Re: child support

is how dis turn into Bandanna thread??
Anyway...
The last time ya'll heard anything from me about MY situation I was not getting child support. That was almost 2 years ago...
When "the roommate" left and I was struggling we worked it out that he would give me $100 a month. No court was involved, just 2 adults with their son's best interest in mind. $100 is not a lot, but it was something and rain or shine that man went to the bank and put in $100 every month for a year. We talked on the phone once or twice a week, he always kept in touch with us and came to see his son when he could.
We have a very different situation now that works for all 3 of us and that is what matters...
Now if I had been a witch and demanded money, money, money, and never let him see his son or talk to him until I got money, I am sure we would not be the friends we are today.
Every situation is different...
I was able to provide financially, and I was thankful that he did not just dissapear like many men do. Because I can make more money, but I can never be Imanni's father.

is how dis turn into Bandanna thread??

Anyway...
The last time ya'll heard anything from me about MY situation I was not getting child support. That was almost 2 years ago...
When "the roommate" left and I was struggling we worked it out that he would give me $100 a month. No court was involved, just 2 adults with their son's best interest in mind. $100 is not a lot, but it was something and rain or shine that man went to the bank and put in $100 every month for a year. We talked on the phone once or twice a week, he always kept in touch with us and came to see his son when he could.
We have a very different situation now that works for all 3 of us and that is what matters...
Now if I had been a witch and demanded money, money, money, and never let him see his son or talk to him until I got money, I am sure we would not be the friends we are today.
Every situation is different...
I was able to provide financially, and I was thankful that he did not just dissapear like many men do. Because I can make more money, but I can never be Imanni's father.
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