Cancel the wedding??

[LusciousJohnson]

Re: Cancel the wedding??

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: ILP_N_Belly</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Fancy</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Peasie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Oh I see. She loves misery. Never mind. </div></div>

i mean i know i have a lot of old fashioned beliefs when it comes to serious relationships (not like mi dating fiasco mi have a gwaan right yah now ) but i feel like when you marry someone it should be for love and not for money, appearance, and just to be married or <span style="font-weight: bold">just to say i have someone that is committed to me </span>
when and IF i get married it will be to someone that i love and that loves me. not just to get married
i have waaaay to much fun being single so it aint that serious to me to be married and be miserable and stressed the hell out all the time </div></div>

one doesnt need to get married to have commitment. NOR does getting married mean you have commitment. </div></div>



but let her tell it, you dont have a REAL commitment unless you are married

she will get religious on you in a heartbeat talking about God doesnt recognize this and that unless you are husband and wife

[missus_vegas]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Fancy</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i think all but $300 would be refunded but i'm not sure...they put $300 down to secure the date. Then every month they have to make a payment of $600 towards the total cost. I think the total is somewhere around $7k. so i'm just guessing that the place would keep the $300 since that was what they HAD to put down just to secure the date. but i dont know how these things work so i guess they could be out more than just the $300 </div></div>

is dis di same fren weh har man no have him owna cell so him use hers and affi a call and badda u fi find out her where about?

or was dat smaddy else weh post di story...

anyways no mi nah marrij nobaddy weh mi a have doubts bout and weh mi plan fi divorce dat no mek sense

[LusciousJohnson]

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same one...

mi nah tink seh shi a tink bout di divorce pawt yet but mi KNOW seh shi woulda rather marrid fuss den divorce rather than cancel di weddin

[LusciousJohnson]

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OMG!!! she just left for the day and telling me that he found her chat messages on igoogle with some ex of hers and he was HOTT!

come to find out this is the reason she wanted to use my truck to go home and get her keys to her car b/c she was mad with him cuz he as acting a way and then when she got there he blasted her @ss about the ex

now she talking bout she have a headache and going home and this and that

this is too funny to me!

and she told her bf about it and found out her bf was talking to one of her friends about it and said that she dont think its gonna last. her bf typed it on igoogle chat and mistakenly typed it my friend and when she saw it she asked her was she talking about her and her fiance and her bf said no but she really was...

now her bf has just given her even more reason to go thru with it...just so she can prove a point to her bf and whatever friend she was chatting to about it

sascrise *sigh* and SMDH at dis BS


mi haffi bore unno wid dis fawt since mi haffi hear bout it pan di regula

wah di likkel gyal sey... mi done! mi DONE! MI DONE!
aye sah mi haffi laff fi kip fram

[missus_vegas]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Fancy</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
wah di likkel gyal sey... mi done! mi DONE! MI DONE!
aye sah mi haffi laff fi kip fram </div></div>

which likkle girl...is prim ooman dat. mi could watch dat video from now till a morning.

[Compry]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Fancy</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Would you cancel your wedding if you have spent like $5k for the venue and you found out the man you were gonna marry is not really who you thought he was?

or

would you just go through with it since you spent all that money and just get a divorce later like when you REALLY can't stand him anymore?

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Cancel. I would cancel if I find out at the alter that he's not who he said he was.

[Compry]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">has she mailed out invitations? bought dress? </div></div>

She can call everyone and let them know the wedding is off. If she can't get a refund on the dress, depending how much she bought the dress for, she can get a whole new wardrobe.

[kia027]

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I doan even know why this is a question..oh neva mind yes I do is cause she is the dizzy one wid de possessive boyfriend ...

she need to cut her losses now, especially since the way you write it she maynot be legally divorced from her 1st husband anyway \o/

[LusciousJohnson]

Re: Cancel the wedding??

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Vegas</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Fancy</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
wah di likkel gyal sey... mi done! mi DONE! MI DONE!
aye sah mi haffi laff fi kip fram </div></div>

which likkle girl...is prim ooman dat. mi could watch dat video from now till a morning. </div></div>

mi too

[LusciousJohnson]

Re: Cancel the wedding??

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Fancy</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Would you cancel your wedding if you have spent like $5k for the venue and you found out the man you were gonna marry is not really who you thought he was?

or

would you just go through with it since you spent all that money and just get a divorce later like when you REALLY can't stand him anymore?

</div></div>

Cancel. I would cancel if I find out at the alter that he's not who he said he was. </div></div>

thats what she said but the wedding still on

[LusciousJohnson]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I doan even know why this is a question..oh neva mind yes I do is cause she is the dizzy one wid de possessive boyfriend ...

she need to cut her losses now, especially since the way you write it she maynot be legally divorced from her 1st husband anyway \o/ </div></div>

she not legally divorced. and from what she tells me about the procedure something about 60 or 90 days for it to be final and then she has to wait 30 days or something before she can get married again. i dont know the exact amount of days but basically it comes out that her wedding day is literally weeks from the day she can legally be married. so i hope there are no glitches or anything cuz then she would have a wedding but the actual day she can legally be married wouldnt be til later

[Wendy]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> one doesnt need to get married to have commitment. NOR does getting married mean you have commitment</div></div>

Dat is so flipping true. Marriage truly doesn't define committment..but it still an institution that has it's merit

But Fancy it look like shi ago mek every excuse in di book ..including dash in likle religion fi goh troo wid it so we all can assume it's a done deal