Labour Pains

[kia027]

Re: Labour Pains

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: HIELPEE</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
As for the marriage...not sure why that seems to be a far gone conclusion And mi not just talking you, MG. In my head and heart di current mr ilp is my partner for life....not sure why/how a piece of paper would make that any more or less a fact.

anyhew...thanks for the love </div></div>

There are some legal issues which become easier with the marriage certificate (think hospital icu visits), death benefits from the gov, and a few other things which noh hit me right now. Many can probably be covered with the comparable legal documents but the marriage certificate is cheaper and easier to get (and u doan have to change u name eida). Oddawise mi in agreement wid you

[Nanook]

Re: Labour Pains

Wow ILP, you never fail to surprise. I did notice you were mostly missing but had no idea all of this could be going on! Did BgA come with you to Texas?

Have a nice time in Texas!

[Peasie]

Re: Labour Pains

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: HIELPEE</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> In my head and heart di current mr ilp is my partner for life... </div></div>

<span style="font-weight: bold">Well yuh fi tap call im 'di current' den...</span> </div></div>

[ILP]

Re: Labour Pains

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nanook</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Wow ILP, you never fail to surprise. I did notice you were mostly missing but had no idea all of this could be going on! Did BgA come with you to Texas?

Have a nice time in Texas! </div></div>

She goes to school in NY and will come here for breaks.
As for enjoying <span style="text-decoration: line-through">North Mexico</span> El Paso...I am for the most part so far. This morning I did a run that took me 1/100th into the mountains ....I am determined to run up and over it by the time new year hit

[ILP]

Re: Labour Pains

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: HIELPEE</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
As for the marriage...not sure why that seems to be a far gone conclusion And mi not just talking you, MG. In my head and heart di current mr ilp is my partner for life....not sure why/how a piece of paper would make that any more or less a fact.

anyhew...thanks for the love </div></div>

There are some legal issues which become easier with the marriage certificate (think hospital icu visits), death benefits from the gov, and a few other things which noh hit me right now. Many can probably be covered with the comparable legal documents but the marriage certificate is cheaper and easier to get (and u doan have to change u name eida). Oddawise mi in agreement wid you </div></div>

Ahhh...the ease of it all...yeah, we are both well aware of the ease of things...but we've never been that kind of couple. it's halarious when we go out and introduce each other...the looks we get when people are trying to put us in a box Them: &quot;So, s/he's your husband/wife?&quot; Us: &quot;No.&quot; Them: &quot;Ummm...so he's the father/mother of your son?&quot; Us: &quot;Yes.&quot; Them: &quot;Ya'll are together?&quot; Us: &quot;Yes.&quot; Them: &quot;So s/he is your fiance?&quot; Us: &quot;No.&quot; It is them that get frustrated and then give up ....sarry

Things that need to be in order...are. Papers that need to be filed...are, etcetera, etcetera...

[kia027]

Re: Labour Pains

Do you use the word partner?

Honestly the 1st time I heard someone do that and they were a straight couple I did a double take in mi head but that word does make the most sense

[Skelly]

Re: Labour Pains

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: HIELPEE</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> In my head and heart di current mr ilp is my partner for life...
</div></div>

Well yuh fi tap call im 'di current' den... </div></div>

[missus_vegas]

Re: Labour Pains

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: HIELPEE</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
As for the marriage...not sure why that seems to be a far gone conclusion And mi not just talking you, MG. In my head and heart di current mr ilp is my partner for life....not sure why/how a piece of paper would make that any more or less a fact.

anyhew...thanks for the love </div></div>

There are some legal issues which become easier with the marriage certificate (think hospital icu visits), death benefits from the gov, and a few other things which noh hit me right now. Many can probably be covered with the comparable legal documents but the marriage certificate is cheaper and easier to get (and u doan have to change u name eida). Oddawise mi in agreement wid you </div></div>

marrige cert cheap yes...but lets face it wedding dear and who really wants a back door wedding...no care how practical a person is..if is even one new frack fi go a JP inna dem want atleast dat....

as far as me concern she marrid already. me personally is the kinda smaddy weh need di ring and di piece a paper (aldoe mi still to date only have the one with the pastor hand writting) fi show off wid but to each his own.

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Labour Pains

So ILP does <span style="text-decoration: line-through">north mexico </span>El Paso get snow????? does that mean you can run 365 days outside now???

[ILP]

Re: Labour Pains

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: HIELPEE</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> In my head and heart di current mr ilp is my partner for life...
</div></div>

Well yuh fi tap call im 'di current' den... </div></div> </div></div>

next time mi will set up a poll if fi nutten else but to entertain miself...

Poll Title: <span style="font-style: italic">&quot;Society Says the Man I am with Needs a Title....What Should it Be?&quot;</span>

[ILP]

Re: Labour Pains

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Vegas</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: HIELPEE</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
As for the marriage...not sure why that seems to be a far gone conclusion And mi not just talking you, MG. In my head and heart di current mr ilp is my partner for life....not sure why/how a piece of paper would make that any more or less a fact.

anyhew...thanks for the love </div></div>

There are some legal issues which become easier with the marriage certificate (think hospital icu visits), death benefits from the gov, and a few other things which noh hit me right now. Many can probably be covered with the comparable legal documents but the marriage certificate is cheaper and easier to get (and u doan have to change u name eida). Oddawise mi in agreement wid you </div></div>
marrige cert cheap yes...but lets face it wedding dear and who really wants a back door wedding...no care how practical a person is..if is even one new frack fi go a JP inna dem want atleast dat....

as far as me concern she marrid already. me personally is the kinda smaddy weh need di ring and di piece a paper (aldoe mi still to date only have the one with the pastor hand writting) fi show off wid but to each his own. </div></div>
At least you have acknowledged what you need (and have subsequently done for yourself) and said is accepted as just that. I just wished that society was as evolved in their perspective when it comes to persons like myself. Sigh...