Black Interracial Dating Issues

[dr. bones]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tropicana</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> [quote]

Absolutely and I am one of them.It's not so much that I condemn the black men for dating interracially. I have concerns that the interracial dating playing field is not level. Also when I see a lot of wonderful women without partners and some of the White women the men take up with, I think....SHE is better than US....I don't think so. Often, these marriages don't work out and that should tell us something.

<span style="font-weight: bold"> Bones says </span>

And what exactly does it tell us? That more than %50 of marriages don't work out regardless of color? You yourself are divorced - what should that tell us? It baffles me the things that you say to justify your position.

If you see a couple, why do you assume that he picked her b/c she is better than you? You can look on her physical attributes, but that far from defines a human or their desirability. You don't know the white woman's true character or why she is w/ whomever just by passing a couple on the street.




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[Tropicana]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Ok,lets look at some &quot;blanket statements......stated in this very thread about black men.

<span style="font-weight: bold">Nuff </span>a onoo love white meat

<span style="font-weight: bold">Some</span> of these guys are just lazy and spoiled as White women will buy them car and support dem

<span style="font-weight: bold">Some </span>of these guys love to freeload </div></div>

I stand by the NUFF in the first statement. Nuff means a lot. These are not blanket statements...note the word SOME not All, Not MANY, not even A GREAT MANY. I said Nuff and some and I am unanimous about that.

[mangoskin]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tropicana</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Tropi` if you yourself had met a nice white gentleman and marry would you have overlooked all the above,because despite all you`ve said with regards to the lynchings you yourself were prepared to date/or marry a white man if you werent overlooked for the pretty blondes. </div></div>

I have never set ANY restrictions based on race. A person is a person and there are good and evil in every race.

What I just can't understand is why Black men are flocking to the same White women who have betrayed them in the past. It makes NO sense to me. If the women lied and did not stand by them when they were castrated, <span style="font-weight: bold">in some cases forced to eat their own genitals, </span> burned and then lynched by a mob, then how can you trust them now. If the women weren't prepared to stand up for them and say that it was consensual sex, how can you trust them to stand up for you now? I just don't get it. Just do a quick google search about lynching and you will see what I mean. It's really quite gross and some of this could have been stopped if the White women had stood by their men. </div></div>

so that means that since the white man enslaved your ancestors over a century and half ago, you should NOT under any circumstances date or marry a white man.

[Tropicana]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> Actually if it does matter... Maybe they should put laws in place to prevent black men from marrying any one but black women... or stop men from having sex with anyone but black women.... </div></div>

Those laws were repealed in the 1970s in all states. They were called the anit-misegenation laws.

[neutral]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tropicana</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Tropi` if you yourself had met a nice white gentleman and marry would you have overlooked all the above,because despite all you`ve said with regards to the lynchings you yourself were prepared to date/or marry a white man if you werent overlooked for the pretty blondes. </div></div>

I have never set ANY restrictions based on race. A person is a person and there are good and evil in every race.

What I just can't understand is why Black men are flocking to the same White women who have betrayed them in the past. It makes NO sense to me. If the women lied and did not stand by them when they were castrated, <span style="font-weight: bold">in some cases forced to eat their own genitals, </span> burned and then lynched by a mob, then how can you trust them now. If the women weren't prepared to stand up for them and say that it was consensual sex, how can you trust them to stand up for you now? I just don't get it. Just do a quick google search about lynching and you will see what I mean. It's really quite gross and some of this could have been stopped if the White women had stood by their men. </div></div>

So with regards to my question,..are you saying that white men are more trustworthy than white women and its ok to date them but black men shouldnt trust white women.

[Tropicana]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Wahalla</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Tink about dis Paul Mccarty chose heather mills instead ah Tropi... </div></div>

Yes and she was a ho who had lesbian sex and group sex. Go figure, he thought SHE with her slutty self was better than me. Oops I forget she was blonde.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I also note that the really successful black women I have met recently.. Head of a tax departments of a energy company, parntern of a top three accountancy firm, head of trading at a bank were much more feminine than the black women who think themselves successful rather than actually being succesful... Those bank tellers and receptionists....</div></div>

...and don't forget the temp clerks from the agencies. Attitude seems to go with them regardless of race.

[mangoskin]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newt</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tropicana</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Tropi` if you yourself had met a nice white gentleman and marry would you have overlooked all the above,because despite all you`ve said with regards to the lynchings you yourself were prepared to date/or marry a white man if you werent overlooked for the pretty blondes. </div></div>

I have never set ANY restrictions based on race. A person is a person and there are good and evil in every race.

What I just can't understand is why Black men are flocking to the same White women who have betrayed them in the past. It makes NO sense to me. If the women lied and did not stand by them when they were castrated, <span style="font-weight: bold">in some cases forced to eat their own genitals, </span> burned and then lynched by a mob, then how can you trust them now. If the women weren't prepared to stand up for them and say that it was consensual sex, how can you trust them to stand up for you now? I just don't get it. Just do a quick google search about lynching and you will see what I mean. It's really quite gross and some of this could have been stopped if the White women had stood by their men. </div></div>

So with regards to my question,..are you saying that white men are more trustworthy than white women and its ok to date them but black men shouldnt trust white women. </div></div>

yes that's her argument..
she totally overlooks the fact that the white man enslaved, brutalized (and possibly raped) her 10x grand mothers

since she believes that bm should remember the US lynchings, she should also remember slavery days of the white master..
her argument is one sided

[Fyah]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newt</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Seems to me on this board people get tainted as soon as they offer a different opinion to the majority,if one doesnt agree with the homophobes on here they must be &quot;gay&quot;..if one offer a different opinion on interracial dating you must be &quot;married to a white woman&quot;.....if you dont believe in religion or the bible you`re &quot;hiding from something&quot;......there are very few people on here that actually conduct a discussion objectively without taking it down to a personal level. </div></div>

In my experience most atheist, homosexuals who are married to white women tend to have serious hangups and are therefore disagreed with the most on these types of bulletin boards.

[julie*mango]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

this [censored] never gets old..

[Tropicana]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

Mangoskin, there was some lynching in Canada and there were definitely crosses burned on lawns of Black people.


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CEW</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> Thanks; for me color/race is a non-issue. The thing that appeals to me is a woman's mind and how she uses it.</div></div>

...along with character....that is the way it should be. Men of ALL races should have that mindset instead of being so concerned about skin colour, big boobs, blonde hair, LANG hair, etc. But that is not the way of the world in which we live.

[neutral]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Runnah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newt</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Seems to me on this board people get tainted as soon as they offer a different opinion to the majority,if one doesnt agree with the homophobes on here they must be &quot;gay&quot;..if one offer a different opinion on interracial dating you must be &quot;married to a white woman&quot;.....if you dont believe in religion or the bible you`re &quot;hiding from something&quot;......there are very few people on here that actually conduct a discussion objectively without taking it down to a personal level. </div></div>

In my experience most atheist, homosexuals who are married to white women tend to have serious most hangups and are therefore disagreed with the most on these types of bulletin boards. </div></div>

Well I cant disagree with an experienced <span style="font-weight: bold"> troll</span> such as yourself,..you`ve obviously trolled enough boards of this type.

[Fyah]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newt</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Runnah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newt</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Seems to me on this board people get tainted as soon as they offer a different opinion to the majority,if one doesnt agree with the homophobes on here they must be &quot;gay&quot;..if one offer a different opinion on interracial dating you must be &quot;married to a white woman&quot;.....if you dont believe in religion or the bible you`re &quot;hiding from something&quot;......there are very few people on here that actually conduct a discussion objectively without taking it down to a personal level. </div></div>

In my experience most atheist, homosexuals who are married to white women tend to have serious most hangups and are therefore disagreed with the most on these types of bulletin boards. </div></div>

Well I cant disagree with an experienced <span style="font-weight: bold"> troll</span> such as yourself,..you`ve obviously trolled enough boards of this type. </div></div>

lol...and I always seem to BUMP into you.

[Tropicana]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: newt</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So with regards to my question,..are you saying that white men are more trustworthy than white women and its ok to date them but black men shouldnt trust white women. </div></div>

I never said anything of the kind. I asked a question and the question still has not been answered.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: mangoskin</div><div class="ubbcode-body">


yes that's her argument..
she totally overlooks the fact that the white man enslaved, brutalized (and possibly raped) her 10x grand mothers </div></div>

Mangoskin, you have interacted with me enough to know that I don't overlook ANY of that. In fact I am one of the main boardites to start threads along these lines. Mangoskin....there are not enough Black men to go around PERIOD. FULL STOP. FACT. END OF STORY. It is impossible for every Black woman to find a Black man as a partner unless we are going to bring back polygny. With respect to White men, frankly, I have found some of the White men who are available to Black women to be wanting. It is clear why some of them are prepared to look beyond their race as no White woman in her right mind would want them either.

There is a big, wide world out there and White is not the only game in town. Remember the majority of people in the world are not White.

[neutral]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tropicana</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Mangoskin, there was some lynching in Canada and there were definitely crosses burned on lawns of Black people.


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CEW</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> Thanks; for me color/race is a non-issue. The thing that appeals to me is a woman's mind and how she uses it.</div></div>

...along with character....that is the way it should be. Men of ALL races should have that mindset instead of being so concerned about skin colour, big boobs, blonde hair, LANG hair, etc. But that is not the way of the world in which we live. </div></div>

But I know black men who have also married white women with small boobs and short dark hair.

[dr. bones]

Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues

Tropi, you didn't respond to my post. I thought I was one of the few people on here that you don't have on ignore