Re: The Help
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Wahalla</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I heard of this book.. Wasnt interested in reading it....
It struck me as a modern literay equavalent of Gone with the wind....
This is this authours persective...
My mother who I supply with books, might be itnerested in reading it.... .. Evan did you find it a good read??? </div></div>
it is a good read...the maid portrayed are not passive women who sit n bemoan their predicament r kiss up to their white employers...it shows the disparity in their lifestyles yes...it shows the insensitivity of the employers yes...it shows the inequalities n the usual of life back then
but it also shows how these women fought bak in the ways they could...it shows how whites, could also be locked out whether because they were minorities demselves, i.e. Jews, r , in the case of the protagonist, a misfit due to her failure to graduate wid a MRS as was supposed to be the norm of women attending college back then
the language of the book is not sterotypical...i.e. yess'um etc...maids agreed wid employers in the same aimless an inattentive way that employers paid lipservice to the needs of their maids...an then u had the exception...employers who relied heavily on their helpers since family had abandonned r ignored them as we know happens in the real world
blacks are as proactive in their own lives an communities...the juxtaposition of their reality as opposed to their employers' is one of the avenues i enjoyed in the book
i am amazed at how a book of this type gets blazed while Stella is crowed over....wat..we can appreciate black women going abroad to get some sex but cant appreciate a view of how black women had to fight against being sexual stereotypes n stereotypes in general...how they fought n lived a parallel life n survived wid their dignity
because in the end,it took that dignity PLUS a whole heap of BALLS for them to cooperate wid the protagonist in writing about their , the helpers' interaction wid dem employers...and they did slowly...not alll were willing at first..they had to find their own way to this show of independence...
and lest we forget..the germ for the book was from one of the helpers whose son had had that dream to write a book about black life under the conditions of the town but who had lost his life...
the book is full of lessons if u read wid appreciation...but most seem to read dese days fi titilation..
n frankly some of the naysayers in teh black world could do wid some reading wid comprehension n appreciation..cause one thing those ladies showed was dat dem circumstances might be artificially circumscribed but their spirits were not..n they found their way to go through wid ingenunity ...thinking ahead and looking beyond...someting missing in present day black life, for the most part...
if u approach the book as piece of fiction wid a bow to reality of life bak then, u will read and appreciate it....
i read it , enjoyed it along the same way i read n enjoyed Brother Man
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Wahalla</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I heard of this book.. Wasnt interested in reading it....
It struck me as a modern literay equavalent of Gone with the wind....
This is this authours persective...
My mother who I supply with books, might be itnerested in reading it.... .. Evan did you find it a good read??? </div></div>
it is a good read...the maid portrayed are not passive women who sit n bemoan their predicament r kiss up to their white employers...it shows the disparity in their lifestyles yes...it shows the insensitivity of the employers yes...it shows the inequalities n the usual of life back then
but it also shows how these women fought bak in the ways they could...it shows how whites, could also be locked out whether because they were minorities demselves, i.e. Jews, r , in the case of the protagonist, a misfit due to her failure to graduate wid a MRS as was supposed to be the norm of women attending college back then
the language of the book is not sterotypical...i.e. yess'um etc...maids agreed wid employers in the same aimless an inattentive way that employers paid lipservice to the needs of their maids...an then u had the exception...employers who relied heavily on their helpers since family had abandonned r ignored them as we know happens in the real world
blacks are as proactive in their own lives an communities...the juxtaposition of their reality as opposed to their employers' is one of the avenues i enjoyed in the book
i am amazed at how a book of this type gets blazed while Stella is crowed over....wat..we can appreciate black women going abroad to get some sex but cant appreciate a view of how black women had to fight against being sexual stereotypes n stereotypes in general...how they fought n lived a parallel life n survived wid their dignity
because in the end,it took that dignity PLUS a whole heap of BALLS for them to cooperate wid the protagonist in writing about their , the helpers' interaction wid dem employers...and they did slowly...not alll were willing at first..they had to find their own way to this show of independence...
and lest we forget..the germ for the book was from one of the helpers whose son had had that dream to write a book about black life under the conditions of the town but who had lost his life...
the book is full of lessons if u read wid appreciation...but most seem to read dese days fi titilation..
n frankly some of the naysayers in teh black world could do wid some reading wid comprehension n appreciation..cause one thing those ladies showed was dat dem circumstances might be artificially circumscribed but their spirits were not..n they found their way to go through wid ingenunity ...thinking ahead and looking beyond...someting missing in present day black life, for the most part...
if u approach the book as piece of fiction wid a bow to reality of life bak then, u will read and appreciate it....
i read it , enjoyed it along the same way i read n enjoyed Brother Man
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