Cleansing my address book

[Jazz]

I was cleansing my address book... a very daunting task and something I can;t recall ever attempting to do...

Back in the day I would just delete the guys name and number when we broke up... everything else pretty much stayed and with the advent of syncing... my blackberry, two POP emails and outlook now all have duplicates of each and every person whose email, phone number or address I have ever recorded... some of them twice and even three times \o/

Hence the cleansing.

I have had the same cell phone number for over 12 years and one email addy since the internet was created... so it;s a LOT!

As I went through - I found the names of people I had not thought about in years... and then

I found names and numbers of friends who had passed... and it was strange because I just could not get myself to delete them... Is that morbid?
I dialed one number - then hung up quick when I realized it was actually ringing - I would not have wanted to hear another persons voice at the end of that phone...

If my life were a twilight zone episode I probably would have gotten a return call and it would have been my dead friend

anyway - mi jus waan aks oonu if u think I am morbid and weird for not deleting those numbers from mi address book?
Do I need to seek therapy? Am I still looking for closure?

Wat oonu tink?

[twiney]

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waiting patiently for the ansa cause mi wonder bout smaddy weh pass on whe mi cant bring mi self fi delete from facebook and hi5 and mi email

[Seveen]

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i don't delete anything i have over 10,000 emails in my inbox and every phone number i ever called or received a call from

hey you never know

[Jazz]

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DWL Twiny - maybe we can start a support group...

[Jazz]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i don't delete anything i have over 10,000 emails in my inbox and every phone number i ever called or received a call from

hey you never know </div></div>

OMG - and I was feeling guilty about mi ova 5000 emails \o/

I have a problem letting go too

[uswe]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: A_lil_Jazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I was cleansing my address book... a very daunting task and something I can;t recall ever attempting to do...

Back in the day I would just delete the guys name and number when we broke up... everything else pretty much stayed and with the advent of syncing... my blackberry, two POP emails and outlook now all have duplicates of each and every person whose email, phone number or address I have ever recorded... some of them twice and even three times \o/

Hence the cleansing.

I have had the same cell phone number for over 12 years and one email addy since the internet was created... so it;s a LOT!

As I went through - I found the names of people I had not thought about in years... and then

I found names and numbers of friends who had passed... and it was strange because I just could not get myself to delete them... Is that morbid?
I dialed one number - then hung up quick when I realized it was actually ringing - I would not have wanted to hear another persons voice at the end of that phone...

If my life were a twilight zone episode I probably would have gotten a return call and it would have been my dead friend

anyway - mi jus waan aks oonu if u think I am morbid and weird for not deleting those numbers from mi address book?
Do I need to seek therapy? Am I still looking for closure?

Wat oonu tink? </div></div>

Madame Jazz (age 27) you are neither morbid nor weird, but if the matter continues to bother you. Yuh cyan come check mi fi likkle counselling, I would be more than happy to be a shoulder for you to lean on

[Tuff Gong]

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I remember when M died I hanged onto her emails for years before I was able to delete them.
I know what you mean!

[Jazz]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: uswe</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Madame Jazz (age 27) you are neither morbid nor weird, but if the matter continues to bother you. Yuh cyan come check mi fi likkle counselling, I would be more than happy to be a shoulder for you to lean on </div></div>


kikikikiki - Tanks Uswe - but mi nuh ususally lean pon mi terapists shoulders dem - de whole idea of counseling is so that can be strong enough to cope with life nuh so?

all de same if u tink it will help

[Jazz]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tuff Gong</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I remember when M died I hanged onto her emails for years before I was able to delete them.
I know what you mean! </div></div>

(((TG))) - I have some of those too... it's tough letting go *sigh*

[Seveen]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: A_lil_Jazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i don't delete anything i have over 10,000 emails in my inbox and every phone number i ever called or received a call from

hey you never know </div></div>

OMG - and I was feeling guilty about mi ova 5000 emails \o/

I have a problem letting go too </div></div>


yahoo has unlimited storage so why bothering deleting them

and my phone isn't complaining about being full either

[uswe]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: A_lil_Jazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: uswe</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Madame Jazz (age 27) you are neither morbid nor weird, but if the matter continues to bother you. Yuh cyan come check mi fi likkle counselling, I would be more than happy to be a shoulder for you to lean on </div></div>


kikikikiki - Tanks Uswe - but mi nuh ususally lean pon mi terapists shoulders dem - de whole idea of counseling is so that can be strong enough to cope with life nuh so?

all de same if u tink it will help </div></div>

Madame Jazz (age 27) &quot;Mi deh yah pan di gulleyside, if yuh waan know, wheh fi fine mi&quot;
I know exactly where your'e coming from, nothing strange about it at all

[Jazz]

Re: Cleansing my address book

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: A_lil_Jazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i don't delete anything i have over 10,000 emails in my inbox and every phone number i ever called or received a call from

hey you never know </div></div>

OMG - and I was feeling guilty about mi ova 5000 emails \o/

I have a problem letting go too </div></div>


yahoo has unlimited storage so why bothering deleting them

and my phone isn't complaining about being full either

</div></div>

LOL - you may actually free me from my burden of trying to delete stuff

I like how u think!

[Jazz]

Re: Cleansing my address book

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: uswe</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: A_lil_Jazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: uswe</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Madame Jazz (age 27) you are neither morbid nor weird, but if the matter continues to bother you. Yuh cyan come check mi fi likkle counselling, I would be more than happy to be a shoulder for you to lean on </div></div>


kikikikiki - Tanks Uswe - but mi nuh ususally lean pon mi terapists shoulders dem - de whole idea of counseling is so that can be strong enough to cope with life nuh so?

all de same if u tink it will help </div></div>

Madame Jazz (age 27) &quot;Mi deh yah pan di gulleyside, if yuh waan know, wheh fi fine mi&quot;
I know exactly where your'e coming from, nothing strange about it at all </div></div>

Thanks Babes