Dating Timeline - Anyone Else agree this is much too Aggressive

[Emperah]

even if yuh was to date a passen him a guh waan tek feel up and receive likkle feel up.
Wid fi yuh rules NO ONE will stick around a wait fi yuh and yuh laundry liss a sittin dem.

How much time ya guh poas bout de exact same ting?
Yuh keep getting de same ansah dem, you are doing de same ting and expecting different results
You are also basing relationships on belief and not going with what the spirit would be motioning between two ppl.
Timelines are foolish, as feelings are between two ppl. Your feeling will progress quicker with one person than another so timelines fi dash weh.

How bout dis timeline, no marriage proposal till aftah 7 years

[Suesumba]

How bout dis timeline, no marriage proposal till aftah 7 years

or arranged marriage

[Tropicana]

even if yuh was to date a passen him a guh waan tek feel up and receive likkle feel up.

How do you know? Have you ever dated a female parsen?

Wid fi yuh rules NO ONE will stick around a wait fi yuh and yuh laundry liss a sittin dem.

How much time ya guh poas bout de exact same ting? Yuh keep getting de same ansah dem,

The timeline just came out yesterday so there is no way I could have posted it before I am not clairvoyant. Also why are you making this personal... mi wondah if it run in de fambly.

you are doing de same ting and expecting different results
You are also basing relationships on belief and not going with what the spirit would be motioning between two ppl.

W

What is the consequence of going with what the spirit is motioning? Baggy drop man dig off and say im was not attracted or was just booty call or friends with benefits. Woman find tse she pregnant and ends up raising a child with no father in sight. Yes that is working really well in our community.

Timelines are foolish, as feelings are between two ppl. Your feeling will progress quicker with one person than another so timelines fi dash weh.

How bout dis timeline, no marriage proposal till aftah 7 years

That would never work with my timeline.

[Tropicana]

or arranged marriage

Interesting, cultures with arranged marriage have much higher marital success rates than those without and there is no pre-marital under those arrangements. Maybe they are on to something.

[CeaBee]

4 dates sound kinda soon for first

no me nuh know how long it should tek...before any of unno ask me

[Tropicana]

I was just about to ask you.

[Emperah]

you are assuming every likkle ting leads fi yuh having to tek off de drawz. Feel up cyan gwaan, some good stimulation here and there and intercourse nuh haffi gwaan all de while enuh.
Is it that you lack control after you reach a certain point why yuh suh rigid?

And as fi de timeline I was referring to your own timeline and not de fufool sittin yuh poas uppatap

[Tropicana]

Science backs up waiting.

Hurray for chastityResearch psychologist Dean Busby and his colleagues examined 2,035 heterosexual participants, who had an average age of 36. All of them were in their first marriages. The subjects were asked when they first had sexual relations with their current spouse; how well they could express empathy and understanding toward their partners; how satisfied they were with their sex life and how often they thought their relationship was in trouble. To make sure religion would not affect the outcome of the study, the researchers controlled for the influence of religious involvement in their analysis.
As it turned out, those who waited reported to have a more stable relationship and a better sex life. “Curiously, almost 40 percent of couples are essentially sexual within the first or second time they go out, but we suspect that if you asked these same couples at this early stage of their relationship – ‘Do you trust this person to watch your pet for a weekend many could not answer this in the affirmative’ – meaning they are more comfortable letting people into their bodies than they are with them watching their cat,” Busby says.
MATHEMATICS

Although mathematicians and psychologists do not often agree, they offer the same advice when it comes to sex: don’t give it up on the first date. According to a numerical model they developed, the good guys were willing to date for a longer time before having sex, while the rotten apples were reluctant to stick around.
The model is based on the idea that a woman will get a positive payoff from mating only if the man is a ‘‘good’’ male, with respect to his genetic quality, or ability or intention to provide paternal care. If she decides to sleep with a ‘‘bad’’ male, she will get a negative payoff from mating with him. In addition, a ‘‘good’’ male is willing to court for longer than a ‘‘bad’’ male; in this way the duration of a male’s courtship signals his type, and acts as a costly handicap.

“The good guys were willing to date for a longer time before having sex”

Die a virgin
“Long courtship is a price paid for increasing the chance that mating, if it occurs, will be a harmonious match which benefits both sexes,” says professor Robert Seymour, leading author of the study. His colleague, Dr Peter Sozou, explains: “The strategic problem a female faces is how to screen out bad males, and this is where long courtship comes into play. A male is assumed to always want to mate with a female, but a good male is more willing to pay the cost of a long courtship to claim the prize of mating. So the female’s strategy is a compromise, a trade-off.” What the equations do not reveal is how long men should be kept waiting, in light of the fact that not even good guys will necessarily wait forever. Deciding on the length of courtship is thus a matter of judgement – which isn’t much help for women of a certain age. Also, a woman cannot eliminate the risk completely unless she decides never to mate. Apparently, there’s only one way to avoid the chances of picking a dud guy altogether: die a virgin.
So, back to your perfect first date. He or she is still waiting for your answer. “Are you coming with?” In the end, it all depends on what you’re looking for. If you just want to have some fun, don’t hesitate, go. If you’re aiming for a long-term thing, however, kindly decline and go home. Alone. You’ll thank yourself later.

http://www.united-academics.org/magazine/space-physics/leave-it-to-science-should-we-have-sex-on-the-first-date/

[Tropicana]

you are assuming every likkle ting leads fi yuh having to tek off de drawz. Feel up cyan gwaan, some good stimulation here and there and intercourse nuh haffi gwaan all de while enuh.

I know look at my post engagement timeline.

Is it that you lack control after you reach a certain point why yuh suh rigid?

There you go making it personal again. Read my keystrokes....is just discuss we a discuss. This is not about me.

And as fi de timeline I was referring to your own timeline and not de fufool sittin yuh poas uppatap

Oh okay so you agree with me, the timeline up top is foolish. I have never posted my own recommended timeline before. I have said that I don't support random baggy dropping and pre-marital baggy dropping though.

[Peasie]

as usual can always count on you to take something fun and make it personal and insulting. Flippin unbelievable!

There you go making it personal again. Read my keystrokes....is just discuss we a discuss.

[Tropicana]

Since you a quote....you forgot this pawt.

Wid fi yuh rules NO ONE will stick around a wait fi yuh and yuh laundry liss a sittin dem.

How much time ya guh poas bout de exact same ting?
Yuh keep getting de same ansah dem, you are doing de same ting and expecting different results

Also why are you making this personal... mi wondah if it run in de fambly.

Maybe Peasie and Emperah a de same smaddy...or close to it.

[Tropicana]

Naw...not possible. Emperah is not mean spirited....but there are some similarities.

[kia027]

Before Emperah asks B___ and H___ are below the waist so that comes after marriage.

I am lost B? and H?
Blow job? Hand job?



and as fi the arranged marriage ting, ask about the wife burning in india if the dowry no right?

I do believe in some type of marriage arrangement (ie person vetted by family members before introduction aka matchmaker) but some choice has to happen

as fi the waiting till married ting.. to each his/her own, esp when one is no longer a virgin

[Tropicana]

I am lost B? and H?
Blow job? Hand job?

and as fi the arranged marriage ting, ask about the wife burning in india if the dowry no right?

I do believe in some type of marriage arrangement (ie person vetted by family members before introduction aka matchmaker) but some choice has to happen

as fi the waiting till married ting.. to each his/her own,

not according to the Bible.

esp when one is no longer a virgin

Meaning....

[blugiant]

Tropicana's Dating Milestones

This is an appropriate time line.

First Date - Shake hands or no physical content
2nd Date - hug
3rd date - guy can hold your hand
4th date - guy can put his arm around you

Once you decide you are going to see each other exclusively and date no one else - 1st kiss - some Christians believe the first kiss should be at the altar when the parson says "You may now kisss the bride". Sounds very romantic to do it that way but I don't think a Jamaican man on the planet can ever agree to you.

After engagement - passionate kissing, etc. but nothing below the waist.

First Sex - on the honeymoon.

That's all folks.

tropi good luck fe diss