The Prom Thing Again - Even in 2009

[Sinco01]

Re: The Prom Thing Again - Even in 2009

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tropicana</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Sinco01</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tropicana</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

scarred me for life ..

yuh funny ..
why would that scar you ? ? ? </div></div>

If you think rejection is fun, especially as a young person....try it. I just love it how some of onoo who grew up in Jamaica surrounded by Blacks are SO flippin' in capable of empathy.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
anyway mi tired ah all dat ..
come check mi man ..
mi will cure of all phobias and fears .. </div></div>

<span style="font-weight: bold">You are VERY much taken</span> Mr. Sinco as we did discuss the first time you did hail me. Mi noh inna de stealing love on the side bizniz. Plus there is <span style="font-weight: bold">the sliff busines</span> and mi noh check fi dat. </div></div>



Which one ah uunu tek mi .. ?
Please to let Ms Treopi know seh mi is single MAN ..

Fill mi een pon de sliff business nuh Tropi ..
wha yuh ah talk bout .. ? </div></div>

<span style="font-weight: bold">SPLIFF </span>

You did say that you were already taken and spoken for the first time we messaged each other.

Remember you posted that you loved how sistren like de one Tropicana would stride into posts like any Don...and then you said, just one brother leaning on a fence and smoking his spliff. Don't tell me you have forgotten. It was our first interaction.

As Shaggy seh ..
it wasn't me ..

i ain't taken ..
an dis is one brother who nuh lean pon fence an smoke spliff ..

[Tropicana]

Re: The Prom Thing Again - Even in 2009

It WAS you and you said you lived in Chicago and had a girlfriend....

[Sinco01]

Re: The Prom Thing Again - Even in 2009

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tropicana</div><div class="ubbcode-body">It WAS you and you said you lived in Chicago and had a girlfriend.... </div></div>


I live in Chicago ..
but have been single more than 12 yrs now ..

occasional girlfrinds drop in now and again ..
can't find the serious one tho ..

nope ..
wasn't me ..

well maybe mi memory gone ..
ole age tek mi ..

[Tropicana]

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Yeah it was definitely you...old age tek you.

When you say &quot;drop in&quot; do you mean as friends or friends with benefits?

Anyway, I do have you to thank for one thing. Remember the married guy who didn't even fart pon me de whole time we were in high school who looked me up and asked me out to dinner to &quot;network&quot;? I was SHOCKED that it was an expensive restaurant. I was even more shocked that he no longer looked like the hot stud he had been in high school Then, he contacted me a week later and wanted another dinner fi network. You posted be careful about that guy, the only thing he wants to network is YOU!!

That was funny.

[Sinco01]

Re: The Prom Thing Again - Even in 2009

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tropicana</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Yeah it was definitely you...old age tek you.

<span style="font-weight: bold">When you say &quot;drop in&quot; do you mean as friends or friends with benefits? </span>

Anyway, I do have you to thank for one thing. Remember the married guy who didn't even fart pon me de whole time we were in high school who looked me up and asked me out to dinner to &quot;network&quot;? I was SHOCKED that it was an expensive restaurant. I was even more shocked that he no longer looked like the hot stud he had been in high school Then, he contacted me a week later and wanted another dinner fi network. You posted be careful about that guy, the only thing he wants to network is YOU!!

That was funny. </div></div>


maybe ..

[Dr.Dudd]

Re: The Prom Thing Again - Even in 2009

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blakkgiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mii see noo prablem widd segregated prom. y peeps a gawn like intergrated prom iss de ideal ting


watt upp widd dat mzungu ooman goinn too wan school widd blakks soo shii cood bee valedictorian. wat does dat sey bout ar ovatandinn aff racism </div></div>i thought only fools be;ieve that there is strength on division,but you are a teacher and teachers are no fool.
the old devide and conquor education i sippose.

[julie*mango]

Re: The Prom Thing Again - Even in 2009

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dr.Dudd</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blakkgiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mii see noo prablem widd segregated prom. y peeps a gawn like intergrated prom iss de ideal ting


watt upp widd dat mzungu ooman goinn too wan school widd blakks soo shii cood bee valedictorian. wat does dat sey bout ar ovatandinn aff racism </div></div>i thought only fools be;ieve that there is strength on division,but you are a teacher and teachers are no fool.
the old devide and conquor education i sippose. </div></div>

i imagine blu's standpoint is that integration of the masses is segregating the races...

[Gen]

Re: The Prom Thing Again - Even in 2009

mango sorbet

[halfwaytree]

Re: The Prom Thing Again - Even in 2009

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Gen</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> mango sorbet </div></div>

[Sinco01]

Re: The Prom Thing Again - Even in 2009

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Gen</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> mango sorbet </div></div>

[blackberryrain]

Re: The Prom Thing Again - Even in 2009

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Sinco01</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Gen</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> mango sorbet </div></div>

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yall don't have a lick of sense

[kia027]

Re: The Prom Thing Again - Even in 2009

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tropicana</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: I_Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold">I didn't and it scarred me for life</span></div></div>

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">It does kind of stick in my craw that when White kids go to school in Jamaica they are not picked on pecked and shunned and yet when we live in THEIR countries, historically, the treatment meated out has been poor</div></div>

Have you tried therapy to resolve these issues so that you can have a full enjoyable life? It seems such a waste to hold onto all this pain. </div></div>

And would therapy cure and remove the effects to total humiliation as a youth. </div></div>


Yes it can. It can change your outlook so you dont have to carry the pain anymore. Seems like it takes soo much energy to hold on to that pain .

[Tropicana]

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<span style="font-weight: bold">FINALLY </span> remembered to check with my son as I promised I would. He was home for reading week. STILL forgot to ask him but I did have a chance to speak with him. Interestint conversation:

I reminded him about a couple of incidents and he said:

<span style="font-weight: bold"> Son:</span> Why in the world would you be bringing THAT up now?
<span style="font-weight: bold"> Me:</span> Because I also had some experiences with rejection as a young adult and they still bother
me. So I was curious to know if they bother you.
<span style="font-weight: bold"> Son:</span> Heck no.
<span style="font-weight: bold"> Me:</span> It bothered you at the time. You were in tears.
For how long did these things bother you?
<span style="font-weight: bold"> Son:</span> I was over them by about a year after, not even a year.
<span style="font-weight: bold">Me: </span> Well there are things that STILL bother me.
<span style="font-weight: bold"> Son:</span> That's weird.

So, my son has not been traumatized for life. Good to know.

So there you have it. Guess he is a bigger man than I am. Oh, but I am not a man.

[Compry]

Re: The Prom Thing Again - Even in 2009

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tropicana</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Cousin Compry and other Toronto area boardites, did your son go to Wasaga Beach. </div></div>

Hey Cuz...I'm speaking at KRT this coming Sunday...come nuh?

Anyway, my son's only trips to Wasaga Beach was on family trips to beach #11 away from the crowds.

[Tropicana]

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What are you speaking about and at what time? Man Brampton is so far to travel in the winter?