Toxic People

[Rivers]

How do you deal with them
just saw this on another site
and suggestion on how to deal
with them and thought I would share.


unless they are related to you or in your workplace, block their calls/emails
If they are unavoidable, might need to<span style="font-weight: bold"> verbally smash them in the kneecap</span>...just as an eyeopener

toxic people suck

the above bolded verbally smash them
in the kneecap comment had me in
stiches

[Wendy]

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You don't have to deal with them at all. You yourself need to know your tolerance level and if you find yourself around people you deem &quot;toxic&quot; (whatever that it is for you) do yourself a favor and make an exit. Don't even need to resort to physical violence. Or is that too simplistic

[CeaBee]

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I agree with Wendy. There is no need to verbally smash them either. Just avoid them, your blood pressure will thank u for it, and the cussing and fighting is not a good look.

[Wendy]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CeaBee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I agree with Wendy. There is no need to verbally smash them either. <span style="font-weight: bold">Just avoid them, your blood pressure will thank u for it, and the cussing and fighting is not a good look. </span></div></div>


woooowweeeee buddy . Right on CB!!

[MsPeaches]

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A lot of toxic people have Severe Personality Disorders, and people would do themselves a big favour if they learned more about these disorders. I myself was married here to a very very charming and intelligent man who turned out to be a Psychopath!

I am sure that he used the same <span style="font-weight: bold">POISON</span> to try to kill me as he had previously done his own mother!!! Only Allah saved me, I swear!

People who are obviously toxic are the easier ones to deal with. You can verbally kneecap them as you said. It's the hidden ones who are really dangerous and make the lives of their husbands and wives a Living Hell!

Thanks for raising this topic: I was thinking it was time somebody brought it up.

[X]

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note and ignore..

[jamaica_dreamin]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: pleXxed</div><div class="ubbcode-body">note and ignore.. </div></div>


i agree in theory. But, sometimes it is hard to ignore them.

[Peasie]

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What is the definition of a toxic person? What personality traits?

[diabolical_Tanya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">We’ve all met them: they are the people who drain you of energy instead of enriching you, the people who pull you down instead of pushing you up, the people who require more then they can provide; the negative, wining, needy, manipulative people who can turn a happy day into a living hell.</div></div>

http://www.peopleskillsdecoded.com/how-to-deal-with-toxic-people/

[diabolical_Tanya]

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Definition of Toxic People

A toxic person or relationship can simply be described as any negative impact on the other either physically, mentally, spiritually, financially or emotionally.
Traits of Toxic People

Toxic people will come in various forms and shapes.They can be very draining and can basically live by feeding off your good virtue(s). Moreover,you could be left feeling battered or emotionally drained of your all your energy..

Toxic people will rob you of your life if you allow them and you may end up mirroring their image as well as behaving just like them….

Toxic people may…..

Acts out

Complain consistently

Gossiping uncontrollably about you

Will put you down

Projects a lot of anger

Extremely sensitive

Mostly defensive

Very controlling

Very Jealous

Very manipulative

Joy and dream killers

Insecured

VeryDisrespectful

This list could probably go on… the bottom line is that once it becomes a vicious circle and affects or start to affect you negatively you most certainly will have to do something about it .

http://www.selfhelpwellness.com/self-help-motivation/toxic-people-spot-them-fast.php

[Peasie]

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One time I heard my mother describe a such a person. Mommy scraped her throat and said, &quot;Lawd, shi sick mi ti-ti.&quot;

[evanovitch]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">We’ve all met them: they are the people who drain you of energy instead of enriching you, the people who pull you down instead of pushing you up, the people who require more then they can provide; the negative, wining, needy, manipulative people who can turn a happy day into a living hell.</div></div>

http://www.peopleskillsdecoded.com/h...-toxic-people/ </div></div>

u need to listen to Beres Hammond's song FRIENDS from his ONE MOMENT IN TIME ALBUM

but somehow Tanya i dont think this definition is di one dat was being tried to be put out on here....

and any way people who need to be pushed up as a matter of course EVERY DAY of their lives r also toxic in dat dem drain the ones who have to do the daily mantra to mek dem get going fi di day...ongle a psychiatrist wi tolerate such a needy/toxic person,,,even the BIBLE tawks about growth...so him dem still a moan day after day, year after year, dat deh toxity tek full charge

[evanovitch]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Definition of Toxic People

A toxic person or relationship can simply be described as any negative impact on the other either physically, mentally, spiritually, financially or emotionally.
Traits of Toxic People

Toxic people will come in various forms and shapes.They can be very draining and can basically live by feeding off your good virtue(s). Moreover,you could be left feeling battered or emotionally drained of your all your energy..

Toxic people will rob you of your life if you allow them and you may end up mirroring their image as well as behaving just like them….

Toxic people may…..

Acts out

Complain consistently

Gossiping uncontrollably about you

Will put you down

Projects a lot of anger

Extremely sensitive

Mostly defensive

Very controlling

Very Jealous

Very manipulative

Joy and dream killers

Insecured

VeryDisrespectful

This list could probably go on… the bottom line is that once it becomes a vicious circle and affects or start to affect you negatively you most certainly will have to do something about it .

http://www.selfhelpwellness.com/self...-them-fast.php </div></div>

point of point...to be toxic the person has to be in ur life...the person himself is not toxic but the behaviours he introduces to ur life wich make u miserable...i.e
]Acts out

Complain consistently

Gossiping uncontrollably about you

Will put you down

Projects a lot of anger

Extremely sensitive

Mostly defensive

Very controlling

Very Jealous

Very manipulative

Joy and dream killers

Insecured

VeryDisrespectful


makes u wonder wat is in the person to attract one who exhibits the behaviours pointed out...why would u let a one get close enuff to u fi kill ur joys, control u mek u feel dat badly..that spells longtern, upfront personal interaction

really sad

but i think that wen this was posted dem was tryin to seh a one who cuss out a one in verddy plain terms was the toxic one.. :grin,,,but u can see that with the provided definitions , dat fall flat...as does posting once in a while at wat r thought to opportune moments to send messages on...given dat it is cyberworld it is hard to know wat is wat n who tinks wat but some carry it on within their off site lives and once in awile show a spark of something but juss dont mek clear wat dem mean

[MsPeaches]

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My own experience was with a Malignant Narcissist. Everybody should familarise him/herself with the traits of this disorder. We have all known people like these at one point or another. They are Toxic People and somtimes even dangerous! The emotional and psychological abusers are among them

This is a pretty good piece about it:

MALIGNANT NARCISSISTS

[diabolical_Tanya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">makes u wonder wat is in the person to attract one who exhibits the behaviours pointed out...why would u let a one get close enuff to u fi kill ur joys, control u mek u feel dat badly..that spells longtern, upfront personal interaction</div></div>

Evan, sometimes you don't choose or attract the toxic person, they just happen to be in your environment (workplace) and as such if you have a close working relationship you have no choice but to be around them.

There are 2 such people in my current work group.