Don't let this be YOUR wife and kids

[Derek]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Panajar</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Like it or not it is natural for a man to want to be with many different women...</div></div>

True, but this is where <span style="font-size: 11pt"><span style="font-weight: bold">self discipline</span></span> should come into play.
(I'm not an angel by the way.)

[Boopie2]

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If the woman &quot;knew&quot; the man was married than it's her own stupid fault for opening her mind, spirit and legs to him. Most of the time when a woman does find out the man has a wife or other woman, she may be pisssed at first. The sexing is too good to let go so she compromises and keeps him.

Then she thinks that what's between her legs is better than the wife or girlfriend and it becomes a game. When the mess doesn't work out that's when the heifer calls out foul and starts trouble.

[Derek]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body">If the woman &quot;knew&quot; the man was married than it's her own stupid fault for <span style="font-weight: bold">opening her mind, spirit and legs to him</span>. </div></div>

Was it in that order?

[Boopie2]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Derek</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body">If the woman &quot;knew&quot; the man was married than it's her own stupid fault for <span style="font-weight: bold">opening her mind, spirit and legs to him</span>. </div></div>

Was it in that order? </div></div>

Well if she opened her legs first maybe she didn't have a mind or spirit, or probably didn't care. If he wasn't skilled than

[UKBlackLady]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body">If the woman &quot;knew&quot; the man was married than it's her own stupid fault for opening her mind, spirit and legs to him. Most of the time when a woman does find out the man has a wife or other woman, she may be pisssed at first. The sexing is too good to let go so she compromises and keeps him.

Then she thinks that what's between her legs is better than the wife or girlfriend and it becomes a game. When the mess doesn't work out that's when the heifer calls out foul and starts trouble. </div></div>

You are right Boopie, see it all the time. In my opinion this behaviour stems from lack of self respect and/or esteem.

[Nunya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SPOTS</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Curmudgeon_Milo</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
I can guarantee that if you are happily married to a man who continues to be faithful to you he is still &quot;out wondering&quot; in his mind. Sure there may be exceptions as in everything else but the vast majority are thinking it. In many cases the only reason they have not act on such urges is that they have built up so much over the years of marriage in the way of relationships and assets that when they look at what they could lose if caught, they decide to stay with who and what they know.
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You might have a point there but always consider your LENS!

What we see in others is usually a reflection of what we see in ourselves...that does not make it wrong or right, it just makes it what we see. </div></div>

Loving this!

[Nunya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DotCom</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
There is nothing wrong with thinking it. A vast majority of women do the same. The little thing that comes between thinking and doing are the three &quot;R's&quot;. RESPONSIBILITY, RESPECT and RELATIONSHIP. <span style="font-weight: bold">These can only be practiced by those who are walking upright and have a brain!</span> </div></div>

I love the sensible sisters on this board!!!!!

I dunno why some men always like to draw pon evolution to justify dem dawgish mentality

[Nunya]

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I also agree with whomever stated that if the man is prone to wander, he should let the women involved know, so that they can make an informed choice...

The easiest solution is like mi madda always say: If yuh want yuh dawg fi stop walk bout, chop off one a im foot dem cawse chree feet mek one yawd...

[halfwaytree]

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Like I said, it's not what women want to hear and it's not the fairy tale vision women have when they marry their man. But there it is!

Yes, many men have self discipline and respect their vows (so they say ) but with approx. 50% of all marriages ending in divorce these days, one has to wonder if marriage to one woman is an unrealistic expectation placed on men?

I'm just throwing it out there?

[Nunya]

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You're just looking to get laid

[neutral]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

I love the sensible sisters on this board!!!!!

I dunno why some men always like to draw pon evolution to justify dem dawgish mentality

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Yeah,but some of you &quot;sensible sisters&quot; are talking as if being unfaithful is a male preserve and you sensible sisters dont do it as well.
And some of you sensible sisters are talking as if black men are only unfaithful with women of other races and not with black women too.

[Nunya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: neutral</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Yeah,but some of you &quot;sensible sisters&quot; are talking as if being unfaithful is a male preserve and you sensible sisters dont do it as well.</div></div>
'Sensible' sisters don't. Duh...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">And some of you sensible sisters are talking as if black men are only unfaithful with women of other races and not with black women too. </div></div>

Which 'sensible' sista said dat???? Tell mi so mi can go kunk har...

[halfwaytree]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">You're just looking to get laid </div></div>

<span style="font-weight: bold">Guilty as charged!</span>

Singledom

[Nunya]

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Well go get a shave and a hair-cut and you just might get lucky

[julie*mango]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Panajar</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Like it or not it is natural for a man to want to be with many different women....For those who believe in the bible, David and Solomon had many wives and concubines .This is a part of nature and it wont be going away anytime soon. </div></div>

yes I agree.

Men are wired that way.

As is such. Women can only have babies (naturally) up to their 40's while men can create babies for most of their lives.

So from a biological aspect yes I agree.

However, if yu caan stick to one woman doan go mek vow an married ar