Black woman a fi yuh owna fault caz a you pick de man

[Emperah]

A suh shi seh, not I \0/

[Tropicana]

No no no...the men pick the women. Tommy Sotomayor said so so it must be true:

http://www.jamaicans.com/forums/showthread.php?73480-Why-don-t-men-choose-quality-women

She right about de too quick to drop baggy fi low quality men pawt though...I would say to quick to drop baggy PERIOD!

I don't buy this law of attraction putting out into the universe garbage though.

[kia027]

she has a lot of good points and yes women do pick the men.. How many times when I was dating I would think 'no sah, you cannot know me '

[Tropicana]

We can say no thank you but we do not do the initial picking. If a man ain't interested you could strip dung and give im a lap dance and you know what just ain't getting off the couch to quote the Millionaire Matchmaker.

By contrast, if a woman isn't interested in a man, if he is patient, he can woo her over time as long as he is not a total right off.

[Emperah]

We can say no thank you but we do not do the initial picking. If a man ain't interested you could strip dung and give im a lap dance and you know what just ain't getting off the couch to quote the Millionaire Matchmaker.

By contrast, if a woman isn't interested in a man, if he is patient, he can woo her over time as long as he is not a total right off.

you are speaking fi yuhself an wi kno seh yuh nuh nahmal ahreddy

[Emperah]

she has a lot of good points and yes women do pick the men.. How many times when I was dating I would think 'no sah, you cannot know me '

fi real

[Tropicana]

you are speaking fi yuhself an wi kno seh yuh nuh nahmal ahreddy

Which pawt? Couldn't be de stripping dung and lap dancing part mi noh inna dat

If is the part about women eventually being attracted to men who woo them and in whom dem did not have an interest in the first place, a common every day occurence dat.

Speaking of not narmal yes mi know mi lickle more dan half mad but you totally gawn from long time now.

[Tropicana]

[Fancy DatdamnDiva]

you are speaking fi yuhself an wi kno seh yuh nuh nahmal ahreddy

[Fancy DatdamnDiva]

she has a lot of good points and yes women do pick the men.. How many times when I was dating I would think 'no sah, you cannot know me '

[CeaBee]

imo, A woman cannot "pick" the man unless the man interested. Yes, him will sleep with her, and what not, but if him not interested him just waiting for the next ship and doan really want nuh long term relationship bizness

Women on the other hand *can* be wooed. If the man tek him time and show her seh him nice and patient and would be good father material, in many cases a woman will change her mind and enter into a relationship.

*agreeing with Tropicana.........disclaimer : never watch video....cause them ting usually just people that think dem really deep but them video just fool.

[RichD]

law of pressure and proximity work from both sides.

if woman patient and "wooing" she can get thru too

[Fancy DatdamnDiva]

imo, A woman cannot "pick" the man unless the man interested. Yes, him will sleep with her, and what not, but if him not interested him just waiting for the next ship and doan really want nuh long term relationship bizness

Women on the other hand *can* be wooed. If the man tek him time and show her seh him nice and patient and would be good father material, in many cases a woman will change her mind and enter into a relationship.

*agreeing with Tropicana.........disclaimer : never watch video....cause them ting usually just people that thing dem really deep but the video just fool.

so doesnt that mean the woman made the choice?? thus meaning she picked him?

i guess im confused b/c women in my circle dont go after men...men come after them. so in that case she "picks" what man she wants to date or enter into a relationship.

On the other hand i can totally see how if a woman goes after a man, he not interested then yes HE is doing the choosing.

Imo, i think woman should allow men do what they do...they chase...they hunters. so let them come after you so you can then choose which man is the best to date or enter into a relationship.
Just because they chase us dont mean we have to choose them We pick who we want

guess im old fashioned

[Fancy DatdamnDiva]

law of pressure and proximity work from both sides.

if woman patient and "wooing" she can get thru too

tru tru

[CeaBee]

law of pressure and proximity work from both sides.

if woman patient and "wooing" she can get thru too

You think it work the same on both genders? I think a man more likely to get thru. .....and the man more likely to move on if someone him really interested in catch him attention.