How to break up with a nice person

[Peasie]

[Wahalla]

Love has nothing to do with it.

He is willing to work on the annoyances. Most of the time he admits they are his fault and he apologizes. I accept his apologies. But then he wants to discuss the annoyances in detail while I have already moved on and forgotten what the issue was. This is me, "Huh? What are you talking about? Oh, that thing. But we discussed it already and I've forgotten about it. Now what?"

And then I get annoyed.

I think he is sometimes like a ginghi fly

That's the problem u blame him for most things..he apologises when it is not his fault to end the argument....t..and he expects u to acknowlefge it....u forgotten it..he hasn't....

[Peasie]

That's the problem u blame him for most things..he apologises when it is not his fault to end the argument....t..and he expects u to acknowlefge it....u forgotten it..he hasn't....

You need to work on your reading comprehension skills

[Wahalla]

You need to work on your reading comprehension skills

no i comprehend...

He admits that it is his fault, when it was not in his mind... that is the problem.... when he apologises and it is not his fault... that is annoying. You had closed it.....When he revists when you think it is over means the issue may have been closed for you.. He simply shut up when annoyance wasnt settled in his mind...

[Peasie]

I see what you mean ...

i read that that you think I blame him for most things? Oh well, never mind.

[Wahalla]

I see what you mean ...

i read that that you think I blame him for most things? Oh well, never mind.

no he takes responsibilty for things he believe that he isnt responsible for.. that is why he revisits them when u think they are closed....

[Peasie]

Oh. I see what you mean now. Although I think it is a lot simpler than that

[Wahalla]

Oh. I see what you mean now. Although I think it is a lot simpler than that

yes see that from what you wrote!

[Peasie]

He's a good person. And he loves me. So what I'm going to do is remove or reduce the opportunities for him to be annoying. Thinking here ...

[kia027]

do you meditate regularly? Maybe it can help reduce your annoyance at his desire to rehash an issue and help you to show the issue is closed?

[Peasie]

Ginghi fly can bodda bodda yuh meditation enuh.

[kia027]

but it could mek it to the point dat u still notice gingi fly, but gingi fly stop annoy you

[j-kid]

Soh yuh still cyan get ova di fact dat di dude hav two left foot pan di dance floor?

[j-kid]

He is obviously not di ying tuh yuh yang. Does he make you laugh????

[j-kid]