Worried Sick about this transition

[RichD]

Re: Worried Sick about this transition

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY_PeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY_PeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body">She has a lunch account that is paid up 3 monts in advance. She picks up somethin ..dont like it and dem run har when shi come back for soemthing else. When di dyam account have money where she can goh get someting else fi eat. So shi en nat eating anyting for lunch. Spoke to the cafeteria manager and shi a seh shi neva realize seh shi wanted us to tek di extra lunch outta di account. What kina fawt is dat?!

Tell me if Pee on the dam seats is high standards.

Rich, I doan give a dam if mi sound emotional bout dis ..a 5 year old should not be in school fram 7 am til dam near 2 aclack not eating anything an grown [censored] people at the school thing that shYt is OK </div></div>

you can be emotional but don't show it to the child.
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yu want dem to force feed her? what happen if she nuh want to eat?</span>

years to come you will be packing lunch and si it come back unopened same way.

as for pee on the seats dem should address that ...but meantime teach her to tek a wad of TP and wipe the seat before she use it.

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Rich ...please ...please .. mi having a touch a migraine .. mi not in the mood
Of course I don't expect her to force feed her ..did you hear me say we told her to go back to get something that she likes an dem run har? </div></div>

give her extra snack in case this happens again..a cereal bar ..an extra apple.

[Wendy]

Re: Worried Sick about this transition

Thanks Kia.. tried to answer all your concerns below

Lunch
Can you go online and look at the lunch menu choices. Then you and Wendilina can figure out what she does or does not eat and suggest to her to choose. It is school policy (I think) of u go through 1x

<span style="color: #3333FF">That's what we did after we found out ..but she will eat fish stick at home for example so wi tell her fish sticks on the menu ...she says Mommy I will get that. Turns out the fish sticks noh taste good to her so she decides to go back an jus get a plain peanut butter and jelly sandwich. Dem run har \o/
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An alternative is to just have her bring in her lunch a few times a week and then choose from the lunch menu on some days.. If she is kindergarten age, she will be picky and it may be easier on you (and her) to just eat.

<span style="color: #3333FF">We pack snacks and other food items as a back up ..but dem not suppose to touch that til 1:30 accarding to di schedule for snacks. Now dem tell har di odda day cause di bus a wait shi cyaan have her snacks..fr!gging imbeciles </span>

Bathroom
I would send an email to the office about the state of the bathroom and they will contact the custodian. When did u see the bathroom dirty? on back to school night? Also none of the kids are touching the toilet so the pee may be the oops off the aim. Reinforce the need for her to not touch and use good aim (if you sprinkle while you tinkle please be neat and wipe the seat)

<span style="color: #3333FF">We drafted a letter and we going to the principal next week ..with this and all our issues. But the thing that erks the hell out of me is that we have been bringing these things up every freaking week an it a fall pan deaf ears . Dese tings should not be happening on week 3 afta all the face to face we have had with them to date </span>

Lost clothes

Ask where the lost &amp; found is for the bus AND in school. It is there.

<span style="color: #3366FF">Asked about that ...and massi Jesas ..dem sen wi inna di cafeteria ina wan back room dark like midnight fi goh look inna wan box. When we went there ..no box but tings dash dung pan di grung. Look like things that were there fram Moses was a bway. None of her items were found</span>

Also what RichD said about lunches coming back uneaten yes it will happen

Since it is kindergarten , how about considering a private kindergarten and then transition her to public school for grade 1?

<span style="color: #3333FF">We took her out of her school because they were downsizing because of budget issues and with that budget crisis came a HUGE tuition hike. We simple could not afford to keep her there. But I am looking into prostitution as a side job to get my child out of this mess </span>

[CeaBee]

Re: Worried Sick about this transition

as skelly seh to me the other day (and me box har down)..&quot;it will be ok&quot;

sounds like things can work out despite the bumpy start

ETA; but a leather mini skirt and stilettos will always come in handy

[kia027]

Re: Worried Sick about this transition

The school year is new and she is 'feeling out' the lunches. By Oct she will have a good idea of what she likes or does not like so taht will help

call ur local newspaper about the state of the bathrooms. Do you have &quot;the patch' for your area http://www.patch.com/

[Wendy]

Re: Worried Sick about this transition

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CeaBee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">as skelly seh to me the other day (and me box har down)..&quot;it will be ok&quot;

sounds like things can work out despite the bumpy start

<span style="font-weight: bold">ETA; but a leather mini skirt and stilettos will always come in handy</span> </div></div>

Yuh si weh mi a seh CB.

If I was on the outside of this I probably would be saying &quot;it will be ok&quot; to .. but troo mi inna di miggle a dis angst, mi cyaan si paas right now

[Wendy]

Re: Worried Sick about this transition

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The school year is new and she is 'feeling out' the lunches. By Oct she will have a good idea of what she likes or does not like so taht will help

call ur local newspaper about the state of the bathrooms. Do you have &quot;the patch' for your area http://www.patch.com/

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Kia -- I clicked on your link..what is that &quot;patch&quot; for?

[RichD]

Re: Worried Sick about this transition

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY_PeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CeaBee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">as skelly seh to me the other day (and me box har down)..&quot;it will be ok&quot;

sounds like things can work out despite the bumpy start

<span style="font-weight: bold">ETA; but a leather mini skirt and stilettos will always come in handy</span> </div></div>

Yuh si weh mi a seh CB.

If I was on the outside of this I probably would be saying &quot;it will be ok&quot; to .. but troo mi inna di miggle a dis angst, mi cyaan si paas right now </div></div>

I think many of us who have commented have been thru it already and trying to share what we have learned...we not being flipant

ETA..you talk to any of the other class parents to see what their experiences are?

[CeaBee]

Re: Worried Sick about this transition

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY_PeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CeaBee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">as skelly seh to me the other day (and me box har down)..&quot;it will be ok&quot;

sounds like things can work out despite the bumpy start

<span style="font-weight: bold">ETA; but a leather mini skirt and stilettos will always come in handy</span> </div></div>

Yuh si weh mi a seh CB.

If I was on the outside of this I probably would be saying &quot;it will be ok&quot; to .. but t<span style="font-weight: bold">roo mi inna di miggle a dis angst, mi cyaan si paas right now</span> </div></div>

that is what me saying to you

(me trow the box before u trow yours )

*singing*

the sun will come out tomorrow...u betcha bottom dollar....tomorroooow...

repeat

me guh tru some tings wid LB and the transition to elementary as well...(him, not the school so much) so me know a little about the angst of which u speak.

[kia027]

Re: Worried Sick about this transition

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY_PeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The school year is new and she is 'feeling out' the lunches. By Oct she will have a good idea of what she likes or does not like so taht will help

call ur local newspaper about the state of the bathrooms. Do you have &quot;the patch' for your area http://www.patch.com/

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Kia -- I clicked on your link..what is that &quot;patch&quot; for? </div></div>

The patch is a local online paper in your town. You can find the patch for your location and then send a letter to the editor of your local patch about the bathroom story. That will give the issue publicity and perhaps a resolution

[Wendy]

Re: Worried Sick about this transition

Is it wrong for me to think negatively about her new teacher who is up there in age (looks aroun 60+) and is wearing hideous nails longer than Flo-jo's

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[RichD]

Re: Worried Sick about this transition

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY_PeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Is it wrong for me to think negatively about her new teacher who is up there in age (looks aroun 60+) and is wearing hideous nails longer than Flo-jo's

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</div></div></div> </div></div> yuh can sey what you want but try to jus allow the child to form her own opinion of the teacher

[Wendy]

Re: Worried Sick about this transition

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY_PeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The school year is new and she is 'feeling out' the lunches. By Oct she will have a good idea of what she likes or does not like so taht will help

call ur local newspaper about the state of the bathrooms. Do you have &quot;the patch' for your area http://www.patch.com/

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Kia -- I clicked on your link..what is that &quot;patch&quot; for? </div></div>

The patch is a local online paper in your town. You can find the patch for your location and then send a letter to the editor of your local patch about the bathroom story. That will give the issue publicity and perhaps a resolution </div></div>

OK I saw UpperMarlboro in that link ..that is the closet city to me. I am the point where mi ago start gadda a up an army of other parents fi give the school an earful..because quite frankly this is not just a concern for Wendy2... the lack of care for these 5 yr olds is atrocious!!

[FrenchTickla]

Re: Worried Sick about this transition

oonu realize seh is di likkle girl dem a peepee pon di seat and naw clean up after themselves, right?

so if dem learn fi clean up den it will help. or dem a guh need bathroom attendant and that naw go happen if fi oonu school district have the same budget issues as most.

so likkleWendy will wipe the seat before and after and wash har hand good.

[Wendy]

Re: Worried Sick about this transition

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: WeNdY_PeNdY</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Is it wrong for me to think negatively about her new teacher who is up there in age (looks aroun 60+) and is wearing hideous nails longer than Flo-jo's

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</div></div></div> </div></div> yuh can sey what you want but try to jus allow the child to form her own opinion of the teacher </div></div>

Rich ... yuh really think I would discuss that about the teacher with my child?

I would sure hope not

[Wendy]

Re: Worried Sick about this transition

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: FrenchTickla</div><div class="ubbcode-body">oonu realize seh is di likkle girl dem a peepee pon di seat and naw clean up after themselves, right?

so if dem learn fi clean up den it will help. or dem a guh need bathroom attendant and that naw go happen if fi oonu school district have the same budget issues as most.

so likkleWendy will wipe the seat before and after and wash har hand good. </div></div>

And with she an di occasional finga inna fi har mout.. Lawd Jesas of mercy