Epilogue for 'Stella' author

[jamaica_dreamin]

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Originally posted by Tigrrr:
[qb] Princess, I wasn't implying every island romance is a Stella wannabe - I am talking about the women who (post Stella) went to Jamaica specifically to get their groove back.

Likewise, not all Jamaican men who date/marry farin women are jigolos. Again, I was only referring to those who do it with the hopes of financial gain, citizenship, etc.

Like you, my first trip to Jamaica was strictly about the travel - beaches, different foods and fruits, relaxation etc. The trip reports people post lead me to believe that most people who post for a long period on these boards are not Stella wannabes or jigalos.

It is the flash in the pan posters who post details of this wonderful attentive Jamaican man they met, then the next post they are asking about cheap phones cards, next they are asking how to wire money, next they are asking about spousal Visa applications... then suddenly you don't hear from them again. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [/qb]

A former coworker was at Jack Tar village in MoBay and actually heard an American woman telling a bartender "I'm stella, I'm here to get my groove. You are Winston"

[Tigrrr]

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I went to Jamaica with a girl who had that expectation. I'm late for work so I'll give the suss later.

[jamaica_dreamin]

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Originally posted by Tigrrr:
[qb] I went to Jamaica with a girl who had that expectation. I'm late for work so I'll give the suss later. [/qb]

This should be interesting [img]/forums/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

[Bawnayaad]

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Originally posted by Tigrrr:
[qb] I went to Jamaica with a girl who had that expectation. I'm late for work so I'll give the suss later. [/qb]

That couldn't be in a new thread, could it? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

[Boopie]

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Well I just think she was 40, depressed over her mom"s sudden death and found quick lust throwing caution to the wind. I'm sure she felt something but the paper reports that her friends told her to drag him on up to The States, telling her they hadn't seen her look so satisfied in years.

Lord, she lives in San Francisco how could she have not had a clue. She was desperately looking for her so called "Groove", he told her what she wanted to hear and that's all it is to it they both used each other. He must have known he was interested in men, why would he be spending so much time on the phone with his male friend for long periods of time ? Now she has to be scared because she was with this man her husband unprotected and could have picked up any type of disease.

I had to laugh though, yesterday morning it had a big old article that said" The whole tableau was so inspirational that thousands of "ITCHY"
women started flocking to the Carribean, scouring the beaches or their own special bronzed groovemakers.

[img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img] ITCHY WOMEN, that's about the sum of it. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[Boopie]

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Originally posted by The Bridge:
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Originally posted by Tigrrr:
[qb] I went to Jamaica with a girl who had that expectation. I'm late for work so I'll give the suss later. [/qb]

That couldn't be in a new thread, could it? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [/qb]

You haven't been around to read some of the trip reports I see. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[Boopie]

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Originally posted by Princess1:
[qb] I for one was never a wanna be Stella even though my husband is Jamaican. You see, there is a difference between Stella and I. Again, she was looking for her groove and I never lost mine. When I first went to Jamaica I didn't go in search of a man because there are plenty of men right here in America including Jamaican men and I have dated Jamaican men right here in my own country.

I don't live in Stella's world I live in my own world. I also don't play games like follow the leader because I am a leader not a follower, and right about now I wouldn't even want to walk in Terry's shoes with all the problems that she is encountering with her husband and the big court battles. Plus my husband isn't gay, hey, every female knows the finger test! That will let you whether he is a real man or not if you are ever in doubt!

When I first came to Jamaican I found it to be a very fascinating place with such breath taking beauty, and since I love history so much, I took an interest in Jamaica and fell inlove with Jamaica thoughout all my travels there. I then began to dive into the history of Jamaica and it's culture. Not eveyone run to Jamaica insearch for her Winston and that certainly was not the case for me. My husband even makes the statement that I love Jamaica more then I love him, Geezzzzz I got it bad for Jamaican don't I. So marriage was the furthest thing from my mind but it happened.

Now that I am married I don't believe in fairy tales and too mature to believe in the hype. When it comes to my husband and I, we deal with what is real; and with all of life's ups and downs we hold on tight to one another because we love each other realizing that the devil is always busy trying to break apart what is good(outside people). So no, I am not a Stella wanna be I am just me, doing my thing and living my life the way I want too no matter how anyone sees it.

I am in no way trying to be sarcastic or mean, I am just letting you step into my world for minute allowing you to see things from my point of view. Peace and Blessings Princess1 [/qb]

Princess1, the finger test doesn't always apply so many of the men don't like to be penetrated this way some are strictly givers of themselves not recievers. That's how they claim that they are not gay, that could have been the case with Stella"s hubby. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

[fOrTyLeGz]

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Originally posted by fOrTyLeGz:

The story is a hoot simply because she claims to have "gotten her groove back." "Getting your groove back" means having a great sex life. Many of us really doubt if one can have a great sex life when your partner is gay and you aren't.

Originally posted by neutral:

Yeah,isnt life odd,....she got her groove back with the fellow,...now someone else is getting into the fellow`s groove.

He's a groove retriever lol... but actually him being gay makes me have doubts about what her groove is all about.

[Gen]

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People pleaseeeeeeeeee

TMI.....TMI....my yeyes.....

[Gen]

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Originally posted by Princess1:
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Plus my husband isn't gay, hey, every female knows the finger test! That will let you whether he is a real man or not if you are ever in doubt!

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[Tigrrr]

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Originally posted by Tigrrr:
[qb] I went to Jamaica with a girl who had that expectation. I'm late for work so I'll give the suss later. [/qb]

She is my friend and I love her, but we did have conflict on the trip. Before we even left for the trip she told me this F-Buddy of hers wanted to come along and asked her if I was down for a threesome. She said it in that joking way where if I went off she could play it off, but if I said I was game, it would have been on.

First thing she did when we checked into our resort was grab the butt of the bellboy who took our luggage. He looked genuinely embarrassed and disgusted. In the US, we call that sexual harrassment.

Then I introduced her to a friend who used to a really nice guy, but had changed into a hustling ho since the last time I had seen him. First night, she gave him some. Then a different friend of mine went with us to Sumfest and brought one of his friends along. She slept with that guy.

We spent one day at Hedonism and the bus taking us back arrived before she could groove with the bartender who was definately game.

We took a tour bus to Ochi and were sitting behind a nice looking Jamaican man and his woman. SHE STARTED PLAYING WITH THE MAN'S HAIR!!! He tried to politely move away, but she wouldn't stop. I said to her loud enough for the girlfriend to hear, "I just want you to know that when she gets up to kick your ***, I DO NOT have your back!" That still didn't stop her. She thought it was funny.

Now, I know this might make you wonder why we are friends - because she is fun, we have a lot of non-sexual things in common, she is witty and interesting to talk to, and she has never done me wrong.

My best friend calls me a people keeper because my friends range from psuedo-nuns to psuedo-hos and everything in-between. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

[Yvonne N.]

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Is there a movie in the making?
Sounds like fodder for a script.
Oh dearie!

[Tigrrr]

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Shandra if I wasn't there to see for myself...

I'm no angel, so I'm not trying to come off like a prude, but... whoo

[Guest]

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Originally posted by Princess1:
[qb]...every female knows the finger test! That will let you whether he is a real man or not if you are ever in doubt! [/qb]

Finger test? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img] Never heard of it. Enlighten me please.

[Boopie2]

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Originally posted by Springtime:
[qb]

Originally posted by Princess1:
[qb]...every female knows the finger test! That will let you whether he is a real man or not if you are ever in doubt! [/qb]

Finger test? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img] Never heard of it. Enlighten me please. [/qb]

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