Most Women Would Rather Read Than Have Sex...

[Peasie]

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I love that, SistaCaf. The "lock and key" Thank you.

Why is he not with "us" any more? You mean, he ...

[sistacaf]

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yes Ms Peas, he's with the Angels. another victim of stupid senseless badmind violence.

i've been thinking on this lock-an-key theory for these 3 years since he was taken from this world, and the more i think on it, the more it rings truer and truer for me. If de ting isn't spontaneously good, 'working on it' only makes it worse and worse. It becomes a burden, another thing in life that requires 'work', planning, over-analyzation, like doing a dreaded chore - yuk yuk and MORE yuk --if it haffi come dung to that, then it's already spwiled, ruined; takes the fun out of it entirely. for me there HAS to be that one place of refuge in the relationship that can heal de two ppl when they need healing, where they can come back together and re-affirm their connectedness in the r'ship, the glue that holds it together in the face of adversity - whether it comes from outside or if it's recovering from an argument.

if sex and sensuality isn't a joyous expression of love and pleasure, a safe haven for two people to relax, get away from life's burdens, a physical expression of happiness and pleasure each to de other - then i'll leave it alone, thanks. i'm not gonna relegate sexuality to just another chore to 'work on' in life - if it's reduced to that, then those 2 people aren't right together -

i therefore submit that, someone who <span style="font-style: italic">routinely</span> (not just once in a while cau that's normal IMHO) prefers to read or sleep over sex, they are with the wrong partner. i also submit that way too many ppl either get into a r'ship, and/or STAY in the r'ship, for the wrong reasons - stickin in it outta stubbornness or somethin like 'duty', long after they realize them nah &quot;fit right&quot; and nah belong togedda. and it jus gets worse and worse and can't never be fixed. i personally feel that RC's topic title &quot;most women&quot; is because &quot;most&quot; people refuse to acknowledge and/or admit they have a failing relationship, and stubbornly keep stickin in it when they shouldn't. .... not me and that -


(and of course that is just my personal opinion)

[ILP]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: sistacaf</div><div class="ubbcode-body">HAS to be that one place of refuge in the relationship that can heal de two ppl when they need healing, <span style="font-weight: bold">where they can come back together and re-affirm their connectedness in the r'ship, the glue that holds it together in the face of adversity - whether it comes from outside or if it's recovering from an argument.</span>

if sex and sensuality isn't a joyous expression of love and pleasure,<span style="font-weight: bold"> a safe haven for two people to relax, get away from life's burdens, a physical expression of happiness and pleasure each to de other -</span> then i'll leave it alone, thanks. i'm not gonna relegate sexuality to just another chore to 'work on' in life - if it's reduced to that, then those 2 people aren't right together - ( just my opinion, of course...) </div></div>



It seems that you have experienced what escapes so many....outstanding. btw: sorry for your loss.

[sistacaf]

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thank u ilp, and i trust me i do fully realize how rare it is, and how lucky i was to have had that chance at least once in life.

even if i never have it like that again i'm thankful for having been blessed as i was, to know that it is actually possible.

[jamaica_dreamin]

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I am a morning person

[Peasie]

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What ILP highlighted Sistacaf.

[Tulip]

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Personally, I have not been able to get past moaning 20 minutes after you're done. Really?

[Marielle]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Marie_K</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Rollin_Calf</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> man a <span style="font-weight: bold"><span style="text-decoration: underline">batter batter</span></span> dem a morning time.

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that is the problem here, this is not sex, this is common assault and shd be punishable by jail or teelie brukup if necessary </div></div>

[Peasie]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tulip</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Personally, I have not been able to get past moaning 20 minutes after you're done. Really? </div></div>
I can vouch for that. Repeat after me, &quot;Lock and Key&quot;

[sistacaf]

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U SEEET Missus peas!!!!!! de man have de <span style="font-style: italic">Master Key</span>!!!

[julie*mango]

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why can't it be both ways? i love reading Zane while having *ehem*

[CyberPhobic]

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Mi preffah di combinashann lack cauze mi nuh able di careliss menz dem guh loss di key.

[twiney]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tulip</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Personally, I have not been able to get past moaning 20 minutes after you're done. Really? </div></div>

Yes Tulip and having this silly Cheshire cat grin on your face for hours after reaching work that nothing them do to pi$$ yuh off works...

[MarieK]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tulip</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Personally, I have not been able to get past moaning 20 minutes after you're done. Really? </div></div>

lmao 20 mins later u r involuntarily making noises as your body is coming down off of the high. which includes but not limited to phrases like good god almighty, mmmm mmm mmmm, awwww damn, or sigh wid a grin, it's a pressure release tactic.

that's the diff between the big o and a simple &quot;ARRIVAL&quot;

sadly many have never experienced this.

[Tulip]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Marie_K</div><div class="ubbcode-body">lmao 20 mins later u r involuntarily making noises as your body is coming down off of the high. which includes but not limited to phrases like good god almighty, mmmm mmm mmmm, awwww damn, or sigh wid a grin, it's a pressure release tactic.

that's the diff between the big o and a simple &quot;ARRIVAL&quot;

sadly many have never experienced this. </div></div>

And Peasie, Sistacaf and Twiney came right behind you to confirm it.

You're right it is sad. I've been cheated! Still, I guess it is better knowing late than never. Now I have to figure out how I'm going to go about looking for this and still maintain my good name.