Dating Timeline - Anyone Else agree this is much too Aggressive

[Tropicana]

[Tropicana]

I can't even fathom the idea of having sex with someone before they have said I love you. So what, sex is equivalent to a handshake now....that's what I have been saying for a long time.

This is based on a survey BTW. A British dating service interviewed 100,000 members and this is what they came up with.

You may believe in love at first sight.Or you might be someone for whom love takes time and patience.

But the average time for telling your partner you love them is after 14 dates, according to a new survey.


Participants in the new study revealed the average number of dates per week with a new partner was two, meaning that couples tend to first say 'I love you' seven weeks into a new relationship.
First kisses tend to take place two dates or one week into the dating process, and the first time a couple has sex is, on average, after four dates or two weeks.


The research also showed that most partners are introduced to friends for the first time after six dates or three weeks, and that people are most likely to introduce their new boy or girlfriend to their parents after 12 dates or six weeks.
And if things go well, dating couples move in with each other, on average, after 30 weeks or 60 dates.


The study was carried out by dating websiteseekingarrangement.comwho polled their 100,000 British members to find the average time for a whole series of 'firsts' in a new relationship.

'None of us is going to jump into bed with a guy the first night we meet him. We may not even be ready to kiss him by then.One of the website's members, 22-year-old student Liya Step, said: 'Obviously all relationships are different but these "first" time figures look right for me and my girlfriends.
'But you can get to know a man fairly well after four dates. You know if you trust him and if you want to do something as intimate as having sex.
'Once you are confident that you have real chemistry, it is great to introduce him to your friends.
'You don’t want to do this too early because your pals can, on occasion, feel threatened by a new boyfriend and fear that he is going to take their place in your affections.
'So it is always good to wait until you know you really like guy before introducing him to your pals.
'I make it a rule that my parents only meet guys who I am deadly serious about – so that is going to take even longer.'


Seekingarrangement founder Brandon Wade said: 'When to say the "L" is one of the great dating dilemmas.
'The one hard and fast rule I urge all members to stick to is never to use it on the first date! That is sure to spook a new partner."

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2188819/Dating-milestones-revealed-new-survey.html

[Q3210]

I can't even fathom the idea of having sex with someone before they have said I love you. So what, sex is equivalent to a handshake now....that's what I have been saying for a long time.

This is based on a survey BTW. A British dating service interviewed 100,000 members and this is what they came up with.


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You got to start at sometime, somewhere with somebody.

[Tropicana]

Starting a relationship with makes no sense.

[Q3210]

The 1st ever business transaction was drop baggy at the presentation of a dollar.

[Tropicana]

The 1st ever business transaction was drop baggy at the presentation of a dollar.

We don't know that for a fact. Agriculture is a much older profession than nevah mind.

[Tropicana]

Tropicana's Dating Milestones

This is an appropriate time line.

First Date - Shake hands or no physical content
2nd Date - hug
3rd date - guy can hold your hand
4th date - guy can put his arm around you

Once you decide you are going to see each other exclusively and date no one else - 1st kiss - some Christians believe the first kiss should be at the altar when the parson says "You may now kisss the bride". Sounds very romantic to do it that way but I don't think a Jamaican man on the planet can ever agree to you.

After engagement - passionate kissing, etc. but nothing below the waist.

First Sex - on the honeymoon.

That's all folks.

[Peasie]

As a service to the community, please go out and have some good sex. Thank you.

[Emperah]

I don't see feel up eendeh, at what time dat fall inna de tropi timeline?

[RichD]

I don't see feel up eendeh, at what time dat fall inna de tropi timeline?

she sey after yuh engaged...and den is only over the clothes above the waist kinda feel up

wonda if dat include dry humping

[Suesumba]

she sey after yuh engaged...and den is only over the clothes above the waist kinda feel up

wonda if dat include dry humping

i was gonna type something but you beat me to it. you know sometimes it's not like dem noh drap baggy, sometimes a man nah look fi dat deh baggy drap

[Nunya]

Even if you don't have sex before marriage (which I actually agree with, though I failed to live up to it ) I do believe you need to feel up supm. So at least you know what you're gonna be working with...

Say you want to be coy, or sly, or discreet, whaddeva, but yuh recognize dat yuh gats to know, yuh mek yuh han-back bungs gense im pants front.

If yuh nuh feel nutn, yuh mek it bungs again, but harder... If yuh still no feel nutn, yuh a hawt a go stawt race an not in a good way...

So yuh a go eeda accidentally 'trip' an grab awn pon im pants front or yuh a go do sitn more aggressive (ie, push im ova an si whe yuh can si)

Or yuh a go jus do away wid all veneer and go searching...

But one way or the other, you should know what you're working with...

True story: Knew of one christian couple, who on the wedding night, she discovered that he was basically a eunuch. She wanted a divorce cause he'd obviously misled her, but the tenets of her faith forbade the dissolution of marriage except on the grounds of adultery.

[Suesumba]

Say you want to be coy, or sly, or discreet, whaddeva, but yuh recognize dat yuh gats to know, yuh mek yuh han-back bungs gense im pants front.

If yuh nuh feel nutn, yuh mek it bungs again, but harder... If yuh still no feel nutn, yuh a hawt a go stawt race an not in a good way...

squee! that's real life

[Tropicana]

Hey no one has answered the question about whether or not the timeline is MUCH too aggressive.

I don't see feel up eendeh, at what time dat fall inna de tropi timeline?

Come, come now Emperah, we have discussed this before. Your memory is short.


Do you want me to refresh it for you?





Feel up is covered under.....

After engagement - passionate kissing, etc. but nothing below the waist.

And before RichD asks, yes that is over and under clothing. Oops I spoke too soon, he has already asked.


Before Emperah asks B___ and H___ are below the waist so that comes after marriage.


Why Emperah and RichD? What is your time line? I am not even going to bother asking Wahalla. I can just immagine.


Dat noh mek NO sens


Dry humping Why even bother? Sounds like a pretty useless activity to me. It could easily lead to other things.


Let me think.... dry humping huh? I suppose after marriage as it is below the waist.


Guess mi bettah read all the responses before responding further.


Man this light and fluffy topic is getting deeper than I thought. Why is it that one can always count on men to do that.

[Tropicana]

As a service to the community, please go out and have some good sex. Thank you.

I saw the timeline, thought we could have some fun with it but as usual can always count on you to take something fun and make it personal and insulting. Flippin unbelievable!