something missing in the relationship,it may be not enough sex,or bad sex,not enough hugs,not being appreciated,being taken for granted,etc etc.
Unless both partners can continue to tick all the boxes year in year out,then there will never be any guarantee that the other wont stray.