How do you tell them

[Bizzy]

So u deh wid dis person 8 years and de sex start get after year 2 but yuh try stick it out cause everything else is perfect. Now yuh tyad fi have the lackluster sex and u doan have any attraction or desire fi de man/woman, an yuh a start seriously consider 'steppin out' and lookin smaddy else.

How do you tell de man/ooman the real reason u want to end the relationship

[Jazz]

Re: How do you tell them

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So u deh wid dis person 8 years and de sex start get after year 2 but yuh try stick it out cause everything else is perfect. Now yuh tyad fi have the lackluster sex and u doan have any attraction or desire fi de man/woman, an yuh a start seriously consider 'steppin out' and lookin smaddy else.

How do you tell de man/ooman the real reason u want to end the relationship </div></div>

u don;t

[nadzie22]

Re: How do you tell them

Is this the only reason u want to end the relationship have u tried talking to ur partner about the sex so he can change certain things and try new things.

[Bandana]

Re: How do you tell them

You sure you want to end it??

Maybe there just needs to be some spice in yuh life?? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

8 years is a long time, everybody goes through some kind of lack of passion...

The grass is not always greener either [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]

[Bandana]

Re: How do you tell them

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: nadzie22</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Is this the only reason u want to end the relationship have u tried talking to ur partner about the sex so he can change certain things and try new things. </div></div>

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[Bandana]

Re: How do you tell them

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So u deh wid dis person 8 years and de sex start get after year 2 but yuh try stick it out cause everything else is perfect. Now yuh tyad fi have the lackluster sex and u doan have any attraction or desire fi de man/woman, an yuh a start seriously consider 'steppin out' and lookin smaddy else.

How do you tell de man/ooman the real reason u want to end the relationship </div></div>

it make it sound like <s>you</s> I mean the person done step out already [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whistle.gif[/img]

[Bizzy]

Re: How do you tell them

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: nadzie22</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Is this the only reason u want to end the relationship have u tried talking to ur partner about the sex so he can change certain things and try new things. </div></div>MY partner?? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] u muss be new

[Bizzy]

Re: How do you tell them

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bandanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So u deh wid dis person 8 years and de sex start get after year 2 but yuh try stick it out cause everything else is perfect. Now yuh tyad fi have the lackluster sex and u doan have any attraction or desire fi de man/woman, an yuh a start seriously consider 'steppin out' and lookin smaddy else.

How do you tell de man/ooman the real reason u want to end the relationship </div></div>
mi nuh deh wid nuhbaddi 8 yrs..anyhow, mi cyaan say wedda shi step out already or not...annuh like shi muss hafi tell mi
it make it sound like <s>you</s> I mean the person done step out already [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whistle.gif[/img] </div></div> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[Bandana]

Re: How do you tell them

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] Z


How to spice up your sex life and save your relationship [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whistle.gif[/img]

[Bizzy]

Re: How do you tell them

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: natJazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So u deh wid dis person 8 years and de sex start get after year 2 but yuh try stick it out cause everything else is perfect. Now yuh tyad fi have the lackluster sex and u doan have any attraction or desire fi de man/woman, an yuh a start seriously consider 'steppin out' and lookin smaddy else.

How do you tell de man/ooman the real reason u want to end the relationship </div></div>

u don;t </div></div>Why not? if yuh done a attempt fi tell dem say it not working an yuh not really attracted to dem an nuh intrested inna sex since year 4, wah else deh fi do??

[Bizzy]

Re: How do you tell them

de only ting mi si weh mi can relate to dis scenario is de best friend ting...de 2 a dem always deh pee pee cluck behine one annedda. from when de man waan married an breed har an shi still a avoid dem talk deh an put it off<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bandanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body">[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] Z


How to spice up your sex life and save your relationship [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whistle.gif[/img] </div></div>

[Bandana]

Re: How do you tell them

and if dat never work....


Pick an appropriate place. The less public, the better. Remember, ending a relationship is a humbling experience. Don't do it in a place where the person on the receiving end is going to feel more vulnerable than necessary.

Choose the right time. Avoid holidays and special occasions like birthdays and anniversaries at all costs. Do you really want your ex remembering your insensitivity every time that day rolls around?

Do it in person. If the relationship is relatively new, maybe you can get away breaking up over the phone. But come on, if you've been out on more than a handful of dates, isn't that kind of harsh?

Be honest but sensitive. No one likes to get dumped. But we at least appreciate the truth when it's over. Unless, of course, the truth is you've stopped finding him/her attractive, you've met someone better, or that you're just plain bored with the relationship.

Keep your emotions in check. Don't seem too happy about the breakup: you'll come off as mean-spirited. Just be kind, caring, and considerate. If you want, you can high five your friends later.

Don't react. Some people don't handle rejection well. Some people yell, scream, cry. Yes, that sucks. But it doesn't mean you should react to their meltdown. Remember, rejection is tough. You've already got the upper hand by being the dumper. Let the dumpee behave ridiculously if they choose to. And if their tantrum escalates, get the heck out of there!


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[Jazz]

Re: How do you tell them

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: natJazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So u deh wid dis person 8 years and de sex start get after year 2 but yuh try stick it out cause everything else is perfect. Now yuh tyad fi have the lackluster sex and u doan have any attraction or desire fi de man/woman, an yuh a start seriously consider 'steppin out' and lookin smaddy else.

How do you tell de man/ooman the real reason u want to end the relationship </div></div>

u don;t </div></div>Why not? if yuh done a attempt fi tell dem say it not working an yuh not really attracted to dem an nuh intrested inna sex since year 4, wah else deh fi do??

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u doan tell dem is because of the bad sex - here's what u do...

one evening u come home an u pick argument over something - it could be anything - jus mek sure seh it escalate into a good fite...

nex evening u dweet agen... be as irrational as possible - if possible try to fling ah few things to demonstrate hwo strongly de supm annoy yuh...

do this for about 2 weeks.

im ah gao stawt complain how u get misarebble... nit pick abotu little things... the smaller the better.

finally - jus tell him that u are in adiff. place than u were 8 years ago... and u feel that you both have grown apart...

byt his time im wi happy fe call it quits - hug an say lets be friends - it's me not you...

stuff like that - just in case u decide that u want him back afta de break up. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[Bizzy]

Re: How do you tell them

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] maybe if dis was de fuss time sheeda 'dump' him dem tings deh might work, but dude just ain't getting it.

dem live inna de same complex as me an dem love siddung outta door an chat a night time..an de man can whine an whine an whine...dat alone woodan mek mi lef him [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek.gif[/img]

[Bizzy]

Re: How do you tell them

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: natJazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body">[quote=Bizi][one evening u come home an u pick argument over something - it could be anything - jus mek sure seh it escalate into a good fite...

nex evening u dweet agen... be as irrational as possible - if possible try to fling ah few things to demonstrate hwo strongly de supm annoy yuh...

do this for about 2 weeks.

im ah gao stawt complain how u get misarebble... nit pick abotu little things... the smaller the better.
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That's the thing, they haven't grown apart. if yuh hear her tell it, she love him cyaan done an him have everything going for him. De man treat har like queeen, workship de groun she walk pon..but he ain't hittin it right.

dem is real tight, the best of friends..do erryting tigedda. go spa, go gym, go shoppin EVERY BLASTED ting [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

shi say shi tyad fi try mek excuse but caw she genuinely love him an care bout him shi nuh waan juss blurt it out so an hurt him feeligns.