Jennifer Hudson - A different subject about her

[jah_yout]

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well usually they blame men for this so good to see a woman getting shelled about it

but personally i hate judging people based on who they are with because you just never know the reasons behind breakups/hookups;

look how ivana trump go marry the young guy although her family was against it and now dem a divorce

[diabolical_Tanya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mutty</div><div class="ubbcode-body">After you all are finished commenting about pretty boy (which should go on for about 77 pages), can I get some comments about the OTHER stuff in the original post?

Thanks. </div></div>

The football player dude is HOT

[Sinco01]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mutty</div><div class="ubbcode-body">After you all are finished commenting about pretty boy (which should go on for about 77 pages), can I get some comments about the OTHER stuff in the original post?

Thanks. </div></div>


There a some who did stay with their childhood sweetheart ..
I think Denzel did .. don't know if they are still together ..

But for Ms Hudson ..
I think the glare of the bright lights confused her ..

She still trying to figure out her place ..
So the glamour and exotics might thrill her for a moment ..

then reality sets in ..
you better off with what you know ..
at least it is stable ..
not this running around mess ..

[Mutty]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mutty</div><div class="ubbcode-body">After you all are finished commenting about pretty boy (which should go on for about 77 pages), can I get some comments about the OTHER stuff in the original post?

Thanks. </div></div>

The football player dude is HOT </div></div>

Watch dis one ya!

He's my bruva.

[julie*mango]

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Spotlight Lyrics:
(hoho hoho ohhh hoho hoho ohhh hoho hoho ohhh )
Are you a man who loves and cherishes and cares for me?
Is that true? Is that true? Is that true?(boy)
Are you a guard in a prison, maximum security?
Is that true? Is that true? Is that true?(boy)
Do we stay home all the time cuz you want me to yourself?
Is that true? Is that true? Is that true?(boy)
Or am I locked away, out of fear that I'd find someone else?
Is that true? Is that true? Is that true?(boy)

[Chorus:]
Well, I don't like,(hoho ohh) living under your spotlight,
Just because you think I might(hoho), find somebody worthy.
Well, I don't like,(hoho) living under your spotlight,
Maybe if you treat me right, you won't have to worry.


Is this a relationship, fulfilling your needs as well as mine?
Is that true? Is that true? Is that true?(boy)
Or is it just my sentence, am I doing time?
Is that true? Is that true? Is that true?(boy)
If this is love, real, real love, then I'm staying no doubt.
Is that true? Is that true? Is that true? (boy)
But if I'm just love's prisoner, then I'm busting out.
Is that true? Is that true? Is that true?(boy)

[Chorus]

Oh, you oughta be, ashamed of yourself
What the hell do you think you're doing?
Loving me, loving me, so wrong.
Baby, all I do is try,(try)
To show you that you're my,(my) one and only guy,
No matter who may come along,
Open your eyes cuz baby I don't lie.

[diabolical_Tanya]

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okay seriously

maybe the HS sweetheart felt that they were un-equally yoked. Maybe he has too much pride to be a &quot;kept&quot; man. Who knows what caused the break-up.

Hopefully she will realise that the third dude is gay

oh and Samuel L Jackson and LaTanya Jackson another pre-fame couple

[Kurlie]

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do you think that song was written for the first boyfriend?

[simmi27]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Sinco01</div><div class="ubbcode-body">






I don't know about this fellow ..
but my suspicion meter just got jangled ..
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Dem seh he is Harvard Grad, soh him nah look har money..I wonder why he was on I luv NY

[julie*mango]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: simmi27</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Sinco01</div><div class="ubbcode-body">






I don't know about this fellow ..
but my suspicion meter just got jangled ..
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Dem seh he is Harvard Grad, soh him nah look har money..I wonder why he was on I luv NY </div></div>

publicity..career advancement

[Jazz]

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Also, when you think about it, especially in the world of sports (for comparison), how many big name figures actually stay with their &quot;high school sweethearts&quot; once they reach high society and should we expect them to?

<span style="font-weight: bold">Why should we have any expectations of them and their choice in mates? How many of us ordinary folks are with out childhood sweethearts or first loves? I know I 'm not and that is mainly becasue I outgrew him. As I grew older we both changed and evolved and we realized that the people we were when we met 3 years before was not who we were then and that we had different needs. I would imagine that Jhuds life is VASTLY different now than when they got together... It is easier to be with someone who can understand and relate to, be apart of your current lifestyle... Common interests etc. Unless we know the inside story it really is hard to make ajudgement as to whether she should have stayed with him or not.</span>

I just found it interesting that once she started settling into a new status her ex who she was gushing about at her ascension to stardom was nowhere to be found at her side or in her life. In fact, I read she actually dumped him (don't know the reason) for New York [football] Jets player, <span style="font-weight: bold">Kerry Rhodes</span>, went back to her first boyfriend and then on to this new guy who i understand she is engaged to.


<span style="font-weight: bold">For fear of sounding redundant - every day people get together and break up everyday... and she is relatively young - now is the time for her to play the field and find otu what she really wants - it is just unfortunate for her that she has to play her life ou tin front of the cameras and underscrutiny and judgement from the public... how many relationships do we all go through before we decide on whom we want to marry??? why shouldn;t she be able to exercise that same right to choose and change as she sees fit?</span>

Would you say these kinds of moves should be expected/inevitable or are even necessary in cases like this? Is she proof that once you have money you put up with less and more inclined to bolt at the first sign of stress?

What are your thoughts? If you were in her position, what would you have done by now?

<span style="font-weight: bold">I would venture to say that she is looking for love same as every slob on the street - whatever she feels is right for her in that quest is a personal thing - no diff. than we all do... as to what would I do??

Well I know fruitcake at the bottom would diefinitely NOT be on my list However, hard to say until you are placed in a similar position.</span>

[Kurlie]

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bwoy likkle jazz you mek sense..

how come mi nuh see yu in a long while...everyting cris?

[Boricua_papi]

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JA women have to be the most critical women on the planet when in comes to appearance. Low di metrosexual men deh.

[Jazz]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MrsKurlie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">bwoy likkle jazz you mek sense..

how come mi nuh see yu in a long while...everyting cris? </div></div>

Kurlie

yeah man mi deh yah inna de strugle sed way - mi did deh pon de rock likkle but - nuff ruption pon de job a ray ray, so kinda ah try hole tings dung u nuh... nuff chnages fe every body - ah so it go.

how u do?

[Sinco01]

Re: Jennifer Hudson - A different subject about her

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: A_lil_Jazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Also, when you think about it, especially in the world of sports (for comparison), how many big name figures actually stay with their &quot;high school sweethearts&quot; once they reach high society and should we expect them to?

<span style="font-weight: bold"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Why should we have any expectations of them and their choice in mates? How many of us ordinary folks are with out childhood sweethearts or first loves? I know I 'm not</div></div>

Hoorah for u ..
but not everyone goes that route ..
My ex is ny highschool sweetheart ...
And we still very good friends ..
matter of fact she called me yesterday ..

yes people develop and mature differently ..
but i think the first boyfriend was not given that chance ..
my guess/opinion ..

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">It is easier to be with someone who can understand and relate to, be apart of your current lifestyle... Common interests etc.</div></div> Unless we know the inside story it really is hard to make ajudgement as to whether she should have stayed with him or not.</span>


we are all spuculating here ..
but her behaviour suggests confusion ..



<span style="font-weight: bold">For fear of sounding redundant - <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">every day people get together and break up everyday... and she is relatively young - now is the time for her to play the field and find otu what she really wants - </div></div>

wasn't that what highschool and college was for ..
maybe dats why someone married today ..
give bun tomorrow ..

<span style="font-style: italic">it is just unfortunate for her that she has to play her life ou tin front of the cameras and underscrutiny and judgement from the public</span>... how many relationships do we all go through before we decide on whom we want to marry??? <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">why shouldn;t she be able to exercise that same right to choose and change as she sees fit</div></div>?</span>

her right yes ..
but i think she got caught up in the glamour of stardom ..
yep .. she is youg so she will have time to figure it out ..




What are your thoughts? If you were in her position, what would you have done by now?

<span style="font-weight: bold"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I would venture to say that she is looking for love same as every slob on the street</div></div> - whatever she feels is right for her in that quest is a personal thing - no diff. than we all do... as to what would I do??

Well I know fruitcake at the bottom would diefinitely NOT be on my list However, hard to say until you are placed in a similar position.</span>


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I don't know bout that .. not every slob on the street has her kinda cawn ..
she can afford to experiment with high society circles ..

[Jazz]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Sinco01</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: A_lil_Jazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Also, when you think about it, especially in the world of sports (for comparison), how many big name figures actually stay with their &quot;high school sweethearts&quot; once they reach high society and should we expect them to?

<span style="font-weight: bold"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Why should we have any expectations of them and their choice in mates? How many of us ordinary folks are with out childhood sweethearts or first loves? I know I 'm not</div></div>

Hoorah for u ..
but not everyone goes that route ..
My ex is ny highschool sweetheart ...
And we still very good friends ..
matter of fact she called me yesterday ..

yes people develop and mature differently ..
but i think the first boyfriend was not given that chance ..
my guess/opinion ..

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">It is easier to be with someone who can understand and relate to, be apart of your current lifestyle... Common interests etc.</div></div> Unless we know the inside story it really is hard to make ajudgement as to whether she should have stayed with him or not.</span>


we are all spuculating here ..
but her behaviour suggests confusion ..



<span style="font-weight: bold">For fear of sounding redundant - <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">every day people get together and break up everyday... and she is relatively young - now is the time for her to play the field and find otu what she really wants - </div></div>

wasn't that what highschool and college was for ..
maybe dats why someone married today ..
give bun tomorrow ..

<span style="font-style: italic">it is just unfortunate for her that she has to play her life ou tin front of the cameras and underscrutiny and judgement from the public</span>... how many relationships do we all go through before we decide on whom we want to marry??? <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">why shouldn;t she be able to exercise that same right to choose and change as she sees fit</div></div>?</span>

her right yes ..
but i think she got caught up in the glamour of stardom ..
yep .. she is youg so she will have time to figure it out ..




What are your thoughts? If you were in her position, what would you have done by now?

<span style="font-weight: bold"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I would venture to say that she is looking for love same as every slob on the street</div></div> - whatever she feels is right for her in that quest is a personal thing - no diff. than we all do... as to what would I do??

Well I know fruitcake at the bottom would diefinitely NOT be on my list However, hard to say until you are placed in a similar position.</span>


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I don't know bout that .. not every slob on the street has her kinda cawn ..
she can afford to experiment with high society circles .. </div></div>

hhhmmmm... but I notice she is your EX though