Don't let this be YOUR wife and kids

[applepie]

Re: Don't let this be YOUR wife and kids

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> :dwl

I have noticed this too many times. My next door neighbor had a beautiful shapely wife and 3 beautiful kids. Next thing I know they divorced, she moved to Florida to br close to her mother. Now all of a sudden this mutt faced woman with 2 kids have been in and out.

He invited us over for New Years I really enjpyed his wife and kids. </div></div>

shapely, hour glass figure, beauty play a small role in why a person cheats.

[UKBlackLady]

Re: Don't let this be YOUR wife and kids

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Marilyn</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> Boops
That is EXACTLY what Oprah's expert on cheating says as well.

I know in the case of my Daddy that was true. My mother was a lovely woman, but the one that he left her for <span style="font-weight: bold">looked like a horse</span>. </div></div>

Prince Charles, Lady Diana and Camilla Parker Bowles being a prime example of it not being about the looks at awl ...

[Panajar]

Re: Don't let this be YOUR wife and kids

<span style="font-weight: bold">President Zuma</span> and his wives. We would have less incidents of cheating if the world did not accept the west idea of marriage. IE. marriage = one man and one woman.

BTW his wives seems very happy in this pic.....and so is he..

[applepie]

Re: Don't let this be YOUR wife and kids

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Panajar</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold">President Zuma</span> and his wives. We would have less incidents of cheating if the world did not accept the west idea of marriage. IE. marriage = one man and one woman.

BTW his wives seems very happy in this pic.....and so is he..




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But Panajar the children that are borned from these marriages are actually not in agreement with multiple wives because of the problems it create in the aftermath of the father's death.........Some even complain of the harshness of the stepmoms towards them.......most tribes are steering clear of this practice.

[Boopie2]

Re: Don't let this be YOUR wife and kids

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: applepie</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> :dwl

I have noticed this too many times. My next door neighbor had a beautiful shapely wife and 3 beautiful kids. Next thing I know they divorced, she moved to Florida to br close to her mother. Now all of a sudden this mutt faced woman with 2 kids have been in and out.

He invited us over for New Years I really enjpyed his wife and kids. </div></div>

shapely, hour glass figure, beauty play a small role in why a person cheats. </div></div>


His wife was the one with the shape, the new one look like a light skinned Olsen twin.

[Boopie2]

Re: Don't let this be YOUR wife and kids

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Panajar</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold">President Zuma</span> and his wives. We would have less incidents of cheating if the world did not accept the west idea of marriage. IE. marriage = one man and one woman.

BTW his wives seems very happy in this pic.....and so is he..




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Do you actually &quot;know&quot; an African with this many wives. I have, one White woman where I taught at in my first daycare center I worked at was married to a chief from Ghana. I can't remember what number she was but it was more than the three you pictured here. It's not that simple you have to be able to &quot;care&quot; for these wives materially as well, most men can't handle one wife let alone three.

I also have a friend in Dubai who is Muslim and wanted to marry another wife because the first wife had a child and changed sexually. Until his wife agrees there will be no second marriage.

[Fyah]

Re: Don't let this be YOUR wife and kids

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Panajar</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold">President Zuma</span> and his wives. We would have less incidents of cheating if the world did not accept the west idea of marriage. IE. marriage = one man and one woman.

BTW his wives seems very happy in this pic.....and so is he.. </div></div>

I find this hilarious.

Did you know that those &quot;men&quot; are not allowed to marry wives for whom they cannot DEMONSTRABLE provide?

Maybe the problem is that the men in the west have not demonstrated that they can care for the one they have effectively enough to reverse the &quot;west idea of marriage&quot;?

[Fyah]

Re: Don't let this be YOUR wife and kids

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Curmudgeon_Milo</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Like I said, it's not what women want to hear and it's not the fairy tale vision women have when they marry their man. But there it is!

Yes, many men have self discipline and respect their vows (so they say ) but with approx. 50% of all marriages ending in divorce these days, one has to wonder if marriage to one woman is an unrealistic expectation placed on men?

I'm just throwing it out there?
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You make it appear as if only men are responsible for the approx. 50% of failed marriages.

[Marilyn]

Re: Don't let this be YOUR wife and kids

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: YuhSiMi</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Marilyn</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> Boops
That is EXACTLY what Oprah's expert on cheating says as well.

I know in the case of my Daddy that was true. My mother was a lovely woman, but the one that he left her for <span style="font-weight: bold">looked like a horse</span>. </div></div>

Prince Charles, Lady Diana and Camilla Parker Bowles being a prime example of it not being about the looks at awl ... </div></div>

Amen

[Marilyn]

Re: Don't let this be YOUR wife and kids

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Panajar</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold">President Zuma</span> and his wives. We would have less incidents of cheating if the world did not accept the west idea of marriage. IE. marriage = one man and one woman.

BTW his wives seems very happy in this pic.....and so is he..




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Do you actually &quot;know&quot; an African with this many wives. I have, one White woman where I taught at in my first daycare center I worked at was married to a chief from Ghana. I can't remember what number she was but it was more than the three you pictured here. It's not that simple you have to be able to &quot;care&quot; for these wives materially as well, most men can't handle one wife let alone three.

I also have a friend in Dubai who is Muslim and wanted to marry another wife because the first wife had a child and changed sexually. Until his wife agrees there will be no second marriage. </div></div>

I had a Muslim co-worker once who tried to talk me into this, pulled the Quran out and quoted me all the places that &quot;allowed&quot; this, but as Boopie stated he made it very clear that a man could only have as many as he could adequately and equally provide for....so recent man I went out with ordered himself a V-8 and then sat patiently as I paid the bill for my meal AND his v-8 (I didn't feel like washing dishes).

Boopie is right.

[Marilyn]

Re: Don't let this be YOUR wife and kids

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SPOTS</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Curmudgeon_Milo</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Like I said, it's not what women want to hear and it's not the fairy tale vision women have when they marry their man. But there it is!

Yes, many men have self discipline and respect their vows (so they say ) but with approx. 50% of all marriages ending in divorce these days, one has to wonder if marriage to one woman is an unrealistic expectation placed on men?

I'm just throwing it out there?
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You make it appear as if only men are responsible for the approx. 50% of failed marriages. </div></div>Well there would be stats on this....you could look at who filed, the man or the woman, and if adultery was one of the charges.

in MY case...he moved out of the house Nov. 1, and was officially engaged Dec. 28, and we didn't even have a court date for the divorce yet...does that give you a hint???