Unacceptable behavior

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Unacceptable behavior

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Zarah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

I am INCENSED and have completely cut them off! [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] </div></div>Jeez.

So wah yuh fren seh bout it?? yuh nuh talk to har one a way?? dem neva apologize??

[Q3210]

Re: Unacceptable behavior

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i usually let my guests do whatever they want (within reason) and i just clean up when they leave - dirt is cleanable [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] </div></div>

When guests use the bathroom, they must leave it as they saw it.
If it was clean with no hair left stuck to the walls of the bath or shower, why should they leave it with their body hair there?

Dirt should never be left when dirt was never there in the first place.
Disgusting!

[ZaraJah]

Re: Unacceptable behavior

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i usually let my guests do whatever they want (within reason) and i just clean up when they leave - dirt is cleanable [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] </div></div>

Within Reason. I don't mind washing dishes, towels and sheets after my guests have left, but I absolutely refuse to spend my weekend cleaning up unnecessary mess after two grown folks.

My keyboard still smells a mess. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] Heck no, that is unacceptable.

[ZaraJah]

Re: Unacceptable behavior

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Ms Exced</div><div class="ubbcode-body">My sister inlaw who always say I'm the nice quite one got a rude awakening when I caught her washing her bra in my kitchen sink. Did I let her have it. </div></div>

Exactly. All they have to do is ask.

OMG, I forgot to mention this. She literally used the dishwashing liquid to wash the blouse. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img]

[Q3210]

Re: Unacceptable behavior

Using the computer as if its their personal thing is gross.
I bet they rang up a `reasonable` phone bill on your land line too.

[ZaraJah]

Re: Unacceptable behavior

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The thing you should remember is that she was not trying to disrespect you. Just like how David was not intentionally trying to drive me up the wall...

It's what they're used to... If you were to have them over again, they wouldn't make the same mistakes, cause they now know that it's not acceptable to you.

I think cutting them off is kinda drastic. </div></div>

You're right. I gotta keep things in perspective though because they acted completely irrational.

My "friend" thought that I was blowing things out of proportion by asking her friend to cease from washing the blouse and take it to the bathroom, because "she was almost finished". THAT was NOT THE POINT! I tried to get her to understand that, but to no avail. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

Because she was asleep at the time, she did not get the beginning of the convo and the first thing out of her mouth was "dang, can't a sister catch some sleep without the sibling rivalry"? I WENT BALLISTIC right there. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]

She only apologized when I told them both to clean up now or leave. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

[ZaraJah]

Re: Unacceptable behavior

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Q3210</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i usually let my guests do whatever they want (within reason) and i just clean up when they leave - dirt is cleanable [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] </div></div>

When guests use the bathroom, they must leave it as they saw it.
If it was clean with no hair left stuck to the walls of the bath or shower, why should they leave it with their body hair there?

Dirt should never be left when dirt was never there in the first place.
Disgusting! </div></div>

Thank you Q3210. That is how I was brought up and that is what I practice and teach my son, nieces and nephews.

I would never treat someone else's place like that.

Let us not even talk about the grease on my remote controls and the rice grains in my rug. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img]

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: Unacceptable behavior

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Zarah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Ms Exced</div><div class="ubbcode-body">My sister inlaw who always say I'm the nice quite one got a rude awakening when I caught her washing her bra in my kitchen sink. Did I let her have it. </div></div>

Exactly. All they have to do is ask.

OMG, I forgot to mention this. She literally used the dishwashing liquid to wash the blouse. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] </div></div>who the heck would want to wear clothes washed in DW ligiuid [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img]

[ZaraJah]

Re: Unacceptable behavior

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: LadyZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Zarah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Ms Exced</div><div class="ubbcode-body">My sister inlaw who always say I'm the nice quite one got a rude awakening when I caught her washing her bra in my kitchen sink. Did I let her have it. </div></div>

Exactly. All they have to do is ask.

OMG, I forgot to mention this. She literally used the dishwashing liquid to wash the blouse. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] </div></div>who the heck would want to wear clothes washed in DW ligiuid [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] </div></div>

Those who don't give a hoot about themselves or others.

They know no boundary.

[ZaraJah]

Re: Unacceptable behavior

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Q3210</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Using the computer as if its their personal thing is gross.
I bet they rang up a `reasonable` phone bill on your land line too. </div></div>

No, they wouldn't have used my phone because the base was downstairs but I had the handset with me. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img]

[Q3210]

Re: Unacceptable behavior

If they were hill billies, they`d have spat their tobacky goo all over you too.

[damask]

Re: Unacceptable behavior

Well I grew up seeing family members wash hair in kitchen sink, cousins washing socks in the sink, giving the dog a bath in the bathtub, sleeping with the dawg and always thought all of the above was nassy. Even as a kid though I hated visiting family members with the dog running all over the house, sitting in the chairs or in the car an have some dog a breathe pon mi [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img] I grew up seeing this and it was never okay with me and they all thought I was odd an dem was great.

Now am an adult doan bring u dawg heena mi house,na dawg not sleeping heena mi bed [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img] an unless u wanna expire instantly doan wash u unmentionables heena mi kitchen sink. Yu dawg not coming into mi cyar, I doan care how much yu bathe the dawg dem still sumell like dawg and doan want u dawg saliva oll ova mi house.

BTW mi have house rules, wen u come to my town stay heena a Hotel I will even make reservations fa u, u na stay ovenight with me. My granpa, him wife an my man sleep ova nobatty else

[Q3210]

Re: Unacceptable behavior

Not even those who fling their feet on the sofa, on the bed, on your carpet, with you guessed it....on their feet.

[Gen]

Re: Unacceptable behavior

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Zarah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i usually let my guests do whatever they want (within reason) and i just clean up when they leave - dirt is cleanable [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] </div></div>

Within Reason. I don't mind washing dishes, towels and sheets after my guests have left, but I absolutely refuse to spend my weekend cleaning up unnecessary mess after two grown folks.

My keyboard still smells a mess. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad2.gif[/img] Heck no, that is unacceptable. </div></div>

yuh see -dat alone woulda mek mi clart the 2 a dem. fi do alla dat and den tun rung have food pan MY laptop .

aww heck no...when mi done dem wouldan haffi call police cause mi wouldan fling dem grip outa door and den the carryon luggage a close second..followed up by the shoes and hand bag

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] heck no the computer would put me ovah the edge.

[Gen]

Re: Unacceptable behavior

but Zarah yuh know some interesting people man [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

lawd a deading (mi know it nat funny to yuh) [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

one time one family membah call mi and ask if she can stay wid me suh mi seh yes ..den she seh bout har friend a come too..mi juss seh NO. not even for an hour, and this was for a weekend. nope. nada.