Should Christian women look different?

[Tropicana]

Re: Should Christian women look different?

Oh so you are going to tell me that the Holy Spirit is leading the men to date and marry women who dress in skimpy clothing and ignore spiritually mature women who dress modestly. I know a LOT of very Godly women (Black) who have been COMPLETELY ignored. This could not possibly be God's will.

[babydoll]

Re: Should Christian women look different?

Originally posted by Tropicana:
[qb]Tell THAT to the MEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/qb]

Look at the Middle East, the women dress up w/ so much clothes, u can't see dem face and yet, the women are still attacked and rape. It has nothing to do w/ clothing - lol

[Diplomat]

Re: Should Christian women look different?

Originally posted by Tropicana:
[qb]Oh so you are going to tell me that the Holy Spirit is leading the men to date and marry women who dress in skimpy clothing and ignore spiritually mature women who dress modestly.[/qb]

You are playing with words. What I said was: "As for your first comment, why blame the men? If they are Christians as you state, they are probably following whatever is directing them. It may not be the Holy Spirit, but then again, His leading seems to be something that everyone leaves out of the equation."

I know a LOT of very Godly women (Black) who have been COMPLETELY ignored. This could not possibly be God's will.

Any prayer prayed that is in accordance with God's will is answered with a "Yes", "No", or "Wait". Who in the scenario you are talking about know what is the will of God? If someone's prayers are not being answered, he/she needs to use the time in God's waiting room to figure out what is going on. There is nothing about prayer that is automatic. Ask Job. Ask Abraham, he waited 25 years for a son. Moses' preparation lasted 40 years in the wilderness, David waited 15 years to become King, Joseph edured 13 years of trials, jail, and those are just a few. God is not a liar, so as per John 9:31, "... but if any man be a worshipper of God, and doeth his will, him he heareth."

Anyone in God's waiting room is in there for a reason, and sometimes all it takes is a honest look into the mirror/the Word to find out why.

[NYer]

Re: Should Christian women look different?

the women are still attacked and rape

Rape is an act of aggression, it has little to nothing to do with how attractive you are. Insecure men who need to show they are powerful than someone, anyone, are rapists, and they'll generally rape whoever is handy.

In your example, the way the government is geared towards men makes it about impossible for a woman to get justice if raped, so those women are great targets, no matter how they dress.

[RollinCalf]

Re: Should Christian women look different?

It has been a long time since I have seen a thread where people are willing to put aside reality for platitudes.

Tropicana is speaking of what plainly exists out there for anyone to see. Why are so many trying to get her not see what is plainly in everyone's view ?

Men, Christian and otherwise, like half naked women. And they like them young. Period end. What is so difficult to understand about this ?

I read the other day, for example, that were the pornography industry to be listed as a group on the stock exchange, it would be bigger than GM, Walmart and IBM combined in the dollar volume of sales.

Given that this is supposedly a "Christian country", I suppose it is only non-believers who are spending their money in this manner.

[babydoll]

Re: Should Christian women look different?

Originally posted by NYer:
[qb]the women are still attacked and rape

Rape is an act of aggression, it has little to nothing to do with how attractive you are. Insecure men who need to show they are powerful than someone, anyone, are rapists, and they'll generally rape whoever is handy.

In your example, the way the government is geared towards men makes it about impossible for a woman to get justice if raped, so those women are great targets, no matter how they dress.[/qb]

Lets forget about that argument - you are correct.

[fOrTyLeGz]

Re: Should Christian women look different?

Originally posted by RollinCalf:

Tropicana is speaking of what plainly exists out there for anyone to see.

Men, Christian and otherwise, like half naked women. And they like them young. Period end. What is so difficult to understand about this ?

I think that Tropi would like Christian men to STOP liking young, half naked women. And that will not happen.

[RollinCalf]

Re: Should Christian women look different?

Exactly 40.

By the way, every now and then, the local Fox TV channel down here decides to show up when the Miami Police decide to do a sting using a female cop dressed as a hooker.

Guess who they always catch at least one of ?

[Tropicana]

Re: Should Christian women look different?

babydoll originally posted:

Look at the Middle East, the women dress up w/ so much clothes, u can't see dem face and yet, the women are still attacked and rape. It has nothing to do w/ clothing - lol

I don't live in the Middle East...I want to get married not attacked.. Don't ask me how THAT got into the argument.

If it has nothing to do with clothes, then why do the Christian men I know ignore the women who dress modestly? Why do the men say "they don't find Black women attractive"? Why is it that when they describe their ideal woman it's a young blonde in skimpy clothes even if the man is in their 40s?

RollingCalf Originally Posted:

Men, Christian and otherwise, like half naked women. And they like them young. Period end. What is so difficult to understand about this ?

Thank you. Someone is FINALLY willing to speak plainly and honestly. Let's cut the platitudes folks. If that was NOT what men find attractive then why would advertisers spend billions of dollars a year using women who look like that to flog their products?

FortyLegs Posted:

I think that Tropi would like Christian men to STOP liking young, half naked women. And that will not happen.

Unfortunately, you are probably 100% right. However, since that is what they clearly want, they should quit the act and stop pretending they are super spiritual.

[dahjah]

Re: Should Christian women look different?

Obviously thay are fraud Christians Tropicana and yuh should jus lowe dem cah dem kina man knaw lass long, in anyting .

I tink yuh and others who are trying so hard to find dis "good christian man" should stop looking within the church so hard, cah him nuh di deh.
There are many spirit filled men out here and not in the church cah dem kno seh nuff a dem man guh church fe do wah--> fine ooman who a look fe man.
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[Tropicana]

Re: Should Christian women look different?

Well said aa always dahjah..well said.

[dahjah]

Re: Should Christian women look different?

If a woman has to attract a man with provocative clothing, you are attracting him at his lowest level. Which is a level no woman can deal with cause it is the lowest.
Every woman wants an upright man, a strong man, a trying to be rightous man.

So if he's attracted to you for that then he's not attracted to YOU.
The YOU being the I within.
the I in I
Your mind is what you want your man to be attracted to. Of course looking fit helps also cause we do live in this flesh for now. But if you look goog and your mind is filled wid foolishness dat will soon show in his behvior.

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[accepted77]

Re: Should Christian women look different?

Originally posted by RollinCalf:
[qb]Exactly 40.

By the way, every now and then, the local Fox TV channel down here decides to show up when the Miami Police decide to do a sting using a female cop dressed as a hooker.

Guess who they always catch at least one of ?[/qb]

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[Tropicana]

Re: Should Christian women look different?

I think she meant minister or evangelist...unfortunately.

[jedi]

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