Black Interracial Dating Issues

[Tropicana]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

Behave onoo selves. Mi noh want see dis lock dung. Now to answer Wahalla and Derek.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Derek</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tropicana</div><div class="ubbcode-body">By contrast there are a TON of wonderful single Black women available </div></div>

Is there? Where? </div></div>

All over North America, all over the UK there are attractive, educated Black women without partners and there is a severe shortage of Black men. Even on university campuses, the ratio of Black women to Black men is about 5:1 - 7:1 on many campuses. There are PLENTY of eligible Black women and there is a severe shortage of Black men.


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Wahalla</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Dont you know every black ooman is wonderful ???? Especially the ugli, obnoxious, agressive, insecure, wid tough foot, man hating harbingers with faces like car batteries.... They all are queens like nefateri...

Lucky for me I get a pass from dating them! </div></div>

Wahalla, obnoxious, agressive, insecure, wid tough foot, man hating harbingers with faces like car batteries is not attractive in ANY race. There are MANY wonderful Black women around if you can't see it remember sometimes beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Also you are marred so you shouldn't be dating anyone.

[Wahalla]

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Actually if it does matter... Maybe they should put laws in place to prevent black men from marrying any one but black women... or stop men from having sex with anyone but black women....

I do note a difference between African women and Western women....And this has nothing to do with being aggressive..

I also note that the really successful black women I have met recently.. Head of a tax departments of a energy company, parntern of a top three accountancy firm, head of trading at a bank were much more feminine than the black women who think themselves successful rather than actually being succesful... Those bank tellers and receptionists....Suits I have long noted does not equate to success....

Why is it that Jamaican men dont seem to place as high a premium on material status.....

I was equally wonderful when I was ah broke as I am now....

[Wahalla]

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Newt you should go see chris rock next time he is the UK.. He has a refreshingly candid outlook on the subject!

[neutral]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Wahalla</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Actually if it does matter... Maybe they should put laws in place to prevent black men from marrying any one but black women... or stop men from having sex with anyone but black women....



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Lol !

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Wahalla</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Newt you should go see chris rock next time he is the UK.. He has a refreshingly candid outlook on the subject! </div></div>

Funny you should say that,he came to manchester but I left it too late to get a ticket,it was sold out.

A friend of mine went,apparently chris got booed by the black women in the audience cos he said most black men have a white woman on the side.

[Tropicana]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">As I said in the other thread Tropicana,you can hardly blame black men for dating out their race when we have a great proportion of black women looking down their noses at black men who doesnt live up to *their* high ideals.
Its not black women that are being disrespected by black men,...in my opinion its the black man that is being disrespected by black women. </div></div>

Clearly you didn't read my post. One can hardly call the following high expectations. Wanting a man:


<ul style="list-style-type: disc">[*]to have a job that pays a liveable wage so that she won't have to work out her soul case and support him and the children[*]not scew around on her[*]be a partner and heaven forbid share the household chores[*]be a partner and heaven forbid share baby and child care[*]not do drugs or drink excessively[/list]


Please show me anything on that list that is unreasonable.
There are many fine Black men who have these qualities. My father, God bless him and God rest his soul was one of them. Unfortunately, there don't seem to be enough men in ANY race with these qualities and the demographic imbalance and some of the factors operating against Black men in North America and the UK makes it challenging to find men with these qualities.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> There seems to be a lot of hypocrisy too on this issue,..there are some black women who are too ready to condemn a black man for dating a white woman,....yet still complain that *they* are being overlooked by white men because of their colour.</div></div>

Absolutely and I am one of them.It's not so much that I condemn the black men for dating interracially. I have concerns that the interracial dating playing field is not level. Also when I see a lot of wonderful women without partners and some of the White women the men take up with, I think....SHE is better than US....I don't think so. Often, these marriages don't work out and that should tell us something.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">At the end of the day it doesnt matter who marry who,people are free to choose who they date or marry,its their business and no one else`s regardless of what colour they are,......they shouldnt have to feel that they owe anyone anything,or justify their choice,.......thats the way I see it.</div></div>

I agree but when the playing field is not level that is not right and I wil continue to lick out 'gainst that. Also, many of these Black men seem to have forgotten who changed their nappies, who comforted them when the White kids were calling them the N word, who worked their tail off to put them through school and university. Mi ave one a mi yaad and he has been warned that he had better not even think of bringing any White woman through this door. After I sacrificed and did without so that he could go to private school, play soccer, play hockey, ride, go to camp, go on school trips. NEVAH!!


I am also surprised how many black men have forgotten the number of Black men who were lynched because White women lied and said that sexual relationships that were consensual were rape. I saw the figures and I just couldn't believe how many men were lynched and castrated because of relationships with White women and in most of these cases, even if the sex was consensual the White women lied. If I find it again, I will post it.

Memory is short and selective. Ay sah! Perhaps posting a few photos would refresh some memories but I won't post them. Just go into Google images and do a search on lynching and you will find more than enough to turn anyones stomach.

[Seveen]

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hmmmmmmmmmmm

[Wahalla]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> After I sacrificed and did without so that he could go to private school, play soccer, play hockey, ride, go to camp, go on school trips. NEVAH!!
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Good for you tropi...

I will make same resolution to tell my Taino youths to do the same to those that disrespected me!

I always thought that making sacrifices was what parents should do... rather than something worth mentioning....

Given that the 1919 to 1925 the greatest number of lynching took place in the US...a 3000... would the logic not be if this is the case...(You want refenece &quot;Negro with a hat&quot <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I saw the figures and I just couldn't believe how many men were lynched because of relationships with White women and in most of these cases, even if the sex was consensual the White women lied. If I find it again, I will post it.

</div></div> would it not be better to tell him not to date a black person given the number of Africans who kill Africans for being Tutsi/ Mozambiquian/ Angolan/ Berber/ Malian as this murder rate based on ethnicity is ongoing in a matter of near millions..

And if he went to Finland and came back with a blond lady who's ancestors never left home for the last milenum than say he brought home a black lady who ancestors was say a seller of slaves ????? ie say an Asanti princess ?????

[Nunya]

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Did you break his leg so he couldn't have a ww on the side?

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tropicana</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

I agree but when the playing field is not level that is not right and I wil continue to lick out 'gainst that. Also, many of these Black men seem to have forgotten who changed their nappies, who comforted them when the White kids were calling them the N word, who worked their tail off to put them through school and university. Mi ave one a mi yaad and he has been warned that he had better not even think of bringing any White woman through this door. After I sacrificed and did without so that he could go to private school, play soccer, play hockey, ride, go to camp, go on school trips. NEVAH!!


I am also surprised how many black men have forgotten the number of Black men who were lynched because White women lied and said that sexual relationships that were consensual were rape. I saw the figures and I just couldn't believe how many men were lynched because of relationships with White women and in most of these cases, even if the sex was consensual the White women lied. If I find it again, I will post it.

Memory is short and selective. Ay sah! Perhaps posting a few photos would refresh some memories but I won't post them. Just go into Google images and do a search on lynching and you will find more than enough to turn anyones stomach.


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Tropi` if you yourself had met a nice white gentleman and marry would you have overlooked all the above,because despite all you`ve said with regards to the lynchings you yourself were prepared to date/or marry a white man if you werent overlooked for the pretty blondes.

[Wahalla]

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Tink about dis Paul Mccarty chose heather mills instead ah Tropi...

[Diplomat]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Q3210</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CEW</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tanya_tu_Rhatid</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">They want the guy to have a job and earn a living wage so that they won't have to support him, </div></div>

I was having this conversation with a male Jamaican friend of mine just last night.

He said.....
He used to date exclusivly black women when he first moved here......but him find ... 3) dem noh willing to be a help-mate and together build a foundation dem only want what is hers is hers and what is his is hers. </div></div>
Had this same discussion with a couple of females recently. Personally, I don't find that mindset attractive at all. </div></div>
CEW, I like how you identify with what was said with a certain mind-set and not a certain colour. After all, which colour can think better than the other? </div></div>
Thanks; for me color/race is a non-issue. The thing that appeals to me is a woman's mind and how she uses it.

[mangoskin]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tropicana</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

many black men have forgotten the number of Black men who were<span style="font-weight: bold"> lynched</span> because White women lied and said that sexual relationships that were consensual were rape. I saw the figures and I just couldn't believe how many men were lynched because of relationships with White women and in most of these cases, even if the sex was consensual the White women lied. If I find it again, I will post it.

Memory is short and selective. Ay sah!

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this would apply to older ppl in the states, right?
Was there lynching in the UK, Europe &amp; Canada?

[neutral]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CEW</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Thanks; for me color/race is a non-issue. The thing that appeals to me is a woman's mind and how she uses it. </div></div>

Most definitely !

[Tropicana]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Tropi` if you yourself had met a nice white gentleman and marry would you have overlooked all the above,because despite all you`ve said with regards to the lynchings you yourself were prepared to date/or marry a white man if you werent overlooked for the pretty blondes. </div></div>

I have never set ANY restrictions based on race. A person is a person and there are good and evil in every race.

What I just can't understand is why Black men are flocking to the same White women who have betrayed them in the past. It makes NO sense to me. If the women lied and did not stand by them when they were castrated, <span style="font-weight: bold">in some cases forced to eat their own genitals, </span> burned and then lynched by a mob, then how can you trust them now. If the women weren't prepared to stand up for them and say that it was consensual sex, how can you trust them to stand up for you now? I just don't get it. Just do a quick google search about lynching and you will see what I mean. It's really quite gross and some of this could have been stopped if the White women had stood by their men.