Black Interracial Dating Issues

[Nunya]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

well Newt, I didnt make any of those statements.....and considering the source why would you let what that person stand as a representation of how <span style="font-weight: bold">all</span> black women stay?
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To be fair, I believe he said 'a great many' black women, not 'all'...

[Nylah]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues


&quot;great many&quot; is semantics for &quot;all&quot; in one's mind who are we kidding

and given the amount of black women in the world, saying great many isnt any more fair either since neither he or any other black man.................catch my drift.

as i said above, we find whatever it is we focus on in each other. So, as long was we continue to draw lines in the sand then what Newt says will hold true, no?

[Nunya]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

This whole thread is semiotic.

[neutral]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
&quot;great many&quot; is semantics for &quot;all&quot; in one's mind who are we kidding



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If I wanted to say <span style="font-weight: bold">all </span> I would have said <span style="font-weight: bold">all </span> ,dont try and misrepresent what I said by talking about &quot;semantics&quot;..... <span style="font-weight: bold"> some</span> people seem incapable of hearing anything other than what reinforces their own prejudices and narrow view of the world......sett deh,..I said &quot;<span style="font-weight: bold">some </span>&quot;.

[Nylah]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">This whole thread is semiotic. </div></div>

there you go........context, subtext etal.

[Nylah]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newt</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
&quot;great many&quot; is semantics for &quot;all&quot; in one's mind who are we kidding



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If I wanted to say <span style="font-weight: bold">all </span> I would have said <span style="font-weight: bold">all </span> ,dont try and misrepresent what I said by talking about &quot;semantics&quot;..... <span style="font-weight: bold"> some</span> people seem incapable of hearing anything other than what reinforces their own prejudices and narrow view of the world......sett deh,..I said &quot;<span style="font-weight: bold">some </span>&quot;. </div></div>

see Nunya's statement......thanks.

u seem like u want to quarrel, so carry on then.

[neutral]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newt</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
&quot;great many&quot; is semantics for &quot;all&quot; in one's mind who are we kidding



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If I wanted to say <span style="font-weight: bold">all </span> I would have said <span style="font-weight: bold">all </span> ,dont try and misrepresent what I said by talking about &quot;semantics&quot;..... <span style="font-weight: bold"> some</span> people seem incapable of hearing anything other than what reinforces their own prejudices and narrow view of the world......sett deh,..I said &quot;<span style="font-weight: bold">some </span>&quot;. </div></div>

see Nunya's statement......thanks.

u seem like u want to quarrel, so carry on then. </div></div>

No I dont want to quarell,if I wanted to I would have sought a more worthy opponent,if you try and misrepresent what someone says be prepared for them to say something in defense.

[Nylah]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues



nice. and here i was thinking that i normally have a lot of respect for what u have to say on this board and could have a discussion with you.

you can say whatever the hell you want in defense of what i say. I dont know how u intrepet my disagreeing with you as being not prepared for what you say in retort.

seems more like the other way around.

when anyone of us says things like &quot;great many&quot; etc. it does cloud how you see all of a thing, person or idea. the bases of predices and stereotypes start to creep in at this point.

what would be nice is we as a ppl stopped making those statements so we can start to meet each other half way and perhaps change the way we deal with each other instead of the crab in the barrel mentality that is so prevelant amongst us.

but seeing as I am unworthy of you, let me forget trying to discuss this with you and move on.

[H_O]

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let the action begin...
wonder how much further this goes till they lock it

[kia027]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">This whole thread is semiotic. </div></div>

<span style="font-style: italic">run gawn look up semiotic - a $10 word </span>

[neutral]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

I dont know how u intrepet my disagreeing with you as being not prepared for what you say in retort.



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In the same way I dont know how you interpret my defence of your interpretation of what I say as &quot;looking for a quarell&quot;

Seems there are a lot of misinterpretations and disinformation of the interpretations of the disagreements in the rhetorts,so maybe we should just leave the rhetorations and agree to disagree about the disagreements.

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: H_O</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> let the action begin...
wonder how much further this goes till they lock it </div></div>


Ah dat mi wan know.....but mi si sum tings in yah an mi seh.....lawd....

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newt</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
I am very happy for you TLC,.....however,who I marry or chose to date is my business,and no one else`s...I dont owe anyone anything,..furthermore,regardless of the colour of my wife my opinion on the issue is still valid. </div></div>


Is awrite enoh Newtral, yu nuh haffi ansah mi directly caws mi get di ansah indirectly.

Mi did wan seh sumtin more bout dis, but mi nuh inna di lang lashy awgument dis mawnin.....suh mi gone yah....

[countryspeng]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: H_O</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Speng_aggen</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tanya_tu_Rhatid</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Listed below are the top 10 out of 50 reasons why Black men find it hard to date Black women:

<span style="font-weight: bold">1. Black women make black men feel under appreciated, unwarranted and irresponsible and regressive.</span>

<span style="font-weight: bold">4. Black women are masculine in that they are controlling and like to run the relationship. </span>

<span style="font-weight: bold">10. Black women do not cater to their men. </span>


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yes,

but mi love black ooman bad tuh mi hawt an mzungu ooman cyaan duh nuttn fi mi. Black ooman was ALWAYS headstrang an cantrolling, but moas black man USED to be able fi handle dem.....on the contrary sometimes black ooman muss lern wen fi shut up an show a safter side. </div></div>yuh mean yu could shat dem a box an tell dem go sidung. now police lock yu up an dem get brite </div></div>


mi neva seh nuttn bout bax and siddung, mi a seh...deal wid dem...wen you have a PRESENCE about yuh, nuh stranghed ooman cyaan back yu dung ar belittle yu, an yu nuh need yu hand fi duh nuh werk. Yuh lucky is only police lack yu up, if yu raise yu han tuh a ooman yu deserve a beatn yuself....

[neutral]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

Seems to me on this board people get tainted as soon as they offer a different opinion to the majority,if one doesnt agree with the homophobes on here they must be &quot;gay&quot;..if one offer a different opinion on interracial dating you must be &quot;married to a white woman&quot;.....if you dont believe in religion or the bible you`re &quot;hiding from something&quot;......there are very few people on here that actually conduct a discussion objectively without taking it down to a personal level.