Me haffe ask

**Suesumba** · 01-15-2008, 12:40 PM

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seet deh. as Nunya seh, dem put tummuch stock on numbers.

di smaddy can appear pure as the driven snow and rotten to the core. vice/versa. character is something to consider.

**7777** · 01-15-2008, 12:44 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Exactly. <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> </div></div>:

I'd be more concerned if he was widowed twice before than if he was divorced for the same number of times...

People put to much stock in numbers yah, insteada focusing pon quality... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img] </div></div>hole up...[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> If you were divorced twice before dat mean say sitn wrong wid yuh? :eyebrows</div></div>

hell yes!

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I'd be more concerned if he was widowed twice before than if he was divorced for the same number of times...

</div></div>is this some kinda reverse psychology, dis Nunya???...widowed twice..
so dem we coulda just call him/her, the black widowed spider..[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">People put to much stock in numbers yah, insteada focusing pon quality... :whatever </div></div>any man or ooman who divorced twice, aint quality.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70390-shhh.gif[/img]
No body, especially two *separate* persons a go divorce, *quality* two times inna row.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

**Jazz** · 01-15-2008, 12:57 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: 7777</div><div class="ubbcode-body">[No body, especially two *separate* persons a go divorce, *quality* two times inna row.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] </div></div>

maybe it wasn't their choice but the "qua;ity " persons choice to end the relationships... thing is... there could be any number of reasons that people choose to end a relationship - all of them don;t ahve to be abuse, cheating, drug taking and drama... sometimes people simply grow apart, sometimes they get married young and as they amture they realize they made amistake, sometimes cultural diferences (if u marry across cultural lines) - u have to take each case individaully instead of just crossing someone off the list simply becasue they have been maried twice before...

anyway - everyone has to make decisions according to their level of comfort, i'm not here to convert [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

**7777** · 01-15-2008, 01:04 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">maybe it wasn't their choice but the "qua;ity " persons choice to end the relationships... thing is... there could be any number of reasons that people choose to end a relationship - all of them don;t ahve to be abuse, cheating, drug taking and drama... sometimes people simply grow apart, sometimes they get married young and as they amture they realize they made amistake, sometimes cultural diferences (if u marry across cultural lines) - u have to take each case individaully instead of just crossing someone off the list simply becasue they have been maried twice before...

</div></div>A hear wha u seh, and i understand the part of marrying young and growing apart. Ok, thats one marriage down. but u woulda tink the next marriage woulda have some more meaning and depth to it..
and u would be looking for more dan u had inna de first marriage..
In essence you would have learnt a few things about wha u want, and wha u dont want..

Your turn.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/popcorn.gif[/img]

**Jazz** · 01-15-2008, 01:10 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: 7777</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">maybe it wasn't their choice but the "qua;ity " persons choice to end the relationships... thing is... there could be any number of reasons that people choose to end a relationship - all of them don;t ahve to be abuse, cheating, drug taking and drama... sometimes people simply grow apart, sometimes they get married young and as they amture they realize they made amistake, sometimes cultural diferences (if u marry across cultural lines) - u have to take each case individaully instead of just crossing someone off the list simply becasue they have been maried twice before...

</div></div>A hear wha u seh, and i understand the part of marrying young and growing apart. Ok, thats one marriage down. but u woulda tink the next marriage woulda have some more meaning and depth to it..
and u would be looking for more dan u had inna de first marriage..
In essence you would have learnt a few things about wha u want, and wha u dont want..

Your turn.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/popcorn.gif[/img] </div></div>

as mi seh... it could be any number of reasons... u waan mi fe name out each an every possible scenario here? the point mi ah try fe mek is dat each individual should be judged on an individual basis and not just eliminated casue him have 2 strikes genst him... you could possibly eleiminate a "quality" man unknowingly...

but as mi seh - is up to you - mi nah mek nuh money offa try convince u ah dis - so do wah u comfatebble wid doing... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif[/img] (mi nuh like how de winky eye icon look like sitten jook im inna im yeye an im ah squint cho)

**Suesumba** · 01-15-2008, 01:24 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: natJazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi nuh like how de winky eye icon look like sitten jook im inna im yeye an im ah squint cho) </div></div>

lawd missis yu mek mi haffi spitt out di dry up bagel mi a eat frah 8 a clak dis mawning [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

**Nunya** · 01-15-2008, 01:29 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: 7777</div><div class="ubbcode-body">any man or ooman who divorced twice, aint quality.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70390-shhh.gif[/img]
</div></div>

Fawt really mek fi chat eeh??? \o/

People will stick out a marriage, even doah it a kill dem inch by inch everyday, jus fi say dat dem nah divorce. So. Cawse dem marride oh much years now, dat mean say dem a quality? Dem ha more quality dan de smaddy whe realise say de marriage a kill dem an decide fi step?

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70392-silly.gif[/img]

Tink pon Bobby an Whitney - before she come to har senses. She did determine say she nah divorce im, nuh matta whe im do to har or adda ooman. By your reasoning den, she shoulda did tan, eh? Mek har more *quality*?

oy vey...

Nadda pint yuh fi consider (if possible [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70392-silly.gif[/img] ): Because a one wi say dis a dem first marriage or dem a wait fi de right *quality* smaddy caw dem a *quality* demself, dat nuh mean say dem neva engage eena ho much 'marriage-like' relationship before eno... it no mean say dem neva ha ho much wo/man an dem ting deh; it no mean say dem neva whenna live wid dis one an dat one; it nuh mean say dem neva whenna shag it as long as dem can get it, even if it belong to smaddy else...

OR it ongle count gense dem if dem actually mek it legal????

A whe yuh come fram???? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img]

**Nunya** · 01-15-2008, 01:38 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: natJazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> each individual should be judged on an individual basis and not just eliminated casue him have 2 strikes genst him... </div></div>

And who's to say that two divorces are 'two strikes gainst him'?

How many times have we heard of men and women choosing the wrong boyfriend/girlfriend? We know these people. We know they are good people. Quality people. They just keep hooking up with the 'wrong' people.

Couldn't the same be said for some who've been married a few times?

Some people like the state of being married, while others prefer just living together. All are hoping for permanence. When they have the good sense to realise that the person they've chosen is not a good fit and they (or the other person) decide to end it, they should be given credit and support. They should not be penalized. Or accused of being *not quality*...

I've heard some daft things in my days...

**7777** · 01-16-2008, 01:11 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: 7777</div><div class="ubbcode-body">any man or ooman who divorced twice, aint quality.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70390-shhh.gif[/img]
</div></div>

Fawt really mek fi chat eeh??? \o/

People will stick out a marriage, even doah it a kill dem inch by inch everyday, jus fi say dat dem nah divorce. So. Cawse dem marride oh much years now, dat mean say dem a quality? Dem ha more quality dan de smaddy whe realise say de marriage a kill dem an decide fi step?

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70392-silly.gif[/img]

Tink pon Bobby an Whitney - before she come to har senses. She did determine say she nah divorce im, nuh matta whe im do to har or adda ooman. By your reasoning den, she shoulda did tan, eh? Mek har more *quality*?

oy vey...

Nadda pint yuh fi consider (if possible [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70392-silly.gif[/img] ): Because a one wi say dis a dem first marriage or dem a wait fi de right *quality* smaddy caw dem a *quality* demself, dat nuh mean say dem neva engage eena ho much 'marriage-like' relationship before eno... it no mean say dem neva ha ho much wo/man an dem ting deh; it no mean say dem neva whenna live wid dis one an dat one; it nuh mean say dem neva whenna shag it as long as dem can get it, even if it belong to smaddy else...

OR it ongle count gense dem if dem actually mek it legal????

A whe yuh come fram???? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] </div></div> u realize that fe u harse a pull a whole diffrant cart.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70392-silly.gif[/img]

**7777** · 01-16-2008, 01:18 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: natJazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> each individual should be judged on an individual basis and not just eliminated casue him have 2 strikes genst him... </div></div>

And who's to say that two divorces are 'two strikes gainst him'?

How many times have we heard of men and women choosing the wrong boyfriend/girlfriend? We know these people. We know they are good people. Quality people. They just keep hooking up with the 'wrong' people.

Couldn't the same be said for some who've been married a few times?

Some people like the state of being married, while others prefer just living together. All are hoping for permanence. When they have the good sense to realise that the person they've chosen is not a good fit and they (or the other person) decide to end it, they should be given credit and support. They should not be penalized. Or accused of being *not quality*...

I've heard some daft things in my days... </div></div>u relaize seh a nite time now, so me a try listen to wha u seh..
First u a talk bout boyfriend, girlfriend relationship, which is not even wha me wayna talk bout...
(even if u a try build up a scenerio)
Again, a state of the horse galloping away with the cart..
but fe give you the benefit of the doubt, you say, that a person shouldnt be penalized (a word u used, - not my choice) cus dem have two divorces under dem belt..
hmmmmmmm.... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]
You a seh, him/she try, and him/she try, and still dem a come a mek "bad choices", hence dem reasoning fe divorce..
So, a guess in essence u a seh dat dem should be soothed, and cradled, and encouraged to do it again, so that they can pass on dem ole bruk dun baggage to marriage number 3..
Dat is not a good track record fe anyone fe fallow, but if that thought comforts you and it blows u skirt up..
allllllll righty then... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

One marriage broken me can understand, but two? and den contemplating number 3..
and if you noh mine sharp, there will be four and five..
because him/her made "bad choices" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/cleanyuhmout.gif[/img]
Even inna de world me live in, and others I have voiced this to inna real life, and others who have already voiced dem opinions uppa top deh, all a dem agree missis dat...,

Sinting wrong [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]: :

**7777** · 01-16-2008, 02:17 AM

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me a wonder a whe dat deh thread bout cheating husband deh.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70390-shhh.gif[/img]

**neutral** · 01-16-2008, 06:28 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newtral</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I would be very cautious about marrying a woman who had divorced twice,....mi no waan no mashup mashup sinting,it wuss if shi come wid ole heap a jing bang an pickney. </div></div>

what if she's never been married, has no kids (dash weh belly, compromised fertility), and she looks like a dream boat, just moved into your area, great personality, loves to dance? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img] </div></div>

Well meedah drop likkle wuk pon har but dat no mean seh mi aggo marrid har.

**sistacaf** · 01-16-2008, 07:30 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">By your reasoning den, she shoulda did tan, eh? Mek har more *quality*?

oy vey.. </div></div>.

nunya [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/iluvu.gif[/img]

is ongly u an u alone can chat yiddish and patois in a de same bret [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img]

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**7777** · 01-16-2008, 07:54 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: sistacaf</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">By your reasoning den, she shoulda did tan, eh? Mek har more *quality*?

oy vey.. </div></div>.

nunya [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/iluvu.gif[/img]

is ongly u an u alone can chat yiddish and patois in a de same bret [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img]

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] </div></div>weell, a guess only a few, will tek a man/sistren, dat married time and time again... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]
Once is good, but no more dan dat fe me..
Too much baggage, babydrama, and all sorta conbungalo tangled up with dat mess...
Me will pass and quite a few others on this board, will obviously pass..
We know when to quit.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/breakdance.gif[/img]

**Nunya** · 01-17-2008, 01:23 AM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: sistacaf</div><div class="ubbcode-body">.

nunya [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/iluvu.gif[/img]

is ongly u an u alone can chat yiddish and patois in a de same bret [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img]

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Hey [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img] I haven't seen you about long time now...

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