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Sorry I work Graveyard so Thats why I wasn't on to asnwer any questions. There was a chance of having a baby with mental defects from the type of birth control I was on. What type of defects I don't know and didn't care to find out. It is meant to keep you from getting pregnant and I took it the whole 5 months. I was having bleeding throughout it and heavy cramping. I took the pill everyday but I switched from the depo shot and went to the pill. There was a two week period inbetween me switching that I got pregnant. they did a pregnancy test before the switch but it came back negative.
The procedure was 3 days for me. I went in and had sea weed put into my cervix to open it and then had to wait 24 hours for it to work then went back in and got the abortion. I was put to sleep.
Yes, there was a "chance" that the baby could have been healthy but that wasn't a chance I was willing to make. I had one child already and I was 20 and I just wasn't in the situation to take care of a child with special needs for the rest of my life. Maybe it was selfish of me. People have special needs kids all the time and some make the choice of keeping them, givig them up for adoption or leaving them in the hospital. I couldn't have one of my kids floating around the world not knowing where it came from.I want my children with me.The only kid I would ever give away is if My twin couldn't have one. That was the only abortion I had and have had two more kids since. I am not planning on having more so I have an IUD in that last 10 years and I am doing fine with it.
Again I don't regret it but the defect was caused by birth control, not heredity. I don't think any woman would put herself through and abortion at that late of trimester just to keep trying to get pregnant and hoping the gene pool is good. At least I hope not.
Sorry I work Graveyard so Thats why I wasn't on to asnwer any questions. There was a chance of having a baby with mental defects from the type of birth control I was on. What type of defects I don't know and didn't care to find out. It is meant to keep you from getting pregnant and I took it the whole 5 months. I was having bleeding throughout it and heavy cramping. I took the pill everyday but I switched from the depo shot and went to the pill. There was a two week period inbetween me switching that I got pregnant. they did a pregnancy test before the switch but it came back negative.
The procedure was 3 days for me. I went in and had sea weed put into my cervix to open it and then had to wait 24 hours for it to work then went back in and got the abortion. I was put to sleep.
Yes, there was a "chance" that the baby could have been healthy but that wasn't a chance I was willing to make. I had one child already and I was 20 and I just wasn't in the situation to take care of a child with special needs for the rest of my life. Maybe it was selfish of me. People have special needs kids all the time and some make the choice of keeping them, givig them up for adoption or leaving them in the hospital. I couldn't have one of my kids floating around the world not knowing where it came from.I want my children with me.The only kid I would ever give away is if My twin couldn't have one. That was the only abortion I had and have had two more kids since. I am not planning on having more so I have an IUD in that last 10 years and I am doing fine with it.
Again I don't regret it but the defect was caused by birth control, not heredity. I don't think any woman would put herself through and abortion at that late of trimester just to keep trying to get pregnant and hoping the gene pool is good. At least I hope not.
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