Brother in sister delivery birth room - normal ?

[foolya]

Am I the only think it's abnormal for my male coworker to spent all night in his sister hospital labor room? I asked where's the dad? He says he says he chased him away long time cause he's no good.

[foolya]

Re: Brother in sister delivery birth room - normal ?

Men would you want to be in the room when your sister giving birth?

Women would want your bother in the room when you give birth?

I think its gross. Perhaps, that's just me.

[Peasie]

Re: Brother in sister delivery birth room - normal ?

What are you grossed out about? Have you ever participated in delivering birth? Ain't nothing sexual about that situation, if that is what you are implying.

Childbirth can be traumatic. Maybe your co-worker understood how much support his sister needed at that time. Maybe she was scared and needed a close relative near by. Who knows what their circumstances are?

I cannot judge. Further more, older sons have helped their mothers deliver babies. Not gross. It's part of life.

[sistactry]

Re: Brother in sister delivery birth room - normal ?

for me, me know me wudden want my brother in de delivery room wid me, no brabra,

but maybe dem close like dat and him mature like dat

[missus_vegas]

Re: Brother in sister delivery birth room - normal ?

having your bro is same as having your dad...if dem was the oly people i had den mi woulda want dem in deh yes. know my bro and dad dem maybe wouldn't dweet doe.

mi no see nothing wrong.

[queenb]

Re: Brother in sister delivery birth room - normal ?

When my first grandchild was born (my son's son), I sat right at the end of the bed with a bird's eye view. My son was there holding her hand (getting crushed), and my daughter sat to one side in a state of shock. Although they have since broken up, we are still close; and I am the m-i-l she never had.

[twiney]

Re: Brother in sister delivery birth room - normal ?

Most times that person isn't even near that side to have the birds eye view much less they are often close to the person head getting squashed as you said QueenB so if them comfortable they should be go ahead... imagine being giving birth with no support way worst I think