Ewwwww ...disgusting

[MrsBlue]

Re: Ewwwww ...disgusting

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: amberal37</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Please explain to me how the father is in denial when he ADMITS that the child has done it before and that it was a possibility that he had done it again? Unless the definition of denial that I use is different than fi yu </div></div>

He is in denial either about the incident actually happening (hence he only acknowledged the <span style="font-weight: bold">possibility</span>), OR the fact that it is a problem for them to deal with (why they sent the extra clothes in his bag).
So she sent him the evidence and the reality. This problem is not for a teacher to sort out.

</div></div> <span style="color: #3333FF">The father couldn't say he definitely had, he wasn't there. He said it was a possibility. The teacher called the father and <span style="font-weight: bold">asked</span> if the child <span style="font-weight: bold">could have</span> had an accident. She obviously didn't know for sure, and she <span style="font-weight: bold">was</span> there.

Yes, it is a problem for the parents to deal with, just as the teacher has some maturity and mental health issues that she needs to deal with.

What kind of professional uses the word &quot;stinky&quot;?</span>

[loops]

Re: Ewwwww ...disgusting

or &quot;TURD&quot;

[mountaingal]

Re: Ewwwww ...disgusting

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> Jason acknowledged the possibility, as his son had had a couple of accidents in the classroom in the past. </div></div>

the key sentence in this thing. i agree that 5yrs is a bit old to be pooping in the classroom, to the extent that a teacher can pick up a piece of it. what, is he stooping in a corner and doing this? why at that age? how can it be called an accident if the evidence is found outside his clothes?

and the parents know of the problem, but don't think they need to do something about it? just send extra clothes for the teachers to wash and change the child?

the teacher shouldn't have put the poop in the child's bag, but i can understand why she would want to send a strong message to the parents. certainly if i were a parent of another child in that class, i'd be concerned about the health of my child being exposed to another child's poop - especially a child aged 5 years.

so me seet.

[Amberal37]

Re: Ewwwww ...disgusting

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MrsBlue</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <span style="color: #3333FF">The father couldn't say he definitely had, he wasn't there. He said it was a possibility. The teacher called the father and <span style="font-weight: bold">asked</span> if the child <span style="font-weight: bold">could have</span> had an accident. She obviously didn't know for sure, and she <span style="font-weight: bold">was</span> there.

Yes, it is a problem for the parents to deal with, just as the teacher has some maturity and mental health issues that she needs to deal with.

What kind of professional uses the word &quot;stinky&quot;?</span> </div></div>

Well we're going to have to agree to disagree on this one. Teacher has 25-30 children to deal with, Parent the manageable number they choose, I take it it is not a special needs school, kindergarten/nursery you expect, but school you should have to be prepared to do this as part of your job.
Way i see it is this happened not once, but at least twice before, she must have been doubly-p**d (or gone mental )when he sent the clothes with the child. And, so what is that saying, turning it into HER job...sorry but I am on her side. Her methods (or grammer) might not be perfect, but it sounded like the parents needed a stronger message than then teacher her just telling them.

As I say, we're just going to have to disagree on this.