Yuri just a second please

[Yuriatin]

Re: Yuri just a second please

Oh, ok.

Well - all he can do is get a lawyer - not a court appointed one either - and see what can be done.

And there's nothing you can do Skelly! Why are you sweating it so much - this has no direct impact on you. Unravel yourself from it.

I dont get what you mean when you say you're <span style="color: #FF0000"><span style="font-style: italic">&quot;processing the reality of the situation..what it means for her...what this will mean for me..and how to really distance myself from it&quot;.</span></span>

What on earth could this mean for you - is this a family member?

Let people live their lives and you live yours.

Why are you letting it weigh on you so ... ?

[Skelly]

Re: Yuri just a second please

yes she is a family member

[Yuriatin]

Re: Yuri just a second please

I see I see - I totally understand.

Well, I wish her the best of luck. I don't know the full picture but it seems, from what you post, the best she can do is let off of this cat. Clearly the man is pulling her down - not uplifting her - only causing heartache and drama and pain. Who needs it ...

My previous post still applies tho - I know you're hurting for her but there's nothing you can do. The only people who can bring about change, real change, in the situation - is him and her.

[j-kid]

Re: Yuri just a second please

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">And I also want to know what does Severity: F mean

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Sounds like it means sey him is really really &quot;F'd&quot; pan dis wan.