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Re: Christian Relationship Challenges / Behavioral Codes...
Originally posted by SistahD:
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And apparently men have to deal with women's headaches, or insults about size and action.
To me it's rather odd that such concentration should be placed on performance and physical gratification as opposed to love and commitment when talking about spending a lifetime with someone.
[MG2S: In all fairness, SistahD, obviously love and commitment is already there if you are contemplating marriage. Performance and physical gratification is a part of the whole package. You have to know these things to sustain an honest and compatible relationship. Imagine a man planning a future with a woman that includes children, only he never asked if she still had the necessary female organs to make it happen. So after marriage, she goes, "Oh, by the way...".]
What happens if the body parts fail because once the exciting wedding night comes and goes... the man or woman develops an illness and starts to have problems physically... and can no longer perform? Or maybe at that joyeous time... the woman simply isn't effective in bringing the soldier up the ranks... is he still at fault?
just curious!
{MG2S: None of us have a crystal ball to look into the future. You can have a stroke on your wedding night. This was not something that was withheld from your mate. That's why the vows state in sickness and in health. Those are incidentals. Hiding sexual dysfunctions is premeditated, no? If problems arise that were'nt there before, then they work on it together.]
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But women have to deal with this.
To me it's rather odd that such concentration should be placed on performance and physical gratification as opposed to love and commitment when talking about spending a lifetime with someone.
[MG2S: In all fairness, SistahD, obviously love and commitment is already there if you are contemplating marriage. Performance and physical gratification is a part of the whole package. You have to know these things to sustain an honest and compatible relationship. Imagine a man planning a future with a woman that includes children, only he never asked if she still had the necessary female organs to make it happen. So after marriage, she goes, "Oh, by the way...".]
What happens if the body parts fail because once the exciting wedding night comes and goes... the man or woman develops an illness and starts to have problems physically... and can no longer perform? Or maybe at that joyeous time... the woman simply isn't effective in bringing the soldier up the ranks... is he still at fault?
just curious!{MG2S: None of us have a crystal ball to look into the future. You can have a stroke on your wedding night. This was not something that was withheld from your mate. That's why the vows state in sickness and in health. Those are incidentals. Hiding sexual dysfunctions is premeditated, no? If problems arise that were'nt there before, then they work on it together.]
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