Black woman a fi yuh owna fault caz a you pick de man

[CeaBee]

so doesnt that mean the woman made the choice?? thus meaning she picked him?

i guess im confused b/c women in my circle dont go after men...men come after them. so in that case she "picks" what man she wants to date or enter into a relationship.

On the other hand i can totally see how if a woman goes after a man, he not interested then yes HE is doing the choosing.

Imo, i think woman should allow men do what they do...they chase...they hunters. so let them come after you so you can then choose which man is the best to date or enter into a relationship.
Just because they chase us dont mean we have to choose them We pick who we want

guess im old fashioned

So the men do the initial picking. The women can then make her choice from that lot. ok I guess we kinda on the same page.

[Fancy DatdamnDiva]

So the men do the initial picking. The women can then make her choice from that lot. ok I guess we kinda on the same page.

kinda

mi feel seh man have interest initially and woman do the picking after shi see who interested in her.

b/c he can be interested ALL DAY but if the woman dont pick him well he not getting chose yuhsimi

[CeaBee]

No. me doan see you

ok ...me kinda see u

[RichD]

You think it work the same on both genders? I think a man more likely to get thru. .....and the man more likely to move on if someone him really interested in catch him attention.

maybe because man more persistent by nature.

man will tek no and keep comin back....woman will read all kinda tings into it and over analyse the situation

[Fancy DatdamnDiva]

No. me doan see you

ok ...me kinda see u

zeeen

[j-kid]

An mi sure it certainly naa goh hurt as bad if him hav money?

imo, A woman cannot "pick" the man unless the man interested. Yes, him will sleep with her, and what not, but if him not interested him just waiting for the next ship and doan really want nuh long term relationship bizness

Women on the other hand *can* be wooed. If the man tek him time and show her seh him nice and patient and would be good father material, in many cases a woman will change her mind and enter into a relationship.

*agreeing with Tropicana.........disclaimer : never watch video....cause them ting usually just people that thing dem really deep but the video just fool.

[Tropicana]

law of pressure and proximity work from both sides.

if woman patient and "wooing" she can get thru too

I don't think so...maybe she can get a man to sleep with her but definitely not to commit.

[Tropicana]

maybe because man more persistent by nature.

man will tek no and keep comin back....woman will read all kinda tings into it and over analyse the situation

If a man is really interested he will keep trying and trying until im wear you dung.

[RichD]

so why dat nuh work for woman too ? dem conditioned to think that they don't need to try ...dem know sey dem have the magnet so if it come to dat dem jus draw it and see how it go

[Emperah]

so why dat nuh work for woman too ? dem conditioned to think that they don't need to try ...dem know sey dem have the magnet so if it come to dat dem jus draw it and see how it go

wah bout de one dem foofah magnet wear out till it weak

[Tropicana]

Men and women are wired differently RichD and Emperah. It's as simple as that.

[CeaBee]

y ...dem know sey dem have the magnet so if it come to dat dem jus draw it and see how it go

this sound like a good way to get her heart broken

no sah. the man will sleep with her knowing that him absoultely have no interest in teking things any further than the bedroom...while she trying to get a commitment

[Tropicana]

this sound like a good way to get her heart broken

no sah. the man will sleep with her knowing that him absoultely have no interest in teking things any further than the bedroom...while she trying to get a committment

Exactly! That is why de baggy must remain firmly fastened in place.

[RichD]

this sound like a good way to get her heart broken

no sah. the man will sleep with her knowing that him absoultely have no interest in teking things any further than the bedroom...while she trying to get a committment

yes that is the point i making ..she a try tek the easy route to get a commitment when it most likely won't work


whereas a man has to put in the work to change her mind. the same way he can put in the work she can put in the work too.

the law of pressure and proximity is infallible

[RichD]

Men and women are wired differently RichD and Emperah. It's as simple as that.

yes so we trying to share some insight with you so you can understand different route/option