Celibacy, No, really, im okay

[Boopie2]

Re: Celibacy, No, really, im okay

Dr. Drew Pinsky



Safe sex is a term that was coined in the early ‘90s to deal with the epidemic of HIV, as it seemed to be spreading unscathed.

Mutual masturbation was considered safe sex, (although I know some people take issue with this) and anything else -- such as a latex barrier -- was considered only a risk reduction measure. By this definition, the only real safe sex is abstinence.

http://www.drdrew.com/DrewLive/article.asp?id=1264

Sex is sex in these terms. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Celibacy, No, really, im okay

So is everyone clear on the difference?

[chitowngirl]

Re: Celibacy, No, really, im okay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TanyaZeen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">[quote=coolbeans]if is u one and the toy inna the place, then is masturbation, imo

If is you alone wid a toy or a cucumber it is NOT SEX it is masturbation. </div></div>
mi noh disagree wid ie being masturbation, wah mi chry seh ie depend pon wah type toy yuh use...mi hope seh dem noh tek mi fi joke [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

<u>see fi mi example deh</u>:

the butterfly, in my opinion, IS masturbation with NO penetration; therefore, NOT intercourse

the rabbit, in my opinion, IS masturbation AND penetration; therefore, intercourse

oonu cyan see fi mi point (no pun intended) [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[RichD]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_29</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So is everyone clear on the difference? </div></div> look like boopie still not clear

[CeaBee]

Re: Celibacy, No, really, im okay

nobody nuh really haffi be clear...cause everyone gwine have them own opinion.

as suh it guh.

[RichD]

Re: Celibacy, No, really, im okay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: chitown</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TanyaZeen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">[quote=coolbeans]if is u one and the toy inna the place, then is masturbation, imo

If is you alone wid a toy or a cucumber it is NOT SEX it is masturbation. </div></div>
mi noh disagree wid ie being masturbation, wah mi chry seh ie depend pon wah type toy yuh use...mi hope seh dem noh tek mi fi joke [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

<u>see fi mi example deh</u>:

the butterfly, in my opinion, IS masturbation with NO penetration; therefore, NOT intercourse

the rabbit, in my opinion, IS masturbation AND penetration; therefore, intercourse

oonu cyan see fi mi point (no pun intended) [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] </div></div>

so if you use yuh finger??

[chitowngirl]

Re: Celibacy, No, really, im okay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> one smaddy alone is masturbation- self stimulation </div></div>
it's ALL masturbation wen smaddi dweet wid demself

I'm talking the difference between 'to penetrate or not to penetrate'...regardless of whether the penis is attached to a real man or a light socket [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[CeaBee]

Re: Celibacy, No, really, im okay

the fingernail long or short?

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Celibacy, No, really, im okay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">nobody nuh really haffi be clear...cause everyone gwine have them own opinion.

as suh it guh. </div></div>Yes somepeople fi juss leff inna dem ignorance soh dem can goh show it to di ress a di world [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]


Chi mi si yu point but is still juss you an yu rabbit or butterfly not you an smaddy an yu rabbit [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

[CeaBee]

Re: Celibacy, No, really, im okay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: chitown</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> one smaddy alone is masturbation- self stimulation </div></div>
it's ALL masturbation wen smaddi dweet wid demself

I'm talking the difference between 'to penetrate or not to penetrate'...regardless of whether the penis is attached to a real man or a light socket [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] </div></div>

splitting hairs imo.

if it's a toy( whether there is penetration or not)- it's still self stimulation (masturbation)

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Celibacy, No, really, im okay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">the fingernail long or short? </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek.gif[/img] Germs

[chitowngirl]

Re: Celibacy, No, really, im okay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> so if you use yuh finger?? </div></div>
in keeping wid mi moas 'scientific' deduction mi wudda seh YES...fi yuh fingah classify undah penetration

[Boopie2]

Re: Celibacy, No, really, im okay

Definitions
The word “sex” means different things to different people. Make sure you clarify your terms with your teen. In today’s vernacular sex may mean vaginal intercourse, anal intercourse, oral sex, or mutual masturbation. All forms of sex can transmit STDs.

http://www.pureintimacy.org/cs/parents/raising_children/a0000167.cfm

You can not claim that you are celibate engaging in this type of thing. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[chitowngirl]

Re: Celibacy, No, really, im okay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> if it's a toy( whether there is penetration or not)- it's still self stimulation (masturbation) </div></div>
mi seh sed ting uppah top...100% agreed bout ie AWL masturbation [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img]

[chitowngirl]

Re: Celibacy, No, really, im okay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> splitting hairs imo.

if it's a toy( whether there is penetration or not)- it's still self stimulation (masturbation) </div></div>
wi lik dis pawt BUT weh di intercourse pawt inna dat?...yuh classify masturbation as sex den or ie nuh count [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

wheel an cum agen [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]