DEXTER Negril

[diabolical_Tanya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: played</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The only mix up was when he mdeme feel realy special and asked me to marry him,oh and probably about 300 others </div></div>

Played sorry to hear about your situation

[ILP]

Re: DEXTER Negril

[loops]

Re: DEXTER Negril

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: played</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> Not at all sweetsop you sound bitter like we shared the same man,
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how do i sound bitter and why would i share the same man with the like of you
plus I dont have to go to Jamaica on a holiday to get a man like you do. </div></div>

lining up at your door are they?

[Bizzy]

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a wah do unu man???

[played]

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I told him I was staying a couple of months to see how things go with us ,if I did not stay that would have been my last day and one of the other girls last day too.
I had already told him I was staying so I imagine that is when he told her he would spend some time with her before her flight.
He said he wanted to be honest with me and that is where he was going,he did not have to tell me this as he had lied all the rest of the time but he said he did not feel right lying to me.
But if I really was going to leave that day I wonder who he would have seen?Would he have let her down like he was letting me down?Or maybe he would see me early and her later.I did not like the way I was being played for a fool,It was nice he was being truthful but how can he call my phone and tell me to fly there and then tell me he is going to see somebody for her last day?As far as he was aware I was thankful for his honesty and would see him later as I was extending for 2 months,I got out of his car and into a taxi to the airport.

[played]

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He used my phone once and said he was calling his friend, after he left I could not reach him so I called the number and a lady answered and I told her who I was ,I think it may have been his mother but if I had any sense I would have dialled the numbers back from day 1 from his phone everytime it kept ringing.The lines are so believeable though that you begin to question yourself.If I had called the number back from day 1,I could have just got on with my holiday

[diabolical_Tanya]

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Played can I ask a question unrelated to Dexter?

Are you from England?

[Seveen]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: played</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-size: 11pt">well your next visit - you'll be fair game for a new one </span>

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Meaning?
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the &quot;others&quot; know you are man-less so on your next trip to negril they will make sure to tell you how pretty you are - how he did you wrong - how they will do better than that - and you will think they are sincere too - 'cause they are good at their jobs

i have spent many a night at Barry's listening to the chatter of the gigs when they are &quot;off work&quot; - some of the best comedy i have ever heard

[kia027]

Re: DEXTER Negril

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Played can I ask a question unrelated to Dexter?

Are you from England? </div></div>

I would say so based on how she used the word Mum to refer to mother.

[Nylah]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: played</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I told him I was staying a couple of months to see how things go with us ,if I did not stay that would have been my last day and one of the other girls last day too.
I had already told him I was staying so I imagine that is when he told her he would spend some time with her before her flight.
He said he wanted to be honest with me and that is where he was going,he did not have to tell me this as he had lied all the rest of the time but he said he did not feel right lying to me.
But if I really was going to leave that day I wonder who he would have seen?Would he have let her down like he was letting me down?Or maybe he would see me early and her later.I did not like the way I was being played for a fool,It was nice he was being truthful but how can he call my phone and tell me to fly there and then tell me he is going to see somebody for her last day?As far as he was aware I was thankful for his honesty and would see him later as I was extending for 2 months,I got out of his car and into a taxi to the airport. </div></div>

u just have to keep all of this in perspective. This happens enough times in places like Negril. Unfortunate but true. Your story isnt a new one and it will not be the last as well. It is all too common. You didnt heed the warning signs and now u are nursing a broken heart.

Yu are killing yourself trying to figure out whys that you will not have the answer to. You have to stop giving this man so much of yourself which u are doing as u get all twisted up in the whys of it all.

The next girsl will not do anything different than what you have done because they want to think that thier relationship with him is different from the rest. Just like you did. So warning them amounts to nothing. If any oen told you different earlier would you have even listened? Probably not because you would have thought u were different and and he wasnt like what ppl are saying to u.
You had to see it with your own eyes before the denial would fall away.

It has now, so mourn a bit and then let it all go because all u are doing is letting this idiot kill ur spirit and he isnt even worth it.

ok I am done now

[played]

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I never slept with a gigalo?

I never felt I had warning signs I thought he was a ligit man with a ligit job,he was calling me and no money changed hands.
I knew somebody kept calling him but he at first said his babys mother wanted him back and he was having a bit of drama so I never thought to speak or call the number back,If I would have known he had a girl in each hotel maybe I would have reacted differently.
I have seen and heard every joke and trick in the book and I really fell for this one so He must be good.
I think we both did like each other,not sure what he wanted though as he knew he was not getting cash.And his calls to me were not free as he never had a landline for me.We really got along well maybe I should not have flew off as quick as I did but I am not putting up with all that drama.However if I stayed he probably would have sweet talked his way out of it whatever he was up to.

[Bizzy]

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you keep saying he is young.

What was his age?

or if u fraid fi give that out..what's the age difference between you 2?

or if u fraid fi say dat...PM me a pic of you and him. Yuh must have nuff over the years...an how much years u been going to ja to be with him and how often throughout the years did these trips happen?

[julie*mango]

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Played do you go on N*****.com? From time to time girls who have been played like yourself will post pics of their man and have other women crawling out of the woodworks...

n.com betta dan google any day

[Bizzy]

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Gweh nuh skells and stop mash up mi plan

[played]

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I do not need to post a photo,He is obviously doing this a lot.He is 25 or so he says I do not know what is the truth from him and what is not right now.
The beach gigs are usually upfront about what they do it is no strings so I do not know why this one felt the need to lie?