Why Can't We Just Be HAPPY?

[Truthangel]

Re: Why Can't We Just Be HAPPY?

<span style="color: #996633"><span style="font-size: 14pt">Being outside is a health booster, particularly when the sun is shining bright.</span></span>

[Dr.Dudd]

Re: Why Can't We Just Be HAPPY?

<span style="font-size: 11pt"> Being happy requires a certain perspective of favour in the state of affairs as we see them.
unless you can get to the point where you see all experiences as favourable, or likely to result in favourable outcomes, you are not likely to be happy.
Is that possible?? Yes.... ....but require a solid knowledge of the principles of infinite laws and ability to navigate them.
The number of people who are are able to recognize this are limited and those able to have achieved this is even more difficult to find.

Of course there are those who profess to be happy, but only as an impression to others.
They are not included.
It is one thing to look in the mirror and smile at yourself, but it is quite another thing to be smiling because you are really happy.
I am known to smile even when others car confounded as to why i do.
that does not mean i have achieved the means to navigate the laws, but they are the same laws that the Jews, broke and was sent into Egypt as slaves .

That is before the ten commandments was given. since it was only given on their way back, to assist them in reaching the promised land.
If they didn't break the original laws, there would be no need for the 10 commandments. <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MJ7</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="color: #663366"> Why can't we just chill and be happy? Why do people feel they have to be hard all the damn time? What is the problem with everyone?

All over the globe, people are afraid to smile. It's supposed to be a sign of weakness. Really? Well...from what I've learned, medically, laughing is one of the best things that you can do for your body. Link: http://helpguide.org/life/humor_laughter_health.htm

Stop hating on people. Love yourself first then you can embrace others.

Life is too short to be so damned mad all the time.

Like Madea says: &quot;Just look in the mirror and smile at yourself sometimes...&quot;

Ok.

Bless


MJ7</span></span> </div></div>

[Dr.Dudd]

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People like that are actually working out internal conflicts.

usually transferring their internal conflicts to others.

As in, &quot;misery loves company&quot;<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MJ7</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="color: #000099"><span style="font-size: 14pt">Yes, be honest about your emotions. But I'm talking about people who are just perpetually, &quot;pain in the @ss&quot; miserable.&quot;

There is a difference.</span></span> </div></div>

[loops]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Being happy requires a certain perspective of favour in the state of affairs as we see them.
unless you can get to the point where you see all experiences as favourable, or likely to result in favourable outcomes, you are not likely to be happy.
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true. and this begs the question.

do you consider yourself Dr D...to be a happy person?

[Truthangel]

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<span style="font-size: 14pt"><span style="color: #CC6600">Hhum...this is something to definitely ponder.

*Very deep.</span></span>

[Truthangel]

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<span style="color: #330000"><span style="font-size: 14pt">True. I went through this process when I was young. It was a difficult time, but Thank God, I got through it.

Let's just say, in order to find peace, you must allow yourself to fight the battle within.</span>
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[Dr.Dudd]

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Put it this way...
I am happy the majority of times. the time when I'm not are usually when i allow my emotion to overcome by better judgement. as soon as i recognize this i happily resort to my logical self.
i have come a long way, and am satisfied with my progress.. And hope some day i many achieve the point where I will be able to assist others through my example.

Hpw about you??<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: loops</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Being happy requires a certain perspective of favour in the state of affairs as we see them.
unless you can get to the point where you see all experiences as favourable, or likely to result in favourable outcomes, you are not likely to be happy.
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true. and this begs the question.

do you consider yourself Dr D...to be a happy person? </div></div>

[Dr.Dudd]

Re: Why Can't We Just Be HAPPY?

Yes you have to be at peace with yourself first.

i mean at peace to the point where you are as comfortable alone as with others.
where the presence of others does not dictate you behavior. then other swill react favourable eventually after they resist for some time.<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MJ7</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="color: #330000"><span style="font-size: 14pt">True. I went through this process when I was young. It was a difficult time, but Thank God, I got through it.

Let's just say, in order to find peace, you must allow yourself to fight the battle within.</span>
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[Truthangel]

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<span style="font-size: 17pt">True dis.
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[loops]

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yep Dr D....i consider myself quite laid back, and don't let too much get to me. I'd say i'm mostly happy.

except for today....as my boss is being a wench....and i'd like to take her outside and smack her upside the head!

[Truthangel]

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<span style="font-size: 14pt">LOL@takingyourbossoutside.

Been there...
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[Wahalla]

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its all about spheres..... focus on sphere of control not sphere of influence... or sphere of effect.. pscobabble...

[blugiant]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MJ7</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="color: #663366"><span style="font-size: 14pt">Why can't we just chill and be happy? Why do people feel they have to be hard all the damn time? What is the problem with everyone?

All over the globe, people are afraid to smile. It's supposed to be a sign of weakness. Really? Well...from what I've learned, medically, laughing is one of the best things that you can do for your body. Link: http://helpguide.org/life/humor_laughter_health.htm

Stop hating on people. Love yourself first then you can embrace others.

Life is too short to be so damned mad all the time.

Like Madea says: &quot;Just look in the mirror and smile at yourself sometimes...&quot;

Ok.

Bless


MJ7</span></span> </div></div>


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[Truthangel]

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<span style="font-size: 17pt">And you laughed your butt off at the premier of all of those Tyler Perry movies,right?

LOL</span>

[blugiant]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MJ7</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-size: 17pt">And you laughed your butt off at the premier of all of those Tyler Perry movies,right?

LOL</span> </div></div>

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