How to break up with a nice person

[Nanook]

I see everyone's point. Thank you

It's good to get a perspective from an anonymous community like this.

After two weeks of self-imposed "thinking space" away from each other, we had a calm, mature discussion about things. I was feeling too cramped. And he wants to spend even more time with me. So we worked out a compromise. No breaking up. More thinking space for me. More spontaneity in going to places together. He also said something like, "I know what my problem is and I know how to change things. You are important to me and we are so good together."

I also came to terms with what was really the problem for me in this relationship and it wasn't only about the annoying things ... surprise!

Good for you! I wish you much happiness.

[Xavier]

Good for you! I wish you much happiness.

Glad your guys spent some time communicating on this. Sometime a reset like this is what is needed to take a relationship to another level

[blugiant]

I see everyone's point. Thank you

It's good to get a perspective from an anonymous community like this.

After two weeks of self-imposed "thinking space" away from each other, we had a calm, mature discussion about things. I was feeling too cramped. And he wants to spend even more time with me. So we worked out a compromise. No breaking up. More thinking space for me. More spontaneity in going to places together. He also said something like, "I know what my problem is and I know how to change things. You are important to me and we are so good together."

I also came to terms with what was really the problem for me in this relationship and it wasn't only about the annoying things ... surprise!

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[Peasie]

@ Blu

@ Xavier's "reset"