new love

[Tanesha]

Re: new love

lawd ilubporty...mek di man dem mek dem money...if yuh fool enough fi pawt wid ie mi seh amen if dem waa tek ie....

an if yuh fool enough fi open yuh leg dem.......mi seh rooks dat

[Boopie2]

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yeah man shi seh

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he is the one who calls me, i only called him the first time to tell him that i got home safely. when he calls, i chose to call him back because he calls me directly and at a $1.50 a minute, i cant afford that, but I do have to ask him to get a calling card if that is even possible

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mi seet soh.... Operata would yuh accept a call from Winston.... My Girl yes.....Baby I'll call you back

cause if im call straight nuh regula rate dat within har calling plan...

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[img]/forums/images/graemlins/70402-thinking.gif[/img] We used to do it too I forgot how it went though. I think you called collect and the person on the other end would say their part but instead of saying yes I would accept the call you suppose to say no one lives here by that name. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

You got the message and you didn't have to pay. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[mo_fire]

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Gone she gone... she run an gone away... or maybe she deh pon di telephone wid har new man.... [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

[Boopie2]

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You see it Boops [img]/forums/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]... I see it... now will Rexxy see it??
BTW, you nuh see mi call your name earlier inna my response? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] How you deh?

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Oh sorry my internet started acting up so I'm just trying to catch up. I'm just fine how are you and little bit? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Boopie2]

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[img]/forums/images/graemlins/70402-thinking.gif[/img] I stayed there and got the All Inclusive treatment too, from the women and men. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70409-waytogo.gif[/img] As for some of the men who approached me with foolishness I told them I wasn't trying to be any "Stella". [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img] I had no problems talking or going dancing but don't expect anything else. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

Now when I was just hanging with "the guys" 1 or 2 shared a lot of "the game" with me. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img] I actually talked with one cabdriver who said I was smart and he was proud of me for not putting up with the bull crap. He explained that a lot of his buddies ( probably him included as well) [img]/forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] would
sex these women really well all night, so when the American woman or whom ever thought they had the best sex ever they would grab them up and marry them. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70371-jump.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70371-jump.gif[/img]

Only to find when hubby leaves JA and gets to America he sex is whack cause in JA he was using something called a "stone" to make him sex good. " I think this was before Viagra came on the scene. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

One waiter was telling me and my husband how stupid Americans were cause he was in contact with about 6 or more. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img] They all sent him monies where he was able to save it and try to build him a little place. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img] I asked him if he was serious and he swore he was telling the truth. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

I have laughed and shared with both Jamaican women and men and have even exchanged addresses to try and keep in touch. The only problem is the mail takes too long. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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well iffah dis di kinnah condition daht a gwaan innah di AI's den sumting need fi done [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70361-embarassed.gif[/img] gawd soon come fah im worl fi true, dese kinnah tings is a pure disgrace [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70361-embarassed.gif[/img]

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Sorry I'm getting places mixed up in Negril at RUI we did have fun with practically the whole staff. It was a couple of days after 9/11 and so many staff members had family in New York so alot were worried for their families. I always seem to attract folks with just talking or joking. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

Now the cabdriver was parked outside of Jamaican Grande and a couple of days he was trying to be cheeky and was ignored by me. When he started acting like he had some sense I had no problem talking to him. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] We had to find out "did we want to party" meant something else. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img]

One waiter who worked in the Jamaican Grande as a waiter just started telling his business like it was no big deal. My husband and I and another couple from New York we all hung together with this guy. The guys were sitting around talking and drinking that's how the subject came up. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img]

[Tanesha]

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all mi waa know is how ooman so easy fi rooks...ie nuh tek more dan 3 day fi open leg....aye sah [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

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I guess you haven't been reading "some" Trip Reports. With so many men complimenting you every second, the drinking and dancing and such if she makes it to 3 days that"s good. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

Must be a couple months of dating in "dog" years to them. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

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BOALPUMS [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img] mi gawn a mi bed...Boopsie Girl mek mi laff till mi weak [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[Boopie2]

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[img]/forums/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] Plain & simple..
Keep your leg-s closed.
Keep your purse closed.
& Find some way to close this chapter in your life...
After all, It shouldn't be that hard... It was only a couple of day-s.

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There was one guy I met who was a chef in a restaurant I told him from jump street I have no problem with going dancing, laughing and talking but that was all he was going to get from me. Well one time he asked for a kiss, I told him I didn't just go around kissing people. And even if I did do it I didn't know where his mouth had been. It could have been on some woman's nether regions. He thought that was so funny that I would just come out and say it. The answer was a big fat noooooooooooooooo, and if he didn't change the subject I would leave.


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[ReggaeGirl2000]

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Hi Rexxy,

Go with your heart but watch out for warning signs. I live in Negril and see it time and time and time again. Some men have the lines down and can even cry on command.

As someone else said, if he gives you any "hard luck" story and needs money for this or that- get rid of him. There are some people who make all of their money off a lie- and they'll tell it to 3 or 4 different people and will be making money off of 3 or 4 different people (and this isn't just men, there are women who do it too).

If he doesn't have a job- get rid of him. Jamaica is a hard place to live and it is hard to make money but in areas like negril there are too many people who hussle men and women with promises of love.

You should not be expected to pay for everything when you are together. I don't care if you have more money than him. Then you'll have to do something you both can afford.

You should not be expected to bring him expensive (or any for that matter) presents.

He should call you too. You should not be the only one doing the long distance calling.

He should not instantly talk about coming to America and living with you. I have 3 different men in my neighborhood that I've known for several years who have left to marry an American woman and then came back on vacation. I've seen 2 of them back and was talking to them--- they married because "that is what they needed to do to get to the US."

And finally please, oh please, do not fall for any of these lines: "I've Never been with a white girl" If he really hasn't, he isn't going to use this as a line. "I want to marry you." After a week or on first meeting... really? "I love you"... he may lust you but using the "I love you" thing within a week of knowing you...not going to happen.

Vacation romances are fun. Relationships are fun. But remember, when it is long distance it is easy to hide a lot. When you know each other for a week at a time it is easy to hide a lot.

I'm in a relationship now with a Jamaican but I didn't know him prior to moving here. Just like everywhere there are Jamaican men and women who are good (just like there are bad people all over the world) and will be an equal and good partner. I'm not expected to pay for things- we trade off, I'm with him on a daily basis and we work in the same office building so I know what is going on all the time. He isn't with me because he thinks I have money-- he knows better [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] (but you should see the amount of men that I know want me because they think that I have lots of $$) and he doesn't want to leave Jamaica- so I better plan on staying if I want to be with him.

My best advice is to take it slow and use your intuition... if it feel wrong or something feels "fishy" it probably is.

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jamaicame - this was excellent advice!!!!! Took so many words right out of my mouth!

Bless,
RG

[Hush Darlin]

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mi racco [img]/forums/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img] di rooks muss sweet to rahtid [img]/forums/images/graemlins/704555_dwl.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

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sweets rooks and sweet words means he is a keeper and he is serious

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

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you're 25 and your mom dictates to you who to date? you're 25 and still in college? what are you studying?

[/ QUOTE ]Hello mam. Mine yuhself....mi is fe har age an mi still inna school [img]/forums/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img]

Mi soon gets mi diplooma an yuh cyaan chat to mi dem time deh[img]/forums/images/graemlins/70400-talktohand.gif[/img]

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

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THIS THREAD IS TOO LONG.

SMADDY TELL MI WAAN GWAAN NUH PLS [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70384-praying.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70367-help.gif[/img]

[kia027]

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THIS THREAD IS TOO LONG.

SMADDY TELL MI WAAN GWAAN NUH PLS [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70384-praying.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70367-help.gif[/img]

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In 4 words or less.
Rexxy get Hoodwinked [img]/forums/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

[Daoud4]

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I was thinking the same dang thing...

Rexxy - Just go and have your fun, some ppl try to spoil it for others. There was so good advice given but ultimately we all have our own life to live and F-up if so be it.