A Love Story...The true story of how we met

[Jazz]

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*sniff*

mi haffe go ah mi bed now - mi wi read de res ah mawning...

[diabolical_Tanya]

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We left the lounge and headed straight to my bed [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70371-jump.gif[/img]

After that D and I were totally inseperable. The only time we were apart was when we were working. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img] The more time we spent together the more in love we fell.

I kicked myself several times for waiting so long to fall in love with my soul mate. But I also realised that I had needed to grow up first.

I was living my fantasy, it was perfect. My life was perfect


Or so it would seem ....

[diabolical_Tanya]

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Slowly tiny chinks developed in the armor of our love. D started to show some control issues.

He would show up to my place unannounced on my days off and then complain because I was still in bed and not "ready to face the day" He said and I quote..."If there is the potential for me to show up you should be ready" My reaponse was [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] and [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img]

There were some other things that I spotted right off as red flags and called him on them.

Now back when we were friends, we used to argue yes and fight about things sure but it was never serious and there were never any hard feelings.

This time there were. It seemed as though he felt that I should feel Oh heck I don't even know how to put it into words, but lets just say he felt he should be able to control me and I am simply too independent for that.

We were together for 3 years, most of the time it was perfect but there were some rocky patches.

Then one night things got out of hand. He said somthing that I took offence to. A knife was drawn and hurtful words were said. Tears were shed, threats were made and we broke up. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]

[CeaBee]

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[diabolical_Tanya]

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It was a clean break, no contact. We did not speak to each other for a year.

A few months after I met A and we embarked on a long distance sort of relationship. D was Totally out of my mind [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

a year later (give or take a month or two) a friend was moving out of town so we all went out to celebrate. Girls night out on the town.

Of all the bars in this one horse town you had to walk into this one. The same club I had reconnected with D as Mr Buff n Bald.

Just like a dream I saw his across the room. I nodded in recognition but would do nothing more than that. The way things had ended I had no idea how he felt now. I knew it was partly my fault, and had never really apologised.

He came over and said...you can't say hi? I was speechless for a second then finally stuttered something stupid out, dont remember what but remember one of my girlffriends laughing at me after [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] ahhh memories

Later that night he called. and came over. We talked till the sun was high in the sky. and then we slept.

We decided to try the "just friends" things again.

He was seeing someone, Nicole.
I was seeing someone A.

Cool [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] Friends [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

[diabolical_Tanya]

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D an Nicole had some issues but that was there deal and I did not get involved. I was an ear and a shoulder but gave no opinions or advice. Okay well I did make it clear to him that there is no way 40 odd an 23 can work but other than that [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img]

A and I broke up. I cried on D's shoulder [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img]
Nicole and D broke up and we drowned out sorrows together.

One thing led to another and we were back in bed, and back together. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]


This time it was different. D was accepting of my independence [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

We both gave each other space and freedom.

Then Nov 30 2006 once again D pissted me off and I committed the "unforgivable sin" in is book. I cussed his azzz out in public. and to compound the issue I did not apologise the first opportunity that I got.

We have not spoken since December 3 2006.

The end......or is it?

[DearK]

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so I gguess you haven't been back to that club? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] What a tangled love story. Had he changed the 2nd go round? Well I think you said he had some, but what about you, had you changed in that time?

[diabolical_Tanya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dear K</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crazy.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70458-applaud.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70458-applaud.gif[/img]

so I gguess you haven't been back to that club? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] What a tangled love story. Had he changed the 2nd go round? Well I think you said he had some, but what about you, had you changed in that time? </div></div>

Yes in some ways we both had changed, but in other ways we are both prideful and stubborn (must be the Jamaican blood [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70394-bawlout.gif[/img] )

Oh I have been back to that club only once since. It has changed alot (or maybe I have) No the club has changed, different vibe differet people. And I'm really just not the night club kinda person anymore.

Girls are too des. and the atmosphere is too meat market. Can't just go out with the "girls" for some fun.

[CeaBee]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The end......or is it? </div></div>

do you want it to be?

It sounds like you had a good relationship the second time around [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img].....or was the argument that you had then, similar to the knife drawing, lamp throwing exchange that broke you guys up the first time?

Do you think that you have anything to apologize for? do you think that he also needs to apologize? or are you past that now?

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: A Love Story...The true story of how we met

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The end......or is it? </div></div>

do you want it to be? <span style="color: #990000">Relationship yes! Friendship No [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img] </span>

It sounds like you had a good relationship the second time around [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img].....or was the argument that you had then, similar to the knife drawing, lamp throwing exchange that broke you guys up the first time? <span style="color: #990000">No, this argument was diffrent, jus me cussing [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img] </span>

Do you think that you have anything to apologize for? <span style="color: #990000">Probably but it is too late now </span> do you think that he also needs to apologize? <span style="color: #990000"> Only for being a baby about the whole thing</span> or are you past that now? <span style="color: #990000">[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] not 100% sure but working on it....the story helped [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] </span>



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[annshan2]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TanyaZeen</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The end......or is it? </div></div>

do you want it to be? <span style="color: #990000">Relationship yes! Friendship No [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img] </span>

It sounds like you had a good relationship the second time around [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img].....or was the argument that you had then, similar to the knife drawing, lamp throwing exchange that broke you guys up the first time? <span style="color: #990000">No, this argument was diffrent, jus me cussing [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img] </span>

Do you think that you have anything to apologize for? <span style="color: #990000">Probably but it is too late now </span> do you think that he also needs to apologize? <span style="color: #990000"> Only for being a baby about the whole thing</span> or are you past that now? <span style="color: #990000">[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] not 100% sure but working on it....the story helped [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] </span>

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[kia027]

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have you reached out to him?

[Jazz]

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I think u should call him...

[diabolical_Tanya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">have you reached out to him? </div></div>I sent him a happy Birthday txt last month [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

[diabolical_Tanya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: natJazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I think u should call him... </div></div>Thinking about it [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crazy.gif[/img] but my mind changes depending on my mood