Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

[ILP]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

mi nay want to sound suh. but oonu done know how mi feel bout marrige. it not a determiner of anything. but mi nuh chat smaddy daht feel is fah them.

[Fyah]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Mi tink say yuh did dun wid dis man fram im did lick yuh infronta yuh son... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] </div></div>

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[Fyah]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TT</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi di remember sumting bout dat...but TLC marriage is not a gaurantee of anything...nuff ppl noh married and dem partner is more committed to them than those that are married....nuff married people a live in misery....if it nuh right now what yuh think marrige going to do? It solves nothing it does not make a relationship stronger nor does it change a person

Marrige does not make someone stay home....be faithful....it nuh duh a dyam thing...more than declare seh unnu is together and that seh wah?

Mek mi ask yuh dis TLC...if unnu was married what yuh think would be different?

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[Tanesha]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

mi nuh have a thing against marriage...an oneday sooner than later mi might juss do it....nuff people happily married and couldn't see them life any other way...but marriage does not solidify a relationship, it gaurantees nothing and it does not change the person

[ILP]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TT</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi nuh have a thing against marriage...an oneday sooner than later mi might juss do it....nuff people happily married and couldn't see them life any other way...but marriage does not solidify a relationship, it gaurantees nothing and it does not change the person </div></div>

das wah mi mean TT. mi agree wid you. mi juss hear nuff smaddy (includin mi back in di day) daht tink marrige gwine change tings or mek tings suh.

[ILP]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_28</div><div class="ubbcode-body">its not that I have the desire to get married..but why not?

I don't want to continue to play house like this.....we doing everything like a married couple, so why not make it offical. </div></div>

what does marrige make official? you're issues?
i never understood when people say this

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Mi tink say yuh did dun wid dis man fram im did lick yuh infronta yuh son... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] </div></div>

(patois inna mi pocket)

I really don't recall saying that I was hit in front of my son. I do recall saying there was a particular event that happened, and my son witnessed it.

Now its now what you say, but how things are being said. The timing of your comment is so wrong, but it is your right.

No hard feelings......now lets get back to regular programing... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

We are not together anymore, but in trying to work it out mode. We have been seprerated for a while now, but I am gone past the working it out part. I realize it is so hard for you to totally break away from someone that you have been with for so long, but my spirit is just not there anymore.

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

Its not just the marriage thing....its everything.

For example, We are on different pages in terms of having children...I want more kids now, he wants to wait till he is at least 30..... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img]......mussi wan mi eggs dem dry up....

I'm not sure if anything would be different if we were married, but the issues that we are having now, takes marriage out of the picture.

I'm just tired of trying....and I don't feel like I should continue holding onto something that keeps my emotions in limbo.

[7777]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

aye bwoy..
see why u cant chat everyting pon jamaicans.com? People member too much...

anyhoo TLC..
me understand u feelings doe, and how u feel seh u noh want to give up de four years, but it sound like dat deh young man deh, (de harse) already gwan troo de gate..
Let the harse run...
More dan likely the harse mighta return, but u cant hole on to dat..
Galang a de movies with u friends, gwan and join some new groups, meet new people. Tek up new hobbies..seize the day, and noh mek de day seize u..
figga out to u self, what is it that u always wanted to do and do it...
U want to learn how fe salsa? but never have the chance? Galang go enjoy u self and do it..
Life is so much more interesting when u hook up with new people dat share u interest, and dat can help you , fine and redifine a new you..
Lawd missis..
Just larn fe be happy ya without the bwoy..
and enjoy you life and you ((son)))..
Focus pon you ya..
Just dont sit down inna de house and mope. Dat mek it worse.


(me a wonder if u need a major incident - like a cyar accident- fe mek u see life inna de *right perspective?*)
Beleive me, after u go true one of dat, u see life inna whole new way..

[damask]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: 7777</div><div class="ubbcode-body">aye bwoy..
see why u cant chat everyting pon jamaicans.com? People member too much...(me a wonder if u need a major incident - like a cyar accident- fe mek u see life inna de *right perspective?*)
Beleive me, after u go true one of dat, u see life inna whole new way.. </div></div>

Words of wisdom 7's, especially bout the car accident,my life flashed before my eyes last week when my car flipped, ended up inna a ditch on the side. After that am putting everything in order my Mom and I are now on speaking terms and am trying to bridge the gap.

[Nunya]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_28</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

I really don't recall saying that I was hit in front of my son. I do recall saying there was a particular event that happened, and my son witnessed it.

Now its now what you say, but how things are being said. The timing of your comment is so wrong, but it is your right.</div></div>

I'm sorry if I quoted you wrong, though I don't believe I was that far off... maybe it was a push??? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] In any event, how is the timing wrong??? Do you not take things like this into consideration while you 'fight' for taking the relationship to another level??? Do you not consider everything that's led up to this moment - the good, the bad and the inbetween??? So how can the timing be wrong???

Speaking of which, you said:

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_28</div><div class="ubbcode-body">We are not together anymore, but in trying to work it out mode. </div></div>

And at the same time you said:

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_28</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
We have been seprerated for a while now, but I am gone past the working it out part. </div></div>

And before all that, you said:

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_28</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> its not that I have the desire to get married..but why not? </div></div>

I mean, what do you really want??? \0/

My opinion, which I'm going to give even though you might not want to hear it is this: Neither one of you are ready for marriage.

Yuh hear mi? Yuh nuh ready. So no force the issue til yuh really know, whe yuh really want.

[Fyah]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

I mean, what do you really want??? \0/

My opinion, which I'm going to give even though you might not want to hear it is this: Neither one of you are ready for marriage.

Yuh hear mi? Yuh nuh ready. So no force the issue til yuh really know, whe yuh really want.


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I think the REAL issue is that she does NOT want her <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">eggs to dry up </div></div> and would like to have more chirruns by age 30. Do the maths. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/scareyuh.gif[/img]

Either way, they said that Youth is wasted on the Young, so what do you expect? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/tired.gif[/img]

[Nunya]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

If that's the case, TLC mi sis: yuh nuh hear dem say 40 is de new 30??? An 60 is de new 40????

Yuh nuh hear ho much 40+ an 60+ a have pickney now-a-days??? So no worry TLC, yuh child bearing days are furr from over... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70365-flirt.gif[/img]

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

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I have considered everything that has taken place....this is why I am in an emotional limbo right now.

We are NOT together anymore and we ARE in trying to work it out now. We have been seperated for a while now since that incident took place....but I am past trying to work it out......how is that dificult to understand?

When I said that why not get married, that response was directed toward ILP (I think, can bother to go back and forth) when she asked about why am I looking to get married or something along those lines.

I wanted us to be together, but all this back and forth between us is stressing me out....hence emotional limbo.

Marriage right now? Nah, but I did want it to happen someday.

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Cyan Badda...Juss Fed Up

Nunya....weh mi ah do wid big belli ah 45.....no misis......[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]