Why oonu neva tell mi

[ILP]

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Nunya wah you fah? you face favah

anyhew.....

di current mr ilp was kinna cah ascarding to im mi behavior was "unpredictable". is im stop ah Duane & Reade ahn tell mi fi buy di 1st test.

When mi show im di result im call im sister, which is wah im do when im shockted (and secretly want to ).
Den im right mind tek ova (to be read: he see seh me was ready fi ) so im suggest mi tek one next test im sister suggested. Then he went wid me to both drs. ahn di lab.

im was in deh when dem examine & interrogate mi today. mi think di magnitude of dis ting setting in. im gone go play golf.

as fi bakrah...mi sure dem will chat mi, but last year...2 teachers had babies and weren't married. truthfully, they are more "strict" when the elementary teachers do it.

[CeaBee]

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the ultrasound thing not that bad...unless it change big time since i had it

u soon get used to it .....not sure if thats a + or -

[julie*mango]

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is like a magic wand

[Bandana]

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somehow mi noh think ilp too into di wand dem

[ILP]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bandanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body">And you can ask them to try the non-vaginal ultrasound first </div></div>

mi already tek di vaginal babylon sinting bandit.

what ah degrading experience

[Nunya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Emotional_ILP</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
as fi bakrah...mi sure dem will chat mi, but last year...2 teachers had babies and weren't married. truthfully, they are more &quot;strict&quot; when the elementary teachers do it. </div></div>

'Let's give em something to talk about'

But I do recall instances where teachers were let go for getting pregnant while being unmarried. Which is why mi ask yuh...

Anyway, a how long yuh planning on laying up eena de bed???

Mine yuh nuh. Cawse yuh might en up putting on 60lbs, insteada 35...

[julie*mango]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Emotional_ILP</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bandanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body">And you can ask them to try the non-vaginal ultrasound first </div></div>

mi already tek di vaginal babylon sinting bandit.

what ah degrading experience </div></div>

if you think that is degrading try 10 ppl witnessing the miracle of the expulsion of the fruit of thy womb

[CeaBee]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Emotional_ILP</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bandanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body">And you can ask them to try the non-vaginal ultrasound first </div></div>

mi already tek di vaginal babylon sinting bandit.

what ah degrading experience </div></div>

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bandanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> (will they still employ you if you're pregnant &amp; unmarried?)...

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The Pregnancy Discrimination Act is an amendment to Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964. Discrimination on the basis of pregnancy, childbirth, or related medical conditions constitutes unlawful sex discrimination under Title VII, which covers employers with 15 or more employees, including state and local governments. Title VII also applies to employment agencies and to labor organizations, as well as to the federal government. Women who are pregnant or affected by related conditions must be treated in the same manner as other applicants or employees with similar abilities or limitations.

http://www.eeoc.gov/types/pregnancy.html

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if she worked at a private catholic school it would be a major issue though

[julie*mango]

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yes mi memba nuff teacha marrieding after dem get preg back in di day...

[Bandana]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _______</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yes mi memba nuff teacha marrieding after dem get preg back in di day... </div></div>

[ILP]

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wah dem do in my county is &quot;if di parent say something&quot; (which usually happens at the elementary level), they put the teacher at our staff develepment center. most teachers just wear ring until dem have di baby.

they've not done that at my school.

but what mi care wah dem do...mek dem transfer mi....

[ILP]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: evanovitch</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So wat u hoping fah ..bwoy r girl </div></div>

mi shame but mi not hoping for anyting...

mi hoping smaddy will wake mi up ahn mi fine out dis ah nitemare....

aye sah.... sorry...

[Jazz]

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(((ILP)))) - I want to say congrats

but based on yuh attitude mi feel like mi haffe say (((hush)))

It can be the craziest, wildest, saddest, best time of your life and at times u will probabaly experience variations of all these

but believe mi - it will be worth it all in the end...

I suggest u name her Jazz - that's such a great name for a little girl

[evanovitch]

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&quot;aye sah.... sorry...&quot;

normal reaction given the surprise of it... Important ting is dat u no chide uself fi feeling this way...watch how u go, feeling wise, n if u feel seh it deh wid u too long, seek help wid tawking it out