child support

[neutral]

Re: child support

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi_2_da_max</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newt</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So I would like to know,...what about the women who insists on child support,yet denies the man access to his child/children,..are they too justified in their actions.
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de man can take her to court if him really intrestid fi si him kid...as mi say from de start...kip de paper trail as evidence </div></div>

Thats another thing,...men get a raw deal where custodial cases are concerned,the man is considered to be the bad guy,..unless he can prove that the woman is a drunken psychotic axe murderer in the majority of cases the man ends up the loser in court.

[Seveen]

Re: child support

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newt</div><div class="ubbcode-body">What about the women who get pregnant after telling the guy that she is on the pill,..then insists on child support from the guy,.....do they too have a legitimate right for child support...???
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<span style="font-family: 'Fixedsys'">Don't Lie Down with Anything You Don't Want to Live with Forever </span>- Rose Rock (Chris Rock's Mom)

[reddgrrl]

Re: child support

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kingaling</div><div class="ubbcode-body">question...why dont you ladies give the child to the dad and you pay child support?

Bizi...mi nuh like dat idea. i am paying...she should tek care of the kid. thats like saying. awright..what that matter is im minding my child...EVENTHOUGH white scyall a bite him and him a suffa. so now i should feel at ease because the SYSTEM aint on my back. </div></div>

I've offered and oddly enough, the phone calls and harrassing emails stop for a while. Just like I knew they would. LOL!

[neutral]

Re: child support

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi_2_da_max</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

de 2 ppl dem fi a focus pon de pikney an not one anedda...but most times dem start get lax an vindictive.

wuss when de man dem move on 2 next ooman an start makin other children.. </div></div>

Thank you !!

Thats what I`ve been trying to say all along,...the only thing is,....the woman`s vindictiveness is more scarier than the man`s.

[kingy]

Re: child support

you know what red...thats jus one a dem tings weh we you affi deal wid as de custodial parent.

[reddgrrl]

Re: child support

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newt</div><div class="ubbcode-body">What about the women who get pregnant after telling the guy that she is on the pill,..then insists on child support from the guy,.....do they too have a legitimate right for child support...???
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<span style="font-family: 'Fixedsys'">Don't Lie Down with Anything You Don't Want to Live with Forever </span>- Rose Rock (Chris Rock's Mom)



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Again, I'd like to meet these women who seem to exist in &quot;what about&quot; and &quot;what if&quot; world.

[reddgrrl]

Re: child support

and as the non-custodial parent, child support is what you have to deal with, so please, enough of the bellyaching about how its cutting into the mens pocket. Get a second job like so many single parents have to.

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: child support

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: reddgrrl</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kingaling</div><div class="ubbcode-body">question...why dont you ladies give the child to the dad and you pay child support?

Bizi...mi nuh like dat idea. i am paying...she should tek care of the kid. thats like saying. awright..what that matter is im minding my child...EVENTHOUGH white scyall a bite him and him a suffa. so now i should feel at ease because the SYSTEM aint on my back. </div></div>

I've offered and oddly enough, the phone calls and harrassing emails stop for a while. Just like I knew they would. LOL! </div></div>


Because they don't (and can't handle) the REAL responsibility.

There is more to taking care of a child than just a check or shelter. But all you men seem to see is the meager check you give each week and think its gold.....give me a [censored] break!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[kingy]

Re: child support

agreed. however..the court will deduct from that too. lol remember its a percentage of your salary...not on the MAIN JOB salary. unless him wuk off the books...which him will gaa prison fah.

dis ting gettin drawn out. still. lol

[neutral]

Re: child support

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: reddgrrl</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newt</div><div class="ubbcode-body">What about the women who get pregnant after telling the guy that she is on the pill,..then insists on child support from the guy,.....do they too have a legitimate right for child support...???
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<span style="font-family: 'Fixedsys'">Don't Lie Down with Anything You Don't Want to Live with Forever </span>- Rose Rock (Chris Rock's Mom)



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Again, I'd like to meet these women who seem to exist in &quot;what about&quot; and &quot;what if&quot; world. </div></div>

But <span style="font-size: 20pt">they do exist </span>

[kingy]

Re: child support

i cant relate. i find joy in taking my son to daycare, taking him to the doc. bathe him..and do what mi affi do.
yes him can be inconvinient sometimes because of work.

my yute was planned so i feel its my job to help the mother out not only financially.

[Gen]

Re: child support

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kingaling</div><div class="ubbcode-body">also and at which point the woman eff up so that de man dont even wanna be around har? </div></div>

what this haffi do wid wah we a talk bout

[Gen]

Re: child support

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i love the little love notes i get from ex . . .

<span style="font-style: italic">Like I said I lost the apartment and the $200 I had to put down, so my question is are you going to help me ? are you going to give me back what is mine .... I can't believe that you are that evil that you would keep my hard earned tax refund money when I am here struggling to find a place to live .. I told you I am living on just $200 a week, after they take out your money, and can't afford to loose $200 and don't have the $500 they are asking for deposit ..etc Please can I have my money ,,,,</span> </div></div>

so they don't have group homes in his city until he can get back on his feet ? or his mother :eyebrow:

[julie*mango]

Re: child support

[ONEBIGDUTTYBADWUD] to all a di wutliss man who nah mine dem seed Di whole a dem mek mi sick Das why summuch messed up kids inna di system dese days.

[blugiant]

Re: child support

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: mahoe</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Child Support Is Not A Choice.

Thats a good slogan. </div></div>

please tell mii y child support shood natt bee a choice. oomen caan choose weddar ar natt fii ave children. soo tell mii y da men shood natt ave da choice fii support da child da oomen choose fii ave