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A provocative article I came across. Some of the reasons articulated for the break-ups seem the usual sterotypes, but it would be interesting to hear your thoughts as to whether you agree / disagree with them.
By Chance Kelsey
I have taken notice of a trend among blacks in America and blacks living in other countries, and that is, why is it that when a black woman or girl have a baby with a black male the relationship breaks up (end)? I have seen this all my life; it makes you wonder if blacks are a racial group that repopulates themselves out of sexual promiscuity. Based upon all rational observations it is definitely true that in America, Caribbean, many parts of Africa, Canada, South and Central America, and Europe where blacks live you will find this to be a reality. Cultures can’t explain all of this because blacks living in various parts of the world have different cultures – yet all black populations have this characteristic of relationships breakup after a baby is born.
Whether blacks are educated, uneducated, employed, unemployed, ghetto poor, middle class, or rich you clearly can see that this is a problem among theme regardless of economic status. Teenage black girls have this same situation when the baby is born the boyfriend often does nothing for the baby he leaves and goes to another. It is very normal to say to ones self that if the two blacks are not married when the child is born there will be a breakup. Now some don’t breakup they stay together, and you have some who breakup but the father and mother still cooperate with each other for the babies best interest (father provides for the baby). Most of all it is really not about being married what matters more is whether or not the child will be taken care of. There are some wonderful dads who take care of their children even though they are not with the mothers of their children. This I say counts more than marriage if the kids are already born.
<span style="color: #000099">Reasons Why Black Men Leave When A baby Is Born
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1. Sub culture that continues to socially institutionalize this out of wedlock and don’t take of the kid behavior among black men.
2. Father and Mother not getting along.
3. Lack of money.
4. He was just with her for sex and the baby was just a byproduct of that situation.
5. Mother and Father were just with each other for sex only, and baby was just natural result even though they did not plan to have a child.
6. Black males don’t in general trust black females because they have noticed — that too many of them are sexually promiscuous, just like many black men are sexually promiscuous.
7. Genetic – blacks produce more testosterone than any other ethnic group, and the more testosterone you produce the more you sexually active you want to be. Even if you don’t act upon the urge to go have sex you still have the feelings.
8. Too many black woman and men have disagreeable attitudes and negative dispositions so, they date each other but don’t feel like getting married because then they will have to deal with each others negative attitudes.
9. A baby is like a marriage and many black men don’t want to be attached to the black woman they have a out of wedlock kid with — because the kid is like a binding cord that says you must deal with the mother also even if you don’t want to.
10. Too many black women are sexually easy to have sex with and they put no demands on the black man. So black men don’t feel pressure that would turn into obligations to respect black women and take care of the children.
11. Black men just enjoy their freedom of not be obligated to a female. No commitment, no responsibility, no marriage, no financial obligation to take care of the black woman, etc many black men enjoy this type of freedom.
Black men and black women please work together to provide for your children even if you all are not together in relationship. Think about the best interest of the kids. Even if you don’t like each other at least cooperate good enough to provide for the kid. A child needs the love and attention of mother and father.
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By Chance Kelsey
I have taken notice of a trend among blacks in America and blacks living in other countries, and that is, why is it that when a black woman or girl have a baby with a black male the relationship breaks up (end)? I have seen this all my life; it makes you wonder if blacks are a racial group that repopulates themselves out of sexual promiscuity. Based upon all rational observations it is definitely true that in America, Caribbean, many parts of Africa, Canada, South and Central America, and Europe where blacks live you will find this to be a reality. Cultures can’t explain all of this because blacks living in various parts of the world have different cultures – yet all black populations have this characteristic of relationships breakup after a baby is born.
Whether blacks are educated, uneducated, employed, unemployed, ghetto poor, middle class, or rich you clearly can see that this is a problem among theme regardless of economic status. Teenage black girls have this same situation when the baby is born the boyfriend often does nothing for the baby he leaves and goes to another. It is very normal to say to ones self that if the two blacks are not married when the child is born there will be a breakup. Now some don’t breakup they stay together, and you have some who breakup but the father and mother still cooperate with each other for the babies best interest (father provides for the baby). Most of all it is really not about being married what matters more is whether or not the child will be taken care of. There are some wonderful dads who take care of their children even though they are not with the mothers of their children. This I say counts more than marriage if the kids are already born.
<span style="color: #000099">Reasons Why Black Men Leave When A baby Is Born
</span>
1. Sub culture that continues to socially institutionalize this out of wedlock and don’t take of the kid behavior among black men.
2. Father and Mother not getting along.
3. Lack of money.
4. He was just with her for sex and the baby was just a byproduct of that situation.
5. Mother and Father were just with each other for sex only, and baby was just natural result even though they did not plan to have a child.
6. Black males don’t in general trust black females because they have noticed — that too many of them are sexually promiscuous, just like many black men are sexually promiscuous.
7. Genetic – blacks produce more testosterone than any other ethnic group, and the more testosterone you produce the more you sexually active you want to be. Even if you don’t act upon the urge to go have sex you still have the feelings.
8. Too many black woman and men have disagreeable attitudes and negative dispositions so, they date each other but don’t feel like getting married because then they will have to deal with each others negative attitudes.
9. A baby is like a marriage and many black men don’t want to be attached to the black woman they have a out of wedlock kid with — because the kid is like a binding cord that says you must deal with the mother also even if you don’t want to.
10. Too many black women are sexually easy to have sex with and they put no demands on the black man. So black men don’t feel pressure that would turn into obligations to respect black women and take care of the children.
11. Black men just enjoy their freedom of not be obligated to a female. No commitment, no responsibility, no marriage, no financial obligation to take care of the black woman, etc many black men enjoy this type of freedom.
Black men and black women please work together to provide for your children even if you all are not together in relationship. Think about the best interest of the kids. Even if you don’t like each other at least cooperate good enough to provide for the kid. A child needs the love and attention of mother and father.
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