I would like some opinions

[Wahalla]

Re: I would like some opinions

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> "Yeah, you're right, I'm cheating on you, and I'm enjoying it." </div></div>

After dat comment what yu expected.. Flowers ??????

[MarieK]

Re: I would like some opinions

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skells</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Skells, den wah rang if di man want a likkle dessert, geet tuh him.

is warra kine a dessert yuh a chat bout </div></div>

LOL...mi a seh moas a dem nuh satisfy wid jus wan ooman...dem like have dem wife at home but MOST a dem like a ting pon di side.


So yu gallang mek yu man tek dessert. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] </div></div>

awww hell nawwwww, afta a nuh dat deh pawty deh. If he likes his women outside then yuh done know seh mi haffi fine Donavan outside tuh.

[DebsinNY]

Re: I would like some opinions

WOW. I can see this topic has spun out of control. Now, nowhere did I come on here seeking sympathy from any of you. I did not come in here bellyaching and going "poor me". It really amazes me how some of you can be so narrow minded.

I HAVE already made the decision to end my marriage. My question was whether or not I should wait til he gets his green card or not. I have had enough opinions, thank you.

I've had a rough few days since my last post and I don't care to delve into the details but the long and short of it is that I GAVE him the option of divorcing now or later. WHY?????Not only because I am a woman of compassion but he is my son's father and if I can help him to better himself so he can better our son then I WILL! He has not been staying here when I am home because I told him that since we were roomates he would need to foot half of the expenses, but when I am not home he is here with Jay. Otherwise he is at some other relatives. I think he has realized that this door has been shut since that last fight and he has been very quiet about it. I actually expected him to be beligerent about it but he has handled it well so far.


All I have to say is that if any of you have ever been in a situation similar to this then you will never understand the full scope of it. I am being told by some of you to run away with my son but when that happens, how do I work and who pays my mortgage, car note, and bills? It is not as easy as that, but I have been fortunate that as bad as my situation is I have never had to flee and go underground like many other women out there and I am thankful for that.

There is really nothing left to discuss. So I am asking the moderators of this forum to please close this discussion.

Thanks
~Debs

[DearK]

Re: I would like some opinions

(((((DebsinNY))))) I think everyone agrees you are in a challenging situation, and you're trying to do what's best for your son and yourself. Hang in there!

Closing the topic as you requested...