A Black Man Who Cheats: Why I Do It

[Seveen]

Re: A Black Man Who Cheats: Why I Do It

<span style='font-family: Fixedsys'>total lack of vision

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Re: A Black Man Who Cheats: Why I Do It

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: cjb1879</div><div class="ubbcode-body">This man's argument is ridiculous and I can't believe that some of us are rationalizing it. It is the most passive-aggressive thing I've ever read. He can spend time coming up with a BS rationalization instead of admitting outright to his wife that he had no business getting married in the first place. How can you "support the Black family" and continuously lie to your partner in that family on a regular basis? Families are not built on lies and underhanded dealings.

That biological argument is totally irrelevant. We all know the "continuation of the species" differences between men and women- we are all driven to continue the species and males do it by quantity and women by quality. However, we also have the need to go and relieve ourselves (forgive me for being crass)- however early on, we are taught that there is a time and place to do it and that place is not in our pants. This man has essentially said that he cannot control himself. The ability to reason and to think about more than our so-called biological urges is what separates us from animals. A "need" for sex does not make it okay to cheat. Someone gave this man this biological argument and he used it rationalize something he would have done no matter what.

Also, the fact that there are supposedly "at least four other women" willing to have sex with him whenever he wants is not a reason to keep doing it- it is a sign that he is running with low company.

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