Thought I had found the perfect Christian man but then....

[RichD]

Then how can one find out if someone is a freak before it's too late?

well anybody who answer the questions regardless of their answers is a freak

i suggest you try to get to know them and use you own judgement...if a man approach you in a respectful manner give him a chance

[Tropicana]

well anybody who answer the questions regardless of their answers is a freak

i suggest you try to get to know them and use you own judgement...if a man approach you in a respectful manner give him a chance

[RichD]

I met this couple...she said that when she first met him she was crossing him off the list because he was not a christian...but she decided to give him a chance because he was a good and decent man...he is now a christian and a leader in the church...they are very happy (married about 20 years)

[Tropicana]

I met this couple...she said that when she first met him she was crossing him off the list because he was not a christian...but she decided to give him a chance because he was a good and decent man...he is now a christian and a leader in the church...they are very happy (married about 20 years)

Are you recommending missionary dating?

[RichD]

Are you recommending missionary dating?

dont know what that is

[Tropicana]

Missionary dating = date to convert. It is usually a Christian woman who dates a non-Christian man, invites him to church etc. hoping he will become a Christian.

In the past, 99.9% of the time it didn't work. However, times have changed. I am finding out that most of the men I am encountering in the church are just as bad if not worse than men outside the church. They are just as quick to want baggy fe drop and you never know what deep dark secrets lurk such as visits to porn sites.

[RichD]

Missionary dating = date to convert. It is usually a Christian woman who dates a non-Christian man, invites him to church etc. hoping he will become a Christian.

In the past, 99.9% of the time it didn't work. However, times have changed. I am finding out that most of the men I am encountering in the church are just as bad if not worse than men outside the church. They are just as quick to want baggy fe drop and you never know what deep dark secrets lurk such as visits to porn sites.

but why the need to have him in the church..if he is faithful and respectful and a decent person that should be enough.

[j-kid]

Thought yuh wanted honesty? Di man gi yuh honesty, an yuh shot him dun without ah trial, an speed away from him like road-kill.

[Tropicana]

Thought yuh wanted honesty? Di man gi yuh honesty, an yuh shot him dun without ah trial, an speed away from him like road-kill.

[kia027]

I met him on Terra Firma and when he mentioned he was on that dating site I decided to check him out. It is a good thing I did isn't it? This could have gone on for months before I found out he is a total, low functioning freak. Successful in his care but......



As the millionaire matchmaker would say...my picker is definitely off.

A harvard study shows the highest amount of porn consumed comes from the ahmm very christian aka the bible belt states- usually found in the Southest US, Texas, Utah--- where there is a lot of Christian right. Sounds like he is being honest with his desires http://people.hbs.edu/bedelman/paper...ightstates.pdf

edited to add: when I worked in telecom and we were analyzing bandwidth usage the biggest users were going to porn sites in the bible belt areas

[Tropicana]

but why the need to have him in the church..if he is faithful and respectful and a decent person that should be enough.

There is no way to evaluate those qualities when you first meet someone. For sure men outside the church will expect baggy fe drop immediately. I assumed men in the church came armed with those qualities.

WRONG AGAIN!!

[Tropicana]

A harvard study shows the highest amount of porn consumed comes from the ahmm very christian states.. Sounds like he is being honest with his desires http://people.hbs.edu/bedelman/paper...ightstates.pdf

What do you mean by Christian states?

[j-kid]

Tropi, yuh sure yuh not looking fi Jesus Christ?

[j-kid]

Ah tink shi talking bout di Bible-Belt States.

What do you mean by Christian states?

[RichD]

There is no way to evaluate those qualities when you first meet someone. For sure men outside the church will expect baggy fe drop immediately. I assumed men in the church came armed with those qualities.

WRONG AGAIN!!

you dot know that. you are assuming. you have to give the man the benefit of the doubt and see what happen.