Re: Joe Jackson seeks allowance from son's estate
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> would you be ok with being put in a nursing home when you get too old to care for yourself?
would you be ok if your children never visited you...?</div></div>
that woulnd't happen cause ida been thinkin of what kinda chilren I was raising AS i was raising them, and done it wihtout cruelty and sexual and emotional abuse. You raise a child that way and that is what they learn. it either creates them to be that same kind of adult, and perpetuates that same behavior - or - they go to the opposite extreme and grow up to be mistrustful and fearful of everyone, which is what happend to Michael. He never could create a lasting adult relationship, which i find profoundly sad. You <span style="font-style: italic">can</span> raise a kid with firmness and disciplne in a loving and kind manner, withOUT crossing the line into cruely and abuse.
acknowledging that abusive cruel behavior damages a child forever is not whining. the psychological damage is real and affects the rest of their life. Yes, Joe's motivation might have been a good one but his abusive treatment and cruel methods - not even taking into account the disgusting abomination of sexually abusing one's own daughters - negated whatever good intentions he had. No matter WHAT the motivation behind it, it warps their minds and turns out damaged adults. just because they are talented and famous and make a lot of money does not mean they are necessarily 'succesful', becuase the measure of success also has to take into account their private mental states, not just the financial success and fame we outsiders see.
Joe dealt it out, now he's gonna reap the results of it. too bad so sad he shoulda thought bout how he treated his kids long before now when he wants something from them. he coulda raised them with more love & kindness and kept his disgustin pig self offa his daughters. then he woulnd't haf to be worryin bout how he gonna have nuff money in his golden years. You can't be a beast toward ppl all them life, treat dem like a pieca ish just to line your own pocket, then expect them to ignore all that just cause you old and infirm now. (and yeh what DID happen to all that money Joe made when them kids was small? he shoulda had his own nice nest egg by now, not be cryin about MJ's money). ppl reap what dem sow.
Michael made his will the way he wanted it, and i agree with M that the Deceased wishes for their lifes-work & assetts are the only thng that matters. it is theirs to do with as they wish. If Joe <span style="font-style: italic">really</span> loved his son instedda just sayin that as lip-service when the cameras are on him, he would shut up and <span style="font-weight: bold">respect</span> his son in death. we can all see that what Michael wanted more than <span style="font-style: italic">anything</span> was to keep his chilren shielded from the public eye, not put them right in it. Joe should respect that, and respect MJ's will and done. leave his chilren and his money alone.
Joe made his own bed, and now he just wanna whine when he haffi lie in it. typical behavior of a narcissistic selfish person. i have no sympathy feim whatsoever.
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> would you be ok with being put in a nursing home when you get too old to care for yourself?
would you be ok if your children never visited you...?</div></div>
that woulnd't happen cause ida been thinkin of what kinda chilren I was raising AS i was raising them, and done it wihtout cruelty and sexual and emotional abuse. You raise a child that way and that is what they learn. it either creates them to be that same kind of adult, and perpetuates that same behavior - or - they go to the opposite extreme and grow up to be mistrustful and fearful of everyone, which is what happend to Michael. He never could create a lasting adult relationship, which i find profoundly sad. You <span style="font-style: italic">can</span> raise a kid with firmness and disciplne in a loving and kind manner, withOUT crossing the line into cruely and abuse.
acknowledging that abusive cruel behavior damages a child forever is not whining. the psychological damage is real and affects the rest of their life. Yes, Joe's motivation might have been a good one but his abusive treatment and cruel methods - not even taking into account the disgusting abomination of sexually abusing one's own daughters - negated whatever good intentions he had. No matter WHAT the motivation behind it, it warps their minds and turns out damaged adults. just because they are talented and famous and make a lot of money does not mean they are necessarily 'succesful', becuase the measure of success also has to take into account their private mental states, not just the financial success and fame we outsiders see.
Joe dealt it out, now he's gonna reap the results of it. too bad so sad he shoulda thought bout how he treated his kids long before now when he wants something from them. he coulda raised them with more love & kindness and kept his disgustin pig self offa his daughters. then he woulnd't haf to be worryin bout how he gonna have nuff money in his golden years. You can't be a beast toward ppl all them life, treat dem like a pieca ish just to line your own pocket, then expect them to ignore all that just cause you old and infirm now. (and yeh what DID happen to all that money Joe made when them kids was small? he shoulda had his own nice nest egg by now, not be cryin about MJ's money). ppl reap what dem sow.
Michael made his will the way he wanted it, and i agree with M that the Deceased wishes for their lifes-work & assetts are the only thng that matters. it is theirs to do with as they wish. If Joe <span style="font-style: italic">really</span> loved his son instedda just sayin that as lip-service when the cameras are on him, he would shut up and <span style="font-weight: bold">respect</span> his son in death. we can all see that what Michael wanted more than <span style="font-style: italic">anything</span> was to keep his chilren shielded from the public eye, not put them right in it. Joe should respect that, and respect MJ's will and done. leave his chilren and his money alone.
Joe made his own bed, and now he just wanna whine when he haffi lie in it. typical behavior of a narcissistic selfish person. i have no sympathy feim whatsoever.
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