Men Come Here - I Need to Vent....Again

[Suesumba]

Re: Men Come Here - I Need to Vent....Again

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: ChurchDude</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Some blacks I know (men and women) who no longer date within their race do not have self-esteem issues but have made conscious decisions based on their experiences within their culture and their preferences for where they are in their lives at the moment. </div></div>

Ah ~~~ makes purring noises ~~~

[Tropicana]

Re: Men Come Here - I Need to Vent....Again

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TreyJ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I think the self esteem issue transcends gender. More women may struggle with it but men struggle too. They just do a better job of covering it up with what looks like bravado but deep down many wonder am I good enough. The 'ideal' of manliness as seen on the cover of GQ and men's fitness magazines is slowly infecting the male psyche. I see some of them in the gym pursuing the ideal with their 2-3 hour workout sessions. And while I believe love knows no racial boundaries if you are exclusive with asian or white women and you are a black man that in and of itself speaks to your self esteem issues. </div></div>

[Tropicana]

Re: Men Come Here - I Need to Vent....Again

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Vegas</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tropicana</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
2. His taste in women runs White or Chinese so don't try and make this about me. ..this ain't personal.
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so u havent been in touch with this guy for centuries, yet u know for sure he hasnt hooked up with neone besides white or chinese? yuh good sah.

i think him choosing to date a non black makes u tropi feel insecure somehow or it wouldnt bug u half as much. this black white thing really eats u up an if u were not single i dont think the issue would be so dear to ur heart. u get that &quot;there goes another eligible bachelor feeling...i get it....

u did state dat initially u were interested in him but he wasnt interested in u. and had he shown interest u would have definately dropped the baggy by now. </div></div>

Why am I under attack here?

This is what <span style="font-weight: bold">HE</span> has told me. We discussed who he HAS hooked up with and NONE of them have been Black. Seen??

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so u havent been in touch with this guy for centuries, yet u know for sure he hasnt hooked up with neone besides white or chinese?</div></div>


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">this black white thing really eats u up an if u were not single i dont think the issue would be so dear to ur heart.</div></div>

As Deanna Durbin said in the blockbuster movie First Love in which she got her first screen kiss from DREAMY Robert Stack who played polo BTW

<span style="font-weight: bold">Wrong again.</span>

This issue bugged me even when I was married and even when I am in relationship. Any Black woman who it doesn't bug is really out to lunch. There I said it.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> u did state dat initially u were interested in him but he wasnt interested in u. </div></div>

Yes I did think....&quot;within the ballpark...worth exploring&quot;. I didn't realize that he was hooked up with Miss China.
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">and had he shown interest u would have definately dropped the baggy by now.</div></div>

Not until the preacher says you may now kiss the bride my dear. Come come now...you KNOW me bettah dan dat by now.

[Tropicana]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: ChurchDude</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Some blacks I know (men and women) who no longer date within their race do not have self-esteem issues but have made conscious decisions based on their experiences within their culture and their preferences for where they are in their lives at the moment. </div></div>

Man that's a mouthful....I could listen to you for hours.

[missus_vegas]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">This issue bugged me even when I was married and even when I am in relationship. Any Black woman who it doesn't bug is really out to lunch. There I said it.
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it only bugs me when the female is unattractive....which is very shallow i know...but for the most part i am a live and let live person and i know that one would not be in a relationship unless there was some &quot;value&quot; in it for them. i dont have to like or approve who dem choose to bed just be happy they found love and wish them all the best.

[j-kid]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Vegas</div><div class="ubbcode-body">[......and had he shown interest u would have definately dropped the baggy by now. </div></div>

[Wahalla]

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I am ugli, cut up, bruk nose, califlour ears, pocked mark, burns to about 40 % of the bodi...,50 % vision lost in one eye, tittinous in the ears, metal plates in both legs, , .. I have self esteem issue... That is why I want to divorce my wife who is of the same race and marry some one from another... Cant wait till they find humanoid life based on a different salt in a galaxy far far away... Hopefully the salt basis will be monovalet so our fluid exchanges are compatible during pleasure attain through friction of the erogenous zones....

[Tropicana]

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Now inter-galactic marriages I am definitely against even if the playing field is level.

[Tropicana]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Vegas</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">This issue bugged me even when I was married and even when I am in relationship. Any Black woman who it doesn't bug is really out to lunch. There I said it.
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it only bugs me when the female is unattractive....which is very shallow i know...but for the most part i am a live and let live person and i know that one would not be in a relationship unless there was some &quot;value&quot; in it for them. i dont have to like or approve who dem choose to bed just be happy they found love and wish them all the best. </div></div>

Thank you for your input <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Click to reveal.. <input type="button" class="form-button" value="Show me!" onclick="toggle_spoiler(this, 'Yikes, my eyes!', 'Show me!')" /></div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div style="display: none;">...and put downs.</div></div></div> I trust that I have answered all of your questions to your satisfaction. Just a reminder, the purpose of this discussion is for me to vent and to get some answer from the men. So please kindly....<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Click to reveal.. <input type="button" class="form-button" value="Show me!" onclick="toggle_spoiler(this, 'Yikes, my eyes!', 'Show me!')" /></div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div style="display: none;">....nevah mind....</div></div></div>

[missus_vegas]

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ok now mi really convince say u have issues fi true ush a so life go sometimes.

[R_C]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tropicana</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So what is the flippin' problem wid some a onoo? Your Black mothers and grandmothers were good enough to work hard and sacrifice to provide for you but suddenly Black women aren't flippin' good enough for you? </div></div>

Sometimes we aren't good enough for you.

[missus_vegas]

Re: Men Come Here - I Need to Vent....Again

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: R_C</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tropicana</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So what is the flippin' problem wid some a onoo? Your Black mothers and grandmothers were good enough to work hard and sacrifice to provide for you but suddenly Black women aren't flippin' good enough for you? </div></div>

Sometimes we aren't good enough for you. </div></div>

[Tropicana]

Re: Men Come Here - I Need to Vent....Again

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: R_C</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tropicana</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So what is the flippin' problem wid some a onoo? Your Black mothers and grandmothers were good enough to work hard and sacrifice to provide for you but suddenly Black women aren't flippin' good enough for you? </div></div>

Sometimes we aren't good enough for you. </div></div>

Thanks. You have a point. I have discovered this a few time.